GUYS, any questions?? sasagutin naming mga girls...

[Tidus_121586]

please hear me out, kc ung gf ko nagalit sa akin na d ko alam ang dahilan...tapos sabi na lang ng kaibigan nya nakita daw nya yearbook ko.. Sabi ko naman bakit naman xa magagalit sa yearbuk? Un pala nakita nya ung pic ng ex ko, tas sabi magkahawig daw cla tas pareho pa na sept. ang b-day nila. Sabi nya d pa daw aq nakakapagmuv on,tas lagi na nyang kinacancel tawag q..nitry q naman mgexplain,kaso ayaw makinig...kung minsan d q talaga xa maintindihan.. Wala lang kc aqng mapagsabihan...

 

[BatangCebu45]

haha,, thnx winay.. kayo jan girls?? d ba kayo mag repz???

 

[pudge004]

Kung ang gf moh nahuli mong may iba . . Tapos nagkahiwalay kayo. . . Then after few months ganito ang sabi niya . . .

Thank you for giving me the time to know my self and i know that the right time will gona happen for the both of us. . .

Anu talaga ang ibig sabihin niya?

 

[+Blood+]

I have new q's..

1.Madali ba talaga makamove on ang girl kaysa guy? specialy sa mga guys na nainlove talaga sa GF nila pero iniwan din sila... O pareho lang?

2.Meant to be.. Naniniwala ba kayo nito? kayo mga girls? How bout guys?

3.Naniniwala rin ba kayo na sa kasabihan nito "kaya tayo iniiwan ng mga mahal natin sa buhay kasi may mas darating pa at higit tayong mamahalin"...

4.Friends na mag On dati.. May benefits pa ba nangyayare sa 2 dating mag on pero friends na lang sila ngaun? E,ano magiging result nun sa girl? How bout if parang natural lang sa girl yun?(magreact kayo guys & gurls ok)

yan ang naisip ko ngayon itanong i hope may marami ako matatanggap na sagot galing sa inyo mga kaSB..

 

[simouny23]

ur welcome po!

chase her... approach her that is... like you told us matagal na kayo magkakilala. it's ur edge (but not guarantee.) like simoun said, (bro we shared the same thoughts, hooray!) you don't have be someone else... be yourself. be real.

since, nasa early stage ka po, visit her and spend time with her - everything will flow, you'll know what you'll need to do next. take it slowly and step-by-step. get to know her more. 3 years kayo di nagkita.. talk about it. be a gentlemen. she shown signs naman that she like you... 'wag ka na mag-doubt sa sarili mo...

this is a bit tricky, between courting and attracting... start on attracting. why? sometimes girl tend to run kapag alam nila nililigawan sila agad, the gud news is she shown signs that she's comfortable with you. in attracting, let her discover, the real you - that's the best queue for you. no pretentions, just be yourself. don't worry about this stage kasi short-duration lang ito...

well, kapag actual courting stage na.. it's another long run.. next post na lang muna... i need to go to somewhere else today..

finally, make her laugh - make her smile.
go go go!

UU nga hehe...

AYus tong thread kanina lang ako nagbabasa... dami ko nang natutunan.... matanong ko lang


ganito ang sitwasyun... ahm naging kami ng gf ko wid in 5 months tapos nagbreak kami kc naging 3rd honor nalang xa ... matalino kc yun kaso wid in 4 months pinatunayan ko na mahal ko xa kaya naging guilty xa , na ralize nya na mali dicyon naya tapos naging kami ulet wid in mor than 8 months baxta naging 1 year + na kami ng gf ko tapos iniwan niya ako pero kasalanan ko yun pero hindi ko na cya binalikan kc i was blinded wid my childish pride...... after 1 year and 5 months + nag kita kami sa reunion tapos pagka gabi ,,,, nag txt2 kami atsaka dun pa talaga na solbad ang mga problema ... bali naging ok na talaga kami..... nagtatanong ako sa kanya kung my pag asa pa ba ako na mapasaakin xa muli..... tapos ang sabi nya "SECRET".... TAPOS nagtanung nanaman ako.... sabi ko is there any chance na papayagan mo ako na mag court sayo? ang reply nya naman "perhaps yes"

tapos pagka bukas txt2 nanaman kami... snabi ko sa kanya na gus2 ko maging kami ulit pero not know i still have my priorities bc pa talaga ako... its better i stik to my plans muna at kapag maging successful ako liligawan na kita kung available kapa...... tapos ang reply nya
"I THINK ITS MUCH BETTER IF WE STAY BEING FRIENDS"


