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ANO NGA BA SIGNS OF A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP?
- Thread starter ArchShade
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ive been into one before.
but dont want to go into details. bata pako nun eh. i was too stupid to see reality.
What to look out for?
Isn't Affectionate
Love's you too quickly
Paranoid or Controlling
Lacks of effort
Abusive To Others
Isolates You
Wants sex quickly
Blames you for his/her exes
Blames everyone else for his problems
He's got bad stories or reputation
Alcohol, Drugs, or ***** is his idea of fun
Physically Violent
You are his/her 'goal'
Has freaky friends
He/she has the evil eye
Sees everything and everyone as competition
but dont want to go into details. bata pako nun eh. i was too stupid to see reality.
What to look out for?
Isn't Affectionate
Love's you too quickly
Paranoid or Controlling
Lacks of effort
Abusive To Others
Isolates You
Wants sex quickly
Blames you for his/her exes
Blames everyone else for his problems
He's got bad stories or reputation
Alcohol, Drugs, or ***** is his idea of fun
Physically Violent
You are his/her 'goal'
Has freaky friends
He/she has the evil eye
Sees everything and everyone as competition
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Yung ayaw makipag compromise pag iba ang views/choices niyong dalawa
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Pag yung relationship na meron ka is puro negative na lang ang naidudulot sayo and sa inyo pareho ng partner mo, and by that, meaning parang feeling mo, pag nag-reflect ka sa sitwasyon niyo, parang wala ka nang nakikitang "growth" para sayo & sa partner mo (individually), sa buhay niyo pareho, and/or sa relationship niyo mismo, yung tipong parang hindi na kayo iisang "team" or at least iisa na lang sa inyo yung kumakapit para tumagal yung relationship, then yun na yon. Lahat ng klase ng sitwasyon na pwedeng bumagsak sa mga categories na yan, mga signs na yan ng toxicity. Which all leads to emotional and mental stress din.
Usually nangyayari yan kung pareho kayo ng partner mo ang unwilling na gumawa ng compromise dahil sa iba't ibang rason, kadalasan kasi yung isa sa inyo or worse, pareho kayo na selfish, yung tipong yung gusto niyo lang ang gusto niyong mangyari kasi siguro feeling mo (or niya) ikaw/isa sa inyo yung nasa "tamang" side kaya yung naiisip niyo lang yung dapat masunod. Or siguro kasi out of pure selfishness lang talaga, yung tipong kung anong gusto ng isa sa inyo, yun dapat laging nasusunod. Kaya yung relasyon niyong dalawa, parang umiikot na lang din sa concept ng gamitan. Ang daming rason, pero it usually starts sa ganun, pag may isa nang unwilling gumawa ng compromises para mapagbigyan yung kapareha. Tsaka yung tipong parang lagi na lang kayong nagbabatuhan all the time, wala sa inyo or at least yung isa sa inyo ayaw nang makinig kasi gustong-gusto mai-prove kung sino yung mas tama o kung sino yung mas mali sa inyong dalawa.
Tsaka pag nasa mga ganyang sitwasyon ka, malalaman at malalaman mo rin eh... Magiging aware ka na rin kahit papano, yung tipong parang tatapikin ka ng utak mo one day tapos sasabihin sayo na parang di na tama yung mga nangyayari. Nakadepende na lang din sayo kung ano yung gagawin mo after, kung pano mo iha-handle yung toxicity. Yung iba may lakas ng loob na kumawala, yung iba naman mas pinipili pa ring kumapit kahit masakit.
Usually nangyayari yan kung pareho kayo ng partner mo ang unwilling na gumawa ng compromise dahil sa iba't ibang rason, kadalasan kasi yung isa sa inyo or worse, pareho kayo na selfish, yung tipong yung gusto niyo lang ang gusto niyong mangyari kasi siguro feeling mo (or niya) ikaw/isa sa inyo yung nasa "tamang" side kaya yung naiisip niyo lang yung dapat masunod. Or siguro kasi out of pure selfishness lang talaga, yung tipong kung anong gusto ng isa sa inyo, yun dapat laging nasusunod. Kaya yung relasyon niyong dalawa, parang umiikot na lang din sa concept ng gamitan. Ang daming rason, pero it usually starts sa ganun, pag may isa nang unwilling gumawa ng compromises para mapagbigyan yung kapareha. Tsaka yung tipong parang lagi na lang kayong nagbabatuhan all the time, wala sa inyo or at least yung isa sa inyo ayaw nang makinig kasi gustong-gusto mai-prove kung sino yung mas tama o kung sino yung mas mali sa inyong dalawa.
Tsaka pag nasa mga ganyang sitwasyon ka, malalaman at malalaman mo rin eh... Magiging aware ka na rin kahit papano, yung tipong parang tatapikin ka ng utak mo one day tapos sasabihin sayo na parang di na tama yung mga nangyayari. Nakadepende na lang din sayo kung ano yung gagawin mo after, kung pano mo iha-handle yung toxicity. Yung iba may lakas ng loob na kumawala, yung iba naman mas pinipili pa ring kumapit kahit masakit.
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brooo hahahaha yung "Isolates you" "Loves you too quickly" tapos yung "You are his/her goal" pwede paki explain to?
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I think you're right sa lahat haha walang compromise. sa totoo lang parang feeling ko ngayon ginagamit lang ako pag down sya pero pag good vibes sya palagi kong napapansin na I get tossed aside a lot, gusto nya mag call pero may iba pa syang mga friends na kausap. I just wanted her to focus on me pero wala haha I'm always trying to find ways pero masyado syang consumed kung ano man pinagkakaabalahan nya plus insecurities. marami pa pero all in all ang masasabi ko lang is... I fucked up.
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I’d say, if everything is going south at di kayo makapag meet halfway in all aspect - time to let go kasi for sure papunta na rin yan dun. Normally, mararamdaman mo naman yan na there’s something toxic about your relationship na pag paunti unti ng may nagbabago in a bad way.
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Yeah these all can lead to a toxic relationship loves too quickly
Guys that fall in love fast-- also fall out of love fast. If he's shallow, he'll be quick about telling you how much he loves you. Correct me if I'm wrong.
Blames Everyone Else for his Problems
Always blaming something without seeing the faults/defects within him. Blaming that he became this way because of this and that, which probably gives him the free hand to rant and verbal abuse.
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My interpretation:
1. Isolates you - yung may mga lakad ka with family / friends tapos hindi ka pinapayagan. Gagawa ng rason para hindi ka makasama.
2. Loves you too quickly - yung kakakilala niyo pa lang, nagsasabi na agad ng mahal ka niya. Yung tipong di pa niya alam nickname mo, eh mahal kana agad.
3.You are his/her goal - yung wala na syang ibang pangarap nung naging kayo na. Usually ganito pag bata.
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Yung puro "tamang hinala". Toxic nun. 
