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Do i really have a friend? LONER HERE
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oo tama ka beauty
Yung friend mo na mabait, trinaydor ka<---ito nangyari na sakin na akala ko dati totoong tao yung kaibigan ko yun pala frenemy ko
pero ayos lang i cut the ties between us kasi it's a waste of time 
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@nobody:
Ahm 2 years... But how about 5 years right? Meron din ako tumatagal ng 2-3 years. ^_^
Si caeli, yung nagcomment nagshare ng link. Username niya.
Depende kasi sa kaibigan yun eh, swertehan din lang. Dapat malakas pandama mo, kung anong klaseng tao ang kinasasalamuha mo.
Yep.. Parehas tau, may social anxiety din aq dahil sa upbringing ko. Super. Yun bang sa mata ng mga tao, ang weird weird ko ang tahimik ko daw.
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@ten:
Same here ten.
Ang ginagawa ko ngayon, narealize ko, is break up with them, friendship break up. Tama ka ten, cut the ties. Meron yung time na hurt na hurt aq sa best friend ko, sinabi ko sa kanya na break na kami xD echos. Sabi ko, move on na ko, kahit anong uri ng relationship kailangan ng effort at communication. So sa friendship namin kasi hindi na siya nagpaparamdam. Super taken for granted aq even if very special siya sa akin. So inend ko na lang, lumuwag yung pakiramdam ko, kasi hindi na ko nag eexpect sa kanya. Kasi umabot ako sa point na "bakit ganun na nangyayari?", "bakit?" basta puro bakit lang.
And just focus sa mga friends na nag eeffort. sa mga bagong kaibigan. Sa mga lumang kaibigan na anjan pa din. Etc. Mag stick ka sa taong pinapahalagahan ka, at iwasan mo yung nagpapabigat ng loob mo. Dapat alam mo kung sino yung friend mo na "mapagsasabihan" at yung friend na "hindi gusto ng napagshsharean ng problem pero tumutulong sa ibang way", or yung friend na "hindi magandang kausap pero maasahan pag presensya na" dapat kilala mo mga ibat ibang friends mo, you know hanggang saan lang kaya nila iooffer, anung maeexpect mo sa kanila ganun.
Ahm 2 years... But how about 5 years right? Meron din ako tumatagal ng 2-3 years. ^_^
Si caeli, yung nagcomment nagshare ng link. Username niya.
Depende kasi sa kaibigan yun eh, swertehan din lang. Dapat malakas pandama mo, kung anong klaseng tao ang kinasasalamuha mo.
Yep.. Parehas tau, may social anxiety din aq dahil sa upbringing ko. Super. Yun bang sa mata ng mga tao, ang weird weird ko ang tahimik ko daw.
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@ten:
Same here ten.
Ang ginagawa ko ngayon, narealize ko, is break up with them, friendship break up. Tama ka ten, cut the ties. Meron yung time na hurt na hurt aq sa best friend ko, sinabi ko sa kanya na break na kami xD echos. Sabi ko, move on na ko, kahit anong uri ng relationship kailangan ng effort at communication. So sa friendship namin kasi hindi na siya nagpaparamdam. Super taken for granted aq even if very special siya sa akin. So inend ko na lang, lumuwag yung pakiramdam ko, kasi hindi na ko nag eexpect sa kanya. Kasi umabot ako sa point na "bakit ganun na nangyayari?", "bakit?" basta puro bakit lang.
And just focus sa mga friends na nag eeffort. sa mga bagong kaibigan. Sa mga lumang kaibigan na anjan pa din. Etc. Mag stick ka sa taong pinapahalagahan ka, at iwasan mo yung nagpapabigat ng loob mo. Dapat alam mo kung sino yung friend mo na "mapagsasabihan" at yung friend na "hindi gusto ng napagshsharean ng problem pero tumutulong sa ibang way", or yung friend na "hindi magandang kausap pero maasahan pag presensya na" dapat kilala mo mga ibat ibang friends mo, you know hanggang saan lang kaya nila iooffer, anung maeexpect mo sa kanila ganun.
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To TS:
Sabi nga ng quote" Don't wait for people to be friendly teach them how."
But the problem is, as we grow older, we experience trauma or encounter painful experiences with relationships.
Tulad ng sabi nila na traydurin ng kaibigan o kaya isnobin ng mga tinuring mong mga kaibigan.
Simple things that may develop into deep fear.
Idagdag mo pa yong society's standards, a lot of us may think that we are not attractive enough to people.
Na baka hindi naman talaga nila gusto na kaibiganin ka.
The result would be withdrawal, to keep ourselves from others.
Especially kapag shy type of a person ka pa.
So naghihintay na lang tayo. Naghihintay lapitan at naghihintay kausapin.
It's true, masasaktan at masasaktan ka ng ibang tao. But that shouldn't keep you from connecting with others.
That's reality, may mga tao na akala mo gusto ka pero kailangan ka lang pala.
May mga tao na ijujudge ka.
Pero madami ding tao na matatanggap ka kung sino ka.
Kumbaga, swak lang sa personality mo. Tulad nga sabi nung friend ko "Di mo kailangan ng maraming kaibigan, one or two is fine as long as they are real friends"
Yong friends na maasahan mo. Marami kasi dyan madaming friends but when it comes to difficult times, konti lang ang andyan para dumamay. Yong iba nagkukunwari lang may care.
