What Every Girl Must Know

[mrCORPS]

Pinakasalan ng lalaki ang babae dahil
sa bata siya at maganda <== parang ito yung situation ko.actualy yung 3 year gf ko 27 na ang new gf ko 24 pa lang.kung sa kasexyhan naman mas sexy ung 3 years gf ko.yung new gf ko marami lang sila pera at palagi ko na kakasama..eh si 3 years gf ko minsan ko lang makasama.hai ang gulo ng love..ayoko rin naman mawalan ng gf!

 

[bravebrian]

Pinakasalan ng lalaki ang babae dahil
sa bata siya at maganda <== parang ito yung situation ko.actualy yung 3 year gf ko 27 na ang new gf ko 24 pa lang.kung sa kasexyhan naman mas sexy ung 3 years gf ko.yung new gf ko marami lang sila pera at palagi ko na kakasama..eh si 3 years gf ko minsan ko lang makasama.hai ang gulo ng love..ayoko rin naman mawalan ng gf!

Hindi magulo ang love sir. It's just that we don't try to understand its true nature. Ngayon kung ang lagi mong iisipin na na pipili ka ng babae kung saan ka sasaya eh hindi tunay na pagmamahal yan. Paano kung dumating ung time na hindi ka naging masaya eh di aayawan mo na at maghahanap ka ulit kung saan ka sasaya.
Tapos tingin mo pa rin dun nagmamahal ka?
Infatuation is not love. Lust is totally different from love.
Faith and Hope is also diffrerent.
I hope you had read the characteristics of true love sa thread na ito.
Then isipin mo kung ganun nga ang ginagawa mo. If you missed even one of those then it is not love at all.

God bless po.

 

[mrCORPS]

maraming salamat..dahil sa inyo aayosin ko na ang relasyon ko sa gf ko na una..

 

[bravebrian]

maraming salamat..dahil sa inyo aayosin ko na ang relasyon ko sa gf ko na una..

Sana nga naintindihan mo eto.
Kasi hindi ka matutulungan nito kung hindi mo rin lang gagawin.
And worse case is kung ano itinanim mo is un ang aanihin mo.

Always remember true love is attainable. We just need to practice it.

God Bless po.

 

[bravebrian]

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[notevirus7]

Ang lalaki magaling lang pag nanliligaw.

Ang babae naman magaling lang pag may kailangan.

Peace sa mga girls alam kong d kayo ganyan lahat yung mga gusto ko kasing babae ganyan

 

[bravebrian]

up lang po ulit

 

[bravebrian]

Now Open For Questions. up topic.

 

[gabionzkee]

Galing. oo nga naman!
Salamat d2 ts!

 

[bravebrian]

Galing. oo nga naman!
Salamat d2 ts!

Thanks to God if this Thought has reached you.
May it dwell in your heart forever.

God Bless.

 

[iantayao]

you got it!

 

[alexboi]

galing ni TS....nice point of view....

 

[bravebrian]

galing ni TS....nice point of view....

To God be the Glory po.
Don't forget to share lang po para naman po maraming maabot.

God Bless po.

 

[bravebrian]

up topic lang po

 

[bravebrian]

Up lang po

 

[bravebrian]

God bless to all

 

[bravebrian]

Before I start I want to share some facts:

1.All guys that courted a girl doesn't mean he already loves her. At first he only WANTS her.
2.Most of the girls (most not all) use their HEART to analyze the guys who courts them.
3.Girls are more emotional than guys. (wala ng kokontra d2)
4.Birds of the same feather flocks together.
5.There is no permanent thing in this world except to ONE.(ano kaya un?)
All people change as time goes by...affecting their beliefs, morals, habits, attitude, etc.

ok lets start with my ipinion.
I ask several girls kung anu ang hinahanap nila sa guys
na nanliligaw sa kanila and the top answer is

"Does he really LOVE me?"
in tagalog
"Seryoso ba sa ken tong lalaki na to?".

I think there is something wrong in this.

coz there is no guy would truly say that he
already loves the woman he's courting.

sa simula kase eh GUSTO LANG.

isa pa. LOVE ba kamo.
Cge ask ko kayo
ano ang meaning ng LOVE sa inyo?
cguro ung iba "Love is Blind" well kung ganyan lng ang pamantayan
ng Love nyo eh panu nyo nga malalaman na mahal kau nung guy. Gets?

Para kayong naghahanap ng isang bagay na hindi nyo alam kung anu un.

(kung gusto nyo malaman ang ibig sabihin ng perfect love read the bible)
1 corinthians 13:4-10 then try comparing kung anu ang love para sa inyo.

Mali ang tanong ng mga girls sa sarili nila tungkol d2.
Sa tingin ko dapat ang tanong nyo sa sarili nyo eh ganito:

"What are his intensions?" in tagalog
"Ano bang gusto nito to sa ken".

Well kung gagamitin nyo lng maigi ang isip nyo
as in gagamitin talaga.
Madali malaman ang intension ng guys sa inyo
Cguro alam nyo nyo na ung isang pinaka obvious d2.
Mas madali malaman ang intensions ng guys if sinagot nyo na.