ANG TAnong..... may pag asa pa bah talaga ako sa kanya? ano ba talaga ibig sabihin nyan? paki explain sa mga signs......^^

pakisagot po pls...^^

Sa tingin ko lang parekoy the statement you released to her na you have other priorities is simply a contradiction to your previous revelations about your feelings toward her. In laymans, hindi mo tinapos yung carera sa pag text kasi nag kaliwa ka agad before the finish line kaya naman parang nag tampo xa sayo. you could have said it better if you were planning to court the girl like not mention your very busy because women generally "not saying all women" want their guy to have time for them and give some priority for them.

Her statement na "I THINK ITS MUCH BETTER IF WE STAY BEING FRIENDS" is an indication of the latter - nagtatampo sa sinabi mong iyon. Although hindi ko alam ang buong storya ninyo pero general assumption lang eto based on the evidence stated. I may be wrong pa rin.

 

[simouny23]

please hear me out, kc ung gf ko nagalit sa akin na d ko alam ang dahilan...tapos sabi na lang ng kaibigan nya nakita daw nya yearbook ko.. Sabi ko naman bakit naman xa magagalit sa yearbuk? Un pala nakita nya ung pic ng ex ko, tas sabi magkahawig daw cla tas pareho pa na sept. ang b-day nila. Sabi nya d pa daw aq nakakapagmuv on,tas lagi na nyang kinacancel tawag q..nitry q naman mgexplain,kaso ayaw makinig...kung minsan d q talaga xa maintindihan.. Wala lang kc aqng mapagsabihan...

Tol I sympathize with your plight. Dito ako tumatambay kasi wala rin talaga akong Best friend to tell problems to.

On your problem:

I suggest you go to her place and talk to her if your really desperate that is. On the other hand, time will heal all wounds and perhaps your GF only needs a little bit of time to get her anger levels down. Continue to send her txt messages and sorry notes or perhaps even flowers to show your concern. If in fact mahal mo talaga xa for her and not because she simply looks like your X then show her that. Show her she is way more special. Sometimes a simple dinner or a huge teddy bear will ease a lot of anger off (please correct me girls if wrong po assumption ko).

Anyway, please also check your true feelings my friend for the real score. Do you or do you not still have feelings for the ex and if in fact her ideas of mistrust holds true. If it does then i suggest you settle the score and come clean to her. If you really love her then go to her and say that her assumptions are not true at all or they may have been true from the start but at the outset you have truly fell head over heals for her.

PS. I may just be speaking BS here but comment away on my comments so that I can learn more as well about my retardations.

to the onecruz.... hehe

 

[simouny23]

Kung ang gf moh nahuli mong may iba . . Tapos nagkahiwalay kayo. . . Then after few months ganito ang sabi niya . . .

Thank you for giving me the time to know my self and i know that the right time will gona happen for the both of us. . .

Anu talaga ang ibig sabihin niya?

tol tingin ko ibig sabihin nya "please be mine in the future (exaggeratedly said)"

On the other hand, she could be saying that she's ready for your relationship to restart

 

[Lady_£ans]

please hear me out, kc ung gf ko nagalit sa akin na d ko alam ang dahilan...tapos sabi na lang ng kaibigan nya nakita daw nya yearbook ko.. Sabi ko naman bakit naman xa magagalit sa yearbuk? Un pala nakita nya ung pic ng ex ko, tas sabi magkahawig daw cla tas pareho pa na sept. ang b-day nila. Sabi nya d pa daw aq nakakapagmuv on,tas lagi na nyang kinacancel tawag q..nitry q naman mgexplain,kaso ayaw makinig...kung minsan d q talaga xa maintindihan.. Wala lang kc aqng mapagsabihan...

let me hear y0ur sidE DIn p0.. kaya m0 nga bA sya niliGawan dahil kamukha sya ng ex m0? Tanung lang yan kc un ang nafEel ng gf m0.. may mga instances kasi nangyayari ung ganyan buT s0oNER or later mas hIgIT m0 ng mamahalin ung gf m0 keysa ex m0.. suyuin m0 Na lang si gf u,.Pus0ng mam0n kaming mga girls,madaling masaktan,madaling magalit..pero kung FORgIvaBle naman ang atras0,Ey mwawala din ung galit namin..lalo pa kung mahal talaga namin...

