What Every Girl Must Know

[homeboyz06]

ang bangis..bow..

 

[homeboyz06]

ang bangis..idol

 

[Giie]

TRUE !

 

[shyguy_0013]

nice post!

pa copy ha!

mention na lang kita for the credits!

thanks!

 

[bravebrian]

tama nga naman si ts

Salamat naman kung naintindihan and naapprecaite mo. I really hope that you share to this to others. Kahit ala nang thankz basta na i-share niyo sa iba ok na sa ken un. God bless

ang bangis..bow..

Kay Lord galing yan, sinabi niya lang sa ken. Sa Diyos ang papuri.
God Bless

TRUE !

Praise God.

nice post!

pa copy ha!

mention na lang kita for the credits!

thanks!

You're very much welcome sir. keep sharing lang po. Masaya na po ako dun.

If you have also other concerns. regarding relationships. I'll try my best to give you some insights. God bless po ulit sa inyong lahat.

 

[bravebrian]

Tnx sa mga natulungan nito. I really hope that mabawasan ung mga biktima ng maling sistema at paniniwala. A long time ago kase a had this passion para malaman bakit nga ba maraming babae ang biktima ng broken relationship. I also have close relatives who's become a victim of these. It took me many years para maintindihan ko ito. Nasa Bible pala ang sagot. If you have difficulties in life I advice you all to read the Bible.

Isa pang natutunan ko about this is
"There's no way na makalalamang ang girl sa guy sa kahit sa anong klaseng relationship except if the guy allows it"

I'll give an example about this:

Sino sa tingin niyo sino ang lamang sa sitwasyon na eto?
ung Matandang Mayamang Lalaki na madaling mamatay (thats 3M) at napangasawa ng magandang batang babaeng.

points:
1. Pinakasalan ng babae ang lalaki dahil sa pera.
2. Pinakasalan ng lalaki ang babae dahil sa bata siya at maganda
3. Para sa babae ibinenta niya ang kanyang kamusmusan "Ano kaya ang halaga ng kamusmusan na iyon sa kanya?"
4. Para naman sa lalaki Binayaran niya ng Pera ang babae "Ano naman kaya ang halaga ng pera sa isang taong mayaman at malapit ng mamatay?

The way I see it is.

Parang kang nakipagpalit ng bato sa ginto.

I'm not saying that it's hopeless for the girls to find the right man.
I'm sure God has prepared someone just for you.
Pero san kaya nakakakita ng tamang lalake with the right principles?
This is a hard question diba? Well that I cannot answer.
Ang tip ko lng sa inyo eh.
"kung bibile ka ba ng Isda sa hardware ka ba pupunta?

God Bless ulit. till next time

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[bravebrian]

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[bravebrian]

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[moja1977]

kahit lalaki ako, agree ako sayo TS

 

[bravebrian]

Thanks sa mga naka-appreciate.
I'm open for your questions. personal or anything regarding relationships
I advise you to use third persons if you're not comfortable.

God Bless to all.

 

[bravebrian]

what is true love? Here it is.

1 if i speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, i am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 if i have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if i have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, i am nothing. 3 if i give all i possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that i may boast, but do not have love, i gain nothing.

4 love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 it does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8 love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 for we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 when i was a child, i talked like a child, i thought like a child, i reasoned like a child. When i became a man, i put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 for now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now i know in part; then i shall know fully, even as i am fully known.

13 and now these three remain: Faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

1 corinthians 13 (niv)


we all know that there is different kinds ok love. Divine love - love of god, paternal love - love of parents, romantic love - love of opposite sex etc...

But what we have not been knowing are its characteristics.

Why do we have different meanings of love? Why do we have our own meaning when it is already been clearly defined in the bible. Is it because we are wiser than those who wrote the bible? Or is it that the love defined in the bible does not truly exist in reality thats why we don't accept it?


The love defined here is not only divine love (love of god).

We know that god can love us perfectly like this.

But paul wrote this...

1 if i speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, i am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 if i have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if i have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, i am nothing. 3 if i give all i possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that i may boast, but do not have love, i gain nothing.

He is talking about himself as an example...

Love is something that he must have in him...

What i mean is we and paul can also love like this. And god made us capable of doing so.

it is not impossible to love like this


let's talk about love:

4 love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 itdoes not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

If you will notice. All of the characteristics of love is something that we must do. it is not something that we feel.