May konting mali kc sa courtship d2 sa tin eh. Kinikilala ng
mga girls ung guys habang nanliligaw sa kanila. Sa tingin ko mali.

Meron ba namang guy na nagpakita ng masamang ugali during courting.
Well pwedeng makita nyo ung iba pero ung pinaka tinatago nyang ugali
di nyo makikita.
marami rin ngang nagsasabi n nung naging mag-asawa
na sila tsaka lang lumabas ung ibang ugali na di kgandahan eh.
what else if nanliligaw p lng.

Kadalasan kasing scenario ay ganito:

1st. liligawan ng guy ung girl
2nd. Mahuhulog na ung loob ng gurl sa guy
3rd. Sasagutin na nya
4th. Habang cla tsaka lalabas ung mga pangit ng ugali at intensions ng guy
5th. Hirap nang makipagbreak ung girl kc "mahal" na nya
6th. Darating ung time na nakuha na ng guy ung WANTS nya
7th. Break-up

Bkit di nyo i-try sagutin ung guy ng hindi pa nahuhulog ung loob nyo
tapos during the time na mag-on kau tsaka niyo cya i-analyze.

DON"T FORGET TO KNOW HIS INTENSIONS!!!

then kapag alam niyo na madali na magdesisyon kung anu susunod na gagawin
Madali hiwalayan kc di pa naman nyo cya ganun kagusto.("love" or whatever you call it)

I'm not saying na sagutin nyo lahat ng suitors nyo agad.
Isipin niyo may nagaaply sa inyo ng trabaho.
Diba cyempre may first screening, 2nd screening @ interviews un
Kung sa first screening bagsak n e di wag nyo na sagutin.

Two important pointers During Mag-on.

1.Know His Family!!!
Panu ba siya makitungo sa pamilya nya? Or close b silang buong pamilya?
kc kung sa sarili niyang pamilya di cya ganun kabaet
Panu pa dun sa girl n GF nya p lng.(Ooops di kaya pakitang tao lng)
Importante malaman niyo kung anong klaseng pamilya meron tong taong to.
Inde nagbubunga ng santol ang puno ng mangga.

2.Know His Friends!!!
tell me who your friends are, and I will tell you who you are.
well kung di nyo kilala or di kau pinakikilala sa mga kaibigan nya
1000% niloloko lng kau nyan.
Masama nyan di nyo pa alam kung saan nakatira.

Knowing a person takes time. And on my point of view
"A person's personality is almost part Family influence and part Peers influence depends on which he spent most of his time"

Last na tip ko sa inyo:

Ask straight the guy if anu plano niya bakit ka niya nililigawan.
If he's willing to marry you then it's ok.
if not then why is he courting you?
di ba't eto dapat ang main reason ng panliligaw.
"Liligawan mo lang kung sino ang gusto mo makasama habang buhay"
kung may magsasabi ba sa inyong manliligaw na...
"pede ba kita maging KASINTAHAN ngayon pero wala akong planong pakasalan ka ha"
sasagutin niyo ba?
well kung sinasagot niyo pa ang mga ganyang klaseng lalaki eh kasalanan niyo na.

Para naman sa inyong mga girls kung di pa kau handa magpakasal
wag kau sasagot ng guy.
Tanong ko naman sa inyo eh.
Bakit niyo naman sasagutin eh inde pa pala kau handa mag-asawa.?

God Bless You All

I'm open for your questions If there's any. Hit thanks if this help.

What is True Love? Here it is.

1 If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is LOVE.

1 Corinthians 13 (NIV)


We all know that there is different kinds ok love. Divine love - love of God, Paternal love - love of parents, Romantic love - love of opposite sex etc...

But what we have not been knowing are its characteristics.

Why do we have different meanings of Love? why do we have our own meaning when it is already been clearly defined in the Bible. Is it because we are wiser than those who wrote the bible? Or is it that the Love defined in the bible does not truly exist in reality thats why we don't accept it?


The Love defined here is not only Divine Love (love of God).

We know that God can love us perfectly like this.

But Paul wrote this...

1 If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

He is talking about himself as an example...

Love is something that he must have in him...

What I mean is We and Paul can also love like this. And God made us capable of doing so.

It is not impossible to Love like this


Let's talk about Love:

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 Itdoes not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

If you will notice. all of the characteristics of love is something that we must do. it is not something that we feel.

Lets look at the King James Version (first english version of the bible)

4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,

5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;

6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;

7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

1 Corinthians 13 (KJV)


You will also notice that the original word used is Charity ( is giving without asking something in return)

It is impossible for a person to love who does not know how to give.