 

[Lady_£ans]

bat di na sya nagpaparamdam.. nagtapat lang naman ako ng nararamdaman ko eh..T_T

hayaAn m0 na muna,what imp0rtant ay nasaBi m0 aNG NRaramdaman m0.. Ang isa sa masasakit na nangyari sa buhay k0 aY biGlang nawalang parang bula ang ta0ng mahal ko ng di ko muna nsasaBing mahal ko sya..sana nasaBi ko muna bAgo sya umalis...

 

[juvenile44321]

ur welcome po!

chase her... approach her that is... like you told us matagal na kayo magkakilala. it's ur edge (but not guarantee.) like simoun said, (bro we shared the same thoughts, hooray!) you don't have be someone else... be yourself. be real.

since, nasa early stage ka po, visit her and spend time with her - everything will flow, you'll know what you'll need to do next. take it slowly and step-by-step. get to know her more. 3 years kayo di nagkita.. talk about it. be a gentlemen. she shown signs naman that she like you... 'wag ka na mag-doubt sa sarili mo...

this is a bit tricky, between courting and attracting... start on attracting. why? sometimes girl tend to run kapag alam nila nililigawan sila agad, the gud news is she shown signs that she's comfortable with you. in attracting, let her discover, the real you - that's the best queue for you. no pretentions, just be yourself. don't worry about this stage kasi short-duration lang ito...

well, kapag actual courting stage na.. it's another long run.. next post na lang muna... i need to go to somewhere else today..

finally, make her laugh - make her smile.
go go go!

I've been doing this to all girls na nagugustuhan ko. Pag komportable na siya sakin, close na kami, ok na sakin yun. mababaw lang kasi akong tao, sa ganyang stage pa lang sobrang saya ko na.

Thanks again sir!

Courting stage please

 

[Tidus_121586]

I suggest you go to her place and talk to her if your really desperate that is. On the other hand, time will heal all wounds and perhaps your GF only needs a little bit of time to get her anger levels down. Continue to send her txt messages and sorry notes or perhaps even flowers to show your concern. If in fact mahal mo talaga xa for her and not because she simply looks like your X then show her that. Show her she is way more special. Sometimes a simple dinner or a huge teddy bear will ease a lot of anger off (please correct me girls if wrong po assumption ko).

Anyway, please also check your true feelings my friend for the real score. Do you or do you not still have feelings for the ex and if in fact her ideas of mistrust holds true. If it does then i suggest you settle the score and come clean to her. If you really love her then go to her and say that her assumptions are not true at all or they may have been true from the start but at the outset you have truly fell head over heals for her.

PS. I may just be speaking BS here but comment away on my comments so that I can learn more as well about my retardations.

to the onecruz.... hehe

i tried to go to her place but sabi ayaw daw muna akong kausapin..pati tuloy mga kaibigan nya galit sa akin..dami ng umaaway sa akin..tsk tsk.. I don't have any feelings for my ex anymore..totally indifferent, no love, no hate...

let me hear y0ur sidE DIn p0.. kaya m0 nga bA sya niliGawan dahil kamukha sya ng ex m0? Tanung lang yan kc un ang nafEel ng gf m0.. may mga instances kasi nangyayari ung ganyan buT s0oNER or later mas hIgIT m0 ng mamahalin ung gf m0 keysa ex m0.. suyuin m0 Na lang si gf u,.Pus0ng mam0n kaming mga girls,madaling masaktan,madaling magalit..pero kung FORgIvaBle naman ang atras0,Ey mwawala din ung galit namin..lalo pa kung mahal talaga namin...

wala po akong inisip na ganyan when i courted her...actually, i did not even realize that my ex and her look alike until she told me...i was like, whaaat?!

 

[+Blood+]

Aw.. Wala napansin sa mga tanong ko! Natabunan na...

 

[onecruz]

I have new q's..

