Thank you sa answers ninyo mga sir
I am just confused if forgiving him is the right thing to do kung sa loob loob ko eh ayaw ko magpakaplastic at sabihin sa kanyang pinapatawad ko na siya. If he did was only flirting, medyo may possibility yung isip ko na patawarin siya. Pero iba kasi eh, when I caught him asking some girl to have sex with him - it really tore my heart. What more when I found out that he already did it.
It's just that, I loved him too much but he hurt me so much and I honestly know that I don't have to be treated that way. Not anymore.
Kung papatawarin ko siya, makakamove on ba talaga ako sa sakit na ginawa niya sa akin? Would it heal the wound inside of me? Tama ba talagang ganoon gawin ko kung hanggang ngayon eh ramdam ko pa din?
Ang daming questions sa isip ko but I assure you, somehow natauhan din naman ako na hindi na tamang maging kami ulit. So I told him that and he just asked for forgiveness and friendship na hindi ko na masagot.
"Kung papatawarin ko siya, makakamove on ba talaga ako sa sakit na ginawa niya sa akin?"
- Sabi nga nila, forgive but don't forget. Makaka-move on ka in time, don't worry.
"Would it heal the wound inside of me?"
- It will, of course. It's gonna be hard. But eventually, it will. Time will heal your wounded heart. We have to move forward no matter how hard it is.
"Tama ba talagang ganoon gawin ko kung hanggang ngayon eh ramdam ko pa din? "
- Either magpapakatanga ka sa kanya at may chance sya na gawin ulit yun sayo, or press the delete button and remove him out of your life. Natural lang yan. Hindi naman agad-agad mawawala yung sakit na nararamdaman mo.
"Ang daming questions sa isip ko but I assure you, somehow natauhan din naman ako na hindi na tamang maging kami ulit."
- Good. Kahit mahirap, kailangan mong maging matapang. Remember, hindi lang sya ang nag-iisang lalaki sa mundo. Meron dyang nag-hihintay sayo. Mas deserving kesa dyan sa ex-boyfriend mong nagawa kang tarantaduhin. Yung mamahalin ka, aalagaan, hindi sasaktan, ganun.
"He just asked for forgiveness and friendship."
- Forgiveness? Yeah, right. Again, like i've said. Forgive but don't forget. And about sa friendship? Heck NO! Buti sana kung nag-hiwalay kayo na walang samaan ng loob or issue kagaya nyang sa inyo. Pwede pa siguro. Pero sa case nyo, advice ko sayo na 'wag. Tsaka opinion ko lang ha. Mahirap din makipag-kaibigan o maging kaibigan ang taong minsang naging karelasyon mo. Hahaha.
Sya nga pala. Sana naman kahit na ganyan ginawa ng ex-boyfriend mo sayo, wag mo sana i-generalize ang mga kalalakihan dahil dun. Hahaha!