1. If you are patient then you are loving

2. If you are kind then you are loving

3. If do not envy (jealous) then you are loving

4. If you do not boast on what you do then you are loving

5. If do not dishonor others then you are loving

6. If you are not self-seeking (selfishness) then you are loving

7. If you are not easily angered then you are loving

8. If you do not keep record of wrongs then you are loving

9. If you hate evil and rejoices with the truth then you are loving

10. If you always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres then you are loving

If what you called love lacks even one of these then think again.
And doing all of these makes you sure that you are loving right.
doing these things takes time to perfect. by constant prayer and practice.
You will know that you perfected it

"If you felt happiness and peace every time you do it"

"There is no difference between a person who knows but does not do it to a person who does not know it at all"


God Bless...^^,

Tnx sa mga natulungan nito. I really hope that mabawasan ung mga biktima ng maling sistema at paniniwala. A long time ago kase a had this passion para malaman bakit nga ba maraming babae ang biktima ng broken relationship. I also have close relatives who's become a victim of these. It took me many years para maintindihan ko ito. Nasa Bible pala ang sagot. If you have difficulties in life I advice you all to read the Bible.

Isa pang natutunan ko about this is
"There's no way na makalalamang ang girl sa guy sa kahit sa anong klaseng relationship except if the guy allows it"

I'll give an example about this:

Sino sa tingin niyo sino ang lamang sa sitwasyon na eto?
ung Matandang Mayamang Lalaki na madaling mamatay (thats 3M) at napangasawa ng magandang batang babaeng.

points:
1. Pinakasalan ng babae ang lalaki dahil sa pera.
2. Pinakasalan ng lalaki ang babae dahil sa bata siya at maganda
3. Para sa babae ibinenta niya ang kanyang kamusmusan "Ano kaya ang halaga ng kamusmusan na iyon sa kanya?"
4. Para naman sa lalaki Binayaran niya ng Pera ang babae "Ano naman kaya ang halaga ng pera sa isang taong mayaman at malapit ng mamatay?

The way I see it is.

Parang kang nakipagpalit ng bato sa ginto.

I'm not saying that it's hopeless for the girls to find the right man.
I'm sure God has prepared someone just for you.
Pero san kaya nakakakita ng tamang lalake with the right principles?
This is a hard question diba? Well that I cannot answer.
Ang tip ko lng sa inyo eh.
"kung bibile ka ba ng Isda sa hardware ka ba pupunta?

God Bless ulit. till next time

The best protection is simple by saying "NO".

This is your guide to say no on pre-marital sex.

A. For the those have not yet engage:

1. If your BF always insist you to do the "Bed thing".
He violates the characteristic of LOVE;
a. "Love is patient"
= Patient is a virtue ika nga ng iba. the guy must always respect your desicion regarding this matters. And support you principles in life.
b. "Love does not dishonor others"
= Kase if a girl loses his virginity kasabay nito eh ung honor niya, lalo na kung hindi pa sila kasal.
c. "Love is not self-seeking"
= eh ano naman ang purpose bakit pa kailangan nun? Para ipakita mo na mahal mo rin siya kaya pinagagawa niya eto sayo? Common lets just be honest. hindi eto ang batayan ng tunay na pagmamahal. Kung eto ang batayan niya ng pagmamahal I-break mo na yan. He is just selfish.
d. "Love hates the wrong and rejoices with the truth"
= it is just not right to have pre-marital sex. thats the truth. Kung sa tingin niyo eh ok lang eto then its your problem na. Sex doesn't guarantee for your relationship to last infact it sometimes or may always be the reasons of many break-ups.

Do not treat yourself as a tool for pleasure. Respect yourself and surely the people around you will.

B. For those who have already engaged

Admit your past mistakes and never do it again. Kase if you do the same thing you'll end up having the same results.
Your new BF is entitled to know this. Maganda kung mas maaga niya malaman or kung bago mo siya sinagot eh nasabi mo na eto.
Para atleast alam mo na willing siyang tanggapin ka.

a. Just read the guide above. for it also applies to you
= simple lang naman ang isasagot mo eh. ayaw mo nang ulit magkamali. Yun lang ang dahilan mo. Kasi nung nag yes ka sa first eh pagkakamali na yun eh.
"Para ka niyang niyayaya gumawa ng isang bagay na mali"
Dito papasok yung pagiging firm mo sa desicions mo. Isa pa, If His intentions are good then he will not even bother to ask you about it.

Although you don't already have "that" special gift for your husband to be.
I know for sure that God prepare someone who will accept you and your past mistakes. Someone who will accept what you are now.

Kaya maraming babae ang nagkakamali dito is because they neglect one very important command in the Bible. that is
"Love your God with all your heart, with all your mind, and soul"
and pangalawa lang dapat dito ang kapwa.

Ang nangyayari kasi eh mas minamahal nila ung mga lalaki kesa sa Diyos. They can even say that "sa kanya umiikot ang mundo ko" and "siya lang ang dahilan kung bakit ako nabubuhay". which is a big lie. Hindi naman sila namatay agad nung nag break sila. And ung nagpapakamatay but hindi ung lalaki ang dahilan. It is their lack of knowledge and understanding.

I hope this open up something in your mind.
God Loves You.

Up for those who still doesn't know.
God Bless

 

[bravebrian]

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[bravebrian]

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[bravebrian]

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