1.Madali ba talaga makamove on ang girl kaysa guy? specialy sa mga guys na nainlove talaga sa GF nila pero iniwan din sila... O pareho lang?
2.Meant to be.. Naniniwala ba kayo nito? kayo mga girls? How bout guys?
3.Naniniwala rin ba kayo na sa kasabihan nito "kaya tayo iniiwan ng mga mahal natin sa buhay kasi may mas darating pa at higit tayong mamahalin"...
4.Friends na mag On dati.. May benefits pa ba nangyayare sa 2 dating mag on pero friends na lang sila ngaun? E,ano magiging result nun sa girl? How bout if parang natural lang sa girl yun?(magreact kayo guys & gurls ok)

yan ang naisip ko ngayon itanong i hope may marami ako matatanggap na sagot galing sa inyo mga kaSB..

Aw.. Wala napansin sa mga tanong ko! Natabunan na...

1. in reality same lang po, we're all flesh and blood. let's ask, "ano advantage nila sa guys?" what we see is.. women move on faster than men is somehow true. at the back of this, women are a strong group, comforting and strongly supporting each other. mas marami ang babae sa lalaki (madami supporters) kaya mukhang madali sila mag-cope kasi me tumutulong agad sa kanila mag-move on. most women are open-minded but they're also fragile. they may also show that they move on but at the back of this... they cry.

2. it's about Fate. hmm... it's like another higher power is controlling you. in my opinion, NO! we're blessed with a free will. David Pomerance has something to sing,
"Pity those who wait
Trust in love to fate
Finding out too late
That they've lost it"

3. like the saying, "love is better the second time around.." God has plans for us. "When one door closes another door opens." nasa bible din 'yan. it may took long or delayed, you always have an oppurtunity.

4. i learned this before, "friends can be lovers, but lovers cannot be friends." (may or may not be applicable.) it's not easy from lovers to be friends... kahit matagal na sila magkakilala then afterwards magiging friends... minsan me iwasan, uncomfortable feeling (minsan tupperware).. or space between you... people might say "it depends kung pano nag move-on" yes pwede po but in reality, it doesn't always work. how many of you know people becames friends from lovers? bringing back the love is another factor, you might be thinking about the positive impact but in reality pati negative memories nyo that broke you apart will hunt you. are you prepared for this?

i hope it helps...

 

[onecruz]

Courting stage please

@juvenile44321

continuation...

some tips courting an uptown girl...

money can be a major factor but it is not always an issue. many factors why people are attracted to other... never feel small.. she's flesh and blood like you. who knows? she might be really looking for a real relationship, not a fancy things in life. she's a successul girl, but you can still keep her happy.

be romantic, thoughful and real. spend time more with her. i believe she's a smart person. she will like you not because what you have but what who you really are to her. she understands.. you just need to have guts and believe in your self.

show her that you can drive.. drive your future. never fail you let her see your ambitions. never fail to show your dreams and ambitions... what steps your taking and your future plans with her along.

Let her discover something interesting about you. hindi ito force feeding.. women often differentiate people is so many ways. dont be intimidated. stay confident. without confidence, you'll lose her. she need to discover how she can trust you by herself.

it's not always about major items. even a simple rose yields thousand words. give her something special. make her something to remind her about you. meet her often. never mo idadaan constantly ang courtship thru texting. show her that your a person.

hope it helps...

 

[onecruz]

please hear me out, kc ung gf ko nagalit sa akin na d ko alam ang dahilan...tapos sabi na lang ng kaibigan nya nakita daw nya yearbook ko.. Sabi ko naman bakit naman xa magagalit sa yearbuk? Un pala nakita nya ung pic ng ex ko, tas sabi magkahawig daw cla tas pareho pa na sept. ang b-day nila. Sabi nya d pa daw aq nakakapagmuv on,tas lagi na nyang kinacancel tawag q..nitry q naman mgexplain,kaso ayaw makinig...kung minsan d q talaga xa maintindihan.. Wala lang kc aqng mapagsabihan...

it's easy to see the negative factors but i see the silverlining in this... i just wanna help you realize this... women are sensitive and sometimes have unusual way of saying their feelings. example she may say, "hindi ako nasaktan..." but in reality she's hurting inside. sa story mo, nagalit siya sa'yo... again, ask why then you say, "nakita niya... di pa move on... bday..." it shoudnt be like that... the postive side is "nagalit siya sa'yo kasi mahal ka nya..." right now, she feel betrayed... ok, give her some space... like a few days then what you can do is make a way to talk to her and explain... give her security. let her feel how much you love her, and she's distinctive. i believe it's not your fault naman kung same sila ng bday or looks... (btw, wag ka papa-overwhelm sa kaibigan nya.. its ur relationship not anyone else, i think you knw this naman) kapag nag-usap na kayo at mahinahon na... give her something special...flowers, balloons, personalized item... show her that reason why you love her...

hope it helps

 

[Godspeed^^]

UU nga hehe...