Lets look at the king james version (first english version of the bible)

4 charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,

5 doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;

6 rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;

7 beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

1 corinthians 13 (kjv)


you will also notice that the original word used is charity ( is giving without asking something in return)

it is impossible for a person to love who does not know how to give.


1. If you are patient then you are loving

2. If you are kind then you are loving

3. If do not envy (jealous) then you are loving

4. If you do not boast on what you do then you are loving

5. If do not dishonor others then you are loving

6. If you are not self-seeking (selfishness) then you are loving

7. If you are not easily angered then you are loving

8. If you do not keep record of wrongs then you are loving

9. If you hate evil and rejoices with the truth then you are loving

10. If you always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres then you are loving

if what you called love lacks even one of these then think again.
And doing all of these makes you sure that you are loving right.
doing these things takes time to perfect. By constant prayer and practice.
You will know that you perfected it

"if you felt happiness and peace every time you do it"

"there is no difference between a person who knows but does not do it to a person who does not know it at all"


god bless...^^,

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[bravebrian]

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[bravebrian]

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[exckel]

Tingin ko mas okay din mga girls kung kakaibiganin niyo yung guy. I mean kung type mo na ang isang guy try mo muna makipagkaibigan sakanya para at least malaman mo ugali talaga...

 

[bravebrian]

The best protection is simple by saying "NO".

This is your guide to say no on pre-marital sex.

A. For the those have not yet engage:

1. If your BF always insist you to do the "Bed thing".
He violates the characteristic of LOVE;
a. "Love is patient"
= Patient is a virtue ika nga ng iba. the guy must always respect your desicion regarding this matters. And support you principles in life.
b. "Love does not dishonor others"
= Kase if a girl loses his virginity kasabay nito eh ung honor niya, lalo na kung hindi pa sila kasal.
c. "Love is not self-seeking"
= eh ano naman ang purpose bakit pa kailangan nun? Para ipakita mo na mahal mo rin siya kaya pinagagawa niya eto sayo? Common lets just be honest. hindi eto ang batayan ng tunay na pagmamahal. Kung eto ang batayan niya ng pagmamahal I-break mo na yan. He is just selfish.
d. "Love hates the wrong and rejoices with the truth"
= it is just not right to have pre-marital sex. thats the truth. Kung sa tingin niyo eh ok lang eto then its your problem na. Sex doesn't guarantee for your relationship to last infact it sometimes or may always be the reasons of many break-ups.

Do not treat yourself as a tool for pleasure. Respect yourself and surely the people around you will.

B. For those who have already engaged

Admit your past mistakes and never do it again. Kase if you do the same thing you'll end up having the same results.
Your new BF is entitled to know this. Maganda kung mas maaga niya malaman or kung bago mo siya sinagot eh nasabi mo na eto.
Para atleast alam mo na willing siyang tanggapin ka.

a. Just read the guide above. for it also applies to you
= simple lang naman ang isasagot mo eh. ayaw mo nang ulit magkamali. Yun lang ang dahilan mo. Kasi nung nag yes ka sa first eh pagkakamali na yun eh.
"Para ka niyang niyayaya gumawa ng isang bagay na mali"
Dito papasok yung pagiging firm mo sa desicions mo. Isa pa, If His intentions are good then he will not even bother to ask you about it.

Although you don't already have "that" special gift for your husband to be.
I know for sure that God prepare someone who will accept you and your past mistakes. Someone who will accept what you are now.

Kaya maraming babae ang nagkakamali dito is because they neglect one very important command in the Bible. that is
"Love your God with all your heart, with all your mind, and soul"
and pangalawa lang dapat dito ang kapwa.

Ang nangyayari kasi eh mas minamahal nila ung mga lalaki kesa sa Diyos. They can even say that "sa kanya umiikot ang mundo ko" and "siya lang ang dahilan kung bakit ako nabubuhay". which is a big lie. Hindi naman sila namatay agad nung nag break sila. And ung nagpapakamatay but hindi ung lalaki ang dahilan. It is their lack of knowledge and understanding.

I hope this open up something in your mind.
God Loves You.

 

[bravebrian]

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[pterpol]

Wow, mukhang maganda ang thread na toh.
Pa subscribe ako TS.

 

[bravebrian]

Wow, mukhang maganda ang thread na toh.
Pa subscribe ako TS.

you're very much welcome po.
Sana marami kayo mapulot sa thread na eto and keep sharing lang po.

God Bless

 

[bravebrian]

I'm open po for your comments and questions relationships.
I'll try my best to answer it based on True Love.

God bless po ulit.

 

[bravebrian]

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