I don't need a boyfriend

[Ambellina]

ok lets just say you got what you want
hangout and slept with this guy all has been great then all of a sudden got hooked up with one of your close friends
no text call or fb basta naglaho parang bula, ano kaya ang hitsura mo non? wala wondering lang kung paano ka na..

I'd be ok with that, but I would expect that he'd at least talk to me about it. After all, we're friends. If that's what makes him happy, then I'd be happy for him.

Let me spell this out plainly.
I'm not looking for a fubu. Ang fubu kasi parang regular sex partner lang. Kung yun lang kailangan ko, maraming pwede.

Ang gusto ko, yung magiging kaibigan ko talaga. Yung hindi maghehesitate sabihin sakin ano nasa isip niya because he knows I won't judge him for it. Someone who will support my ideas, no matter how insane they are. Someone who won't lie to me because he knows he can tell me anything. Someone who just would genuinely care how I am. The sex part is just a perk.

Now I want a guy who could be all this, but not be my boyfriend. I won't sleep with anyone else. I won't date anyone else. I won't even flirt with anyone else. For all intents and purposes, I'm his property. But I won't love him romantically.

If time comes that he'd want to have a relationship with someone else, by all means. I'll be happy for him. I'll keep being friends with him. Ganun lang kasimple sakin yun.

 

[xngqel]

I'd be ok with that, but I would expect that he'd at least talk to me about it. After all, we're friends. If that's what makes him happy, then I'd be happy for him.

Let me spell this out plainly.
I'm not looking for a fubu. Ang fubu kasi parang regular sex partner lang. Kung yun lang kailangan ko, maraming pwede.

Ang gusto ko, yung magiging kaibigan ko talaga. Yung hindi maghehesitate sabihin sakin ano nasa isip niya because he knows I won't judge him for it. Someone who will support my ideas, no matter how insane they are. Someone who won't lie to me because he knows he can tell me anything. Someone who just would genuinely care how I am. The sex part is just a perk.

Now I want a guy who could be all this, but not be my boyfriend. I won't sleep with anyone else. I won't date anyone else. I won't even flirt with anyone else. For all intents and purposes, I'm his property. But I won't love him romantically.

If time comes that he'd want to have a relationship with someone else, by all means. I'll be happy for him. I'll keep being friends with him. Ganun lang kasimple sakin yun.

ok repeat process
naging matalik mo syang kaibigan
nakikinig sa mga problema mo
tinuturuan ka mag gitara
niyayakap ka
all has been great

then all of a sudden nagkagusto sya sa close friend mo
ni hao or ano hindi na sya nagparamdam sayo
at talagang umiiwas sya sayo

then one day isang araw nakita mo siya may tinuturuang mag gitara na iba
kayakap ang close friend mo na inahas ka
mwahahaha

o ano ka ngayon?

 

[Ambellina]

ok repeat process
naging matalik mo syang kaibigan
nakikinig sa mga problema mo
tinuturuan ka mag gitara
niyayakap ka
all has been great

then all of a sudden nagkagusto sya sa close friend mo
ni hao or ano hindi na sya nagparamdam sayo
at talagang umiiwas sya sayo

then one day isang araw nakita mo siya may tinuturuang mag gitara na iba
kayakap ang close friend mo na inahas ka
mwahahaha

o ano ka ngayon?

you're not getting the point.

I don't care.

kung magkagusto siya sa close friend ko, sasama ang loob ko KUNG hindi niya sasabihin sakin. Yes, I'm that kind of person. Kung kakausapin niya ko about it, I'd be ok with it. Kung like you said, bigla na siya hindi nagparamdam, then I'd be offended. Masasaktan ako hindi dahil gusto niya yung kaibigan ko, but because he didn't trust me well enough to know that he can be honest to me about it.

I don't see it as "inahas". He just found someone else he likes better. It happens. Life goes on.

 

[xngqel]

you're not getting the point.

I don't care.

kung magkagusto siya sa close friend ko, sasama ang loob ko KUNG hindi niya sasabihin sakin. Yes, I'm that kind of person. Kung kakausapin niya ko about it, I'd be ok with it. Kung like you said, bigla na siya hindi nagparamdam, then I'd be offended. Masasaktan ako hindi dahil gusto niya yung kaibigan ko, but because he didn't trust me well enough to know that he can be honest to me about it.

I don't see it as "inahas". He just found someone else he likes better. It happens. Life goes on.

you're the one who's blinded


syempre makikita kayo ng mga kapitbahay nyo, kaibigan nyo, family mo at pati na aso mo
at some point makikita kayong sweet
nakapbuild ng trust sa mga relatives mo
nirerespeto na sya ng aso mo

then naging sila ng close friend mo
ano ka ngayon? haha
isang malaking joke sa mga friends and family mo
laugh trip ng mga kapitbahay nyo
(not unless you live in an isolated cave)

ano na lang iisipin ng aso mo sayo?

 

[Ambellina]

you're the one who's blinded


syempre makikita kayo ng mga kapitbahay nyo, kaibigan nyo, family mo at pati na aso mo
at some point makikita kayong sweet
nakapbuild ng trust sa mga relatives mo
nirerespeto na sya ng aso mo

then naging sila ng close friend mo
ano ka ngayon? haha
isang malaking joke sa mga friends and family mo
laugh trip ng mga kapitbahay nyo
(not unless you live in an isolated cave)

ano na lang iisipin ng aso mo sayo?

do I seem like someone who cares what other people think? the society does not dictate how my brain works.

they can think of me as a joke for all I care. at least I'm not living a miserable and mundane life.