Sa tingin ko lang parekoy the statement you released to her na you have other priorities is simply a contradiction to your previous revelations about your feelings toward her. In laymans, hindi mo tinapos yung carera sa pag text kasi nag kaliwa ka agad before the finish line kaya naman parang nag tampo xa sayo. you could have said it better if you were planning to court the girl like not mention your very busy because women generally "not saying all women" want their guy to have time for them and give some priority for them.

Her statement na "I THINK ITS MUCH BETTER IF WE STAY BEING FRIENDS" is an indication of the latter - nagtatampo sa sinabi mong iyon. Although hindi ko alam ang buong storya ninyo pero general assumption lang eto based on the evidence stated. I may be wrong pa rin.

Tnx sa tip pre.... pero nag uusap parin naman kami sa facebook... it seems ok pa talaga..... , kung may time ako... I'll ask her to go out with me.... pre pahingi naman tips kung ano dapat kong gawin? at hindi dapat gawin?

first time ko makipag date.... aldoh tagal na namin noon hindi ko parin na try makipag date kc probinsyano kc ako... pero ngaung nasa DAVAO na ako.... ano bah magandang gawin ko para makipag date sa kanya? (bxta xure ako papayag yun kaso wala pa akong naisip kung ano talaga gagawin...) salamat po talaga^^

 

[Godspeed^^]

Kung ang gf moh nahuli mong may iba . . Tapos nagkahiwalay kayo. . . Then after few months ganito ang sabi niya . . .

Thank you for giving me the time to know my self and i know that the right time will gona happen for the both of us. . .

Anu talaga ang ibig sabihin niya?

xempre nagpapasalamat xa... it means she is grateful to you at cguro hindi naging maganda yung relasyun nya sa other guy kaya nag tampo xa sa iyo.... pre kung ikaw ang iniwan nya .... maybe she regret breaking up with you... mataas kc ang konsensya ng mga babae

 

[_mayiie_]

1.Madali ba talaga makamove on ang girl kaysa guy? specialy sa mga guys na nainlove talaga sa GF nila pero iniwan din sila... O pareho lang?

-- sa akin pareho lang po .. siguro masasabi mong ganyan kasi nga di ba mas vocal talaga ang girls .. we tend to confide to our friends whenever we're hurt (i know guys also do that pero mas madalas nyo kasing sarilinin ang mga dinadala nyo ..) .. having a circle of friends kasi na mag'cocomfort sayo is a big help ..

ang ibang girls naman po, magaling lang talagang magtago ng nararamdaman nilang sakit .. they may just say na nakapag-move on na sila kahit hindi pa talaga ..

 

[_mayiie_]

2.Meant to be.. Naniniwala ba kayo nito? kayo mga girls? How bout guys?

nope .. meant to be, destiny, fate, kismet, blah blah blah .. it's all in the mind .. whatever you have, wherever you are, or whom ever you are with right now is a matter of choice ..

personal opinion ko po yan ha ..

kasi for example, in a relationship, we don't just say that a guy and a girl are really meant to be and their relationship's destinied to be a successful/happy one .. it's their choice to fight for their relationship, to keep that love and passion ..
or if we're going to take a broken relationship as an example, hindi po ibig sabihin nun they are not meant to be .. it's simply because one or both of them has chosen to give up from all the trials in their relationship ..

 

[_mayiie_]

3.Naniniwala rin ba kayo na sa kasabihan nito "kaya tayo iniiwan ng mga mahal natin sa buhay kasi may mas darating pa at higit tayong mamahalin"...

yup, naniniwala po ako dito .. hindi ko na po siguro i'eexplain, pareho lang po kasi kami ni mr. onecruz eh