Kung shy type ka, maganda na ngayon kasi madami ng online forums, chatrooms and other social media sites.
You can start the friendship there, just enjoy and find those people na alam mong magiging comfortable ka.
But if you want a lasting friendship, mas okay din na imeet mo sila at makasama in person.
Mas maiigi na alam mo kung ano gusto mo, if your hobby is music then spend time with people who loves music.
pag comfortable ka na sa kanila, yayain mo sila manood ng band or play together ng musical instruments.
Slowly but surely kumbaga..
The secret to enjoying life is to never stop from trying. Successful people are those people who fail but stand up again everytime they do.
Goodluck!
Sabi nga ng quote" Don't wait for people to be friendly teach them how."
But the problem is, as we grow older, we experience trauma or encounter painful experiences with relationships.
Tulad ng sabi nila na traydurin ng kaibigan o kaya isnobin ng mga tinuring mong mga kaibigan.
Simple things that may develop into deep fear.
Idagdag mo pa yong society's standards, a lot of us may think that we are not attractive enough to people.
Na baka hindi naman talaga nila gusto na kaibiganin ka.
The result would be withdrawal, to keep ourselves from others.
Especially kapag shy type of a person ka pa.
So naghihintay na lang tayo. Naghihintay lapitan at naghihintay kausapin.
It's true, masasaktan at masasaktan ka ng ibang tao. But that shouldn't keep you from connecting with others.
That's reality, may mga tao na akala mo gusto ka pero kailangan ka lang pala.
May mga tao na ijujudge ka.
Pero madami ding tao na matatanggap ka kung sino ka.
Kumbaga, swak lang sa personality mo. Tulad nga sabi nung friend ko "Di mo kailangan ng maraming kaibigan, one or two is fine as long as they are real friends"
Yong friends na maasahan mo. Marami kasi dyan madaming friends but when it comes to difficult times, konti lang ang andyan para dumamay. Yong iba nagkukunwari lang may care.
Kung shy type ka, maganda na ngayon kasi madami ng online forums, chatrooms and other social media sites.
You can start the friendship there, just enjoy and find those people na alam mong magiging comfortable ka.
But if you want a lasting friendship, mas okay din na imeet mo sila at makasama in person.
Mas maiigi na alam mo kung ano gusto mo, if your hobby is music then spend time with people who loves music.
pag comfortable ka na sa kanila, yayain mo sila manood ng band or play together ng musical instruments.
Slowly but surely kumbaga..
The secret to enjoying life is to never stop from trying. Successful people are those people who fail but stand up again everytime they do.
Goodluck!
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To TS:
Sabi nga ng quote" Don't wait for people to be friendly teach them how."
But the problem is, as we grow older, we experience trauma or encounter painful experiences with relationships.
Tulad ng sabi nila na traydurin ng kaibigan o kaya isnobin ng mga tinuring mong mga kaibigan.
Simple things that may develop into deep fear.
Idagdag mo pa yong society's standards, a lot of us may think that we are not attractive enough to people.
Na baka hindi naman talaga nila gusto na kaibiganin ka.
The result would be withdrawal, to keep ourselves from others.
Especially kapag shy type of a person ka pa.
So naghihintay na lang tayo. Naghihintay lapitan at naghihintay kausapin.
It's true, masasaktan at masasaktan ka ng ibang tao. But that shouldn't keep you from connecting with others.
That's reality, may mga tao na akala mo gusto ka pero kailangan ka lang pala.
May mga tao na ijujudge ka.
Pero madami ding tao na matatanggap ka kung sino ka.
Kumbaga, swak lang sa personality mo. Tulad nga sabi nung friend ko "Di mo kailangan ng maraming kaibigan, one or two is fine as long as they are real friends"
Yong friends na maasahan mo. Marami kasi dyan madaming friends but when it comes to difficult times, konti lang ang andyan para dumamay. Yong iba nagkukunwari lang may care.
Kung shy type ka, maganda na ngayon kasi madami ng online forums, chatrooms and other social media sites.
You can start the friendship there, just enjoy and find those people na alam mong magiging comfortable ka.
But if you want a lasting friendship, mas okay din na imeet mo sila at makasama in person.
Mas maiigi na alam mo kung ano gusto mo, if your hobby is music then spend time with people who loves music.
pag comfortable ka na sa kanila, yayain mo sila manood ng band or play together ng musical instruments.
Slowly but surely kumbaga..
The secret to enjoying life is to never stop from trying. Successful people are those people who fail but stand up again everytime they do.
Goodluck!
I love this post . Thank you very much.
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"And just focus sa mga friends na nag eeffort. samga bagong kaibigan. Sa mga lumang kaibigan na anjan pa din. Etc. Mag stick ka sa taong pinapahalagahan ka, at iwasan mo yung nagpapabigat ng loob mo. Dapat alam mo kungsino yung friend mo na "mapagsasabihan" at yung friend na "hindi gusto ng napagshshareanng problem pero tumutulong sa ibang way", or yung friend na "hindi magandang kausap pero maasahan pag presensya na" dapat kilala mo mga ibat ibang friends mo, you know hanggangsaan lang kaya nila iooffer, anung maeexpect mo sa kanila ganun."
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