 

[xngqel]

do I seem like someone who cares what other people think? the society does not dictate how my brain works.

they can think of me as a joke for all I care. at least I'm not living a miserable and mundane life.

if that ever happen you might live a lonely life, a lonely miserable life
always seeking that is someone like him
and in your lifetime you might never find someone like him, for all you care

 

[Ambellina]

if that ever happens you might live a lonely life, a lonely miserable life
always seeking someone like him
and ypur lifetime you might never find someone like him, for all you care

Wow. You sir, are blowing this way out of proportion. Like I said, I just don't need a relationship right now. I didn't say I won't be in one in the future. You're being prejudiced about my being opinionated.

 

[xngqel]

ok i should take your thoughts lightly
pero impossible na hindi maka leave ng impression sayo lalo na if things just works out
hahanap at hahanapin mo ung taong iyon
nagbigay ka ng trust, tapos biglang mawawala ung taong iyon kasi nga hindi naman commited sayo
ano un? bula?
para kang airasia na nawala sa ere


kahit nga kaibigan may obligasyon sa kapwa nila kaibigan
ano ba yung sinasabi mo dyan?
hindi ko maimagine eh

 

[Jaeope]

Sa mga ganyang case isa lang masasabi ko introvert at may sociel anxiety problem.. naghahanap ng attention sa ibang tao but she did not care on what will be the consequences kapag yung naging kaibigan nya ay tipong nahulog na yung loob nya sa kanya. It's like she's going to end up with a temporary, robot and not in this world-friend

 

[Ambellina]

ok i should take your thoughts lightly
pero impossible na hindi maka leave ng impression sayo lalo na if things just works out
hahanap at hahanapin mo ung taong iyon
nagbigay ka ng trust, tapos biglang mawawala ung taong iyon kasi nga hindi naman commited sayo
ano un? bula?
para kang airasia na nawala sa ere


kahit nga kaibigan may obligasyon sa kapwa nila kaibigan
ano ba yung sinasabi mo dyan?
hindi ko maimagine eh

it's not impossible. I've done it in the past. I know people who do it. just because you don't understand it, doesn't make it less real.

Sa mga ganyang case isa lang masasabi ko introvert at may sociel anxiety problem.. naghahanap ng attention sa ibang tao but she did not care on what will be the consequences kapag yung naging kaibigan nya ay tipong nahulog na yung loob nya sa kanya. It's like she's going to end up with a temporary, robot and not in this world-friend

yes, i'm introverted but no, i don't have social anxiety.

seriously, nagbabasa ba kayo? how can you say na wala akong care sa consequences when I'm trying to make it as simple as possible? there's a risk on both ends. of course i care if he unwillingly falls for me. he's my friend for christsakes! when that happens we'll deal with it. but i'd rather avoid it. i don't want it. i don't want to end up hurting anyone. wala akong pinipilit.

 

[noodles29]

Hahah ayus ) gnyan dpt tlga no attachments pra ok ok sa laht ng bagay Haha i salute u sis )

 

[kuro]

I respect you ts. They just don't understand you.

For me, di napapalitan yung totoong kaibigan eh. Pagdating sa bf/gf, we can't say na kayo na talaga forever at mapapalitan pa.

 

[axl logic]

nice style girl, all you need is like me... stay with me and you'll be solve...

 

[amanoma010]

Sa mga ganyang case isa lang masasabi ko introvert at may sociel anxiety problem.. naghahanap ng attention sa ibang tao but she did not care on what will be the consequences kapag yung naging kaibigan nya ay tipong nahulog na yung loob nya sa kanya. It's like she's going to end up with a temporary, robot and not in this world-friend

Nakuha ni kuha kung anung klaseng tao si girl
simple lang naman kaya nya inumpishan tong thread n to eh, eh ung ilbas ung nais sabihin at mapansin kasi gnyan nga syang tao
luv u TS hahaha peace

 

[otepniulan18]

I want to talk to you ts personally.. May mga gusto lang ako itanong at malaman..

 

[arwin00139]

ang intense ng usapan dito. bilib ako kay ts, ganun lang gusto ni TS, ilang taon kanaba TS? if you don't mind.

 

[Ambellina]

Hahah ayus ) gnyan dpt tlga no attachments pra ok ok sa laht ng bagay Haha i salute u sis )

thanks!

I respect you ts. They just don't understand you.

For me, di napapalitan yung totoong kaibigan eh. Pagdating sa bf/gf, we can't say na kayo na talaga forever at mapapalitan pa.

finally! someone who understands! i value friendship that much.

nice style girl, all you need is like me... stay with me and you'll be solve...

sorry but I don't need someone who can't get their tenses right

Nakuha ni kuha kung anung klaseng tao si girl
simple lang naman kaya nya inumpishan tong thread n to eh, eh ung ilbas ung nais sabihin at mapansin kasi gnyan nga syang tao
luv u TS hahaha peace

hindi ako nagpapansin. malay ko ba na may papansin nito.

I want to talk to you ts personally.. May mga gusto lang ako itanong at malaman..

lol, whatever it is you need to ask, you can do so online.

ang intense ng usapan dito. bilib ako kay ts, ganun lang gusto ni TS, ilang taon kanaba TS? if you don't mind.

I'm already 30. At this age, most women are already starting to settle down. But not me, I still have a lot of personal goals I'd like to accomplish.

 

[arwin00139]

personal goals? like what? do you have children?

 

[dennijen]

I do understand you TS..

Well... you are an interesting person and a complicated one.
I just hope you found what you are looking for specially a person with aleast 120 IQ level.
Well if you do found that person, CONGRATS!

 

[prettyboyody]

sabi mo lang yan dahil walang nagkakagusto sa'yo..

#bittersabuhay