Helping to Move on

[stronghanz]

Hi mga ka SB,

This is my first time mag post sa section na ito my love life is very complicated, and now i decided to end my relationship and we are both devastated and to help my girlfriend to move on i offer her help na tutulungan ko sya like sa mga important things lang nman is this the right thing to do? I really pity her and im very saddened, please help kailangan na namin talaga magkahiwalay kasi against all odds yung love life namin

 

[immabroke]

Hi mga ka SB,

This is my first time mag post sa section na ito my love life is very complicated, and now i decided to end my relationship and we are both devastated and to help my girlfriend to move on i offer her help na tutulungan ko sya like sa mga important things lang nman is this the right thing to do? I really pity her and im very saddened, please help kailangan na namin talaga magkahiwalay kasi against all odds yung love life namin

Ano ang dahilan? Bakit breaking up is the only option? Can you please give details.

 

[motoro]

You cannot expect someone to move on if you're still in the picture. Since the relationship is not worth fighting for anymore then cut all communication all at once. Otherwise baka umasa pa siya and that will make it harder for both of you.

 

[thenth]

sadyang mahirap mag move on kapag walang ibang ineentertain

 

[januaryanne]

You'll help pa nga if you cut ties totally eh.

Ikwento mo kasi ung reason why against all odds kayo. Pero yun nga mas okay kung wag na lang. Hindi makakatulong ang pity mo mas aasa pa siya kung constant ka pang andiyan.

 

[melala]

Parang nakakarelate ako dito ng konti. Haha. Whatever that is, you just have to move on nalang and focus on yourself muna. Naniniwala ako madalas kasi nasa tamang timing din ang pagdating ng right person.

 

[parkkeuris]

Hi mga ka SB,

This is my first time mag post sa section na ito my love life is very complicated, and now i decided to end my relationship and we are both devastated and to help my girlfriend to move on i offer her help na tutulungan ko sya like sa mga important things lang nman is this the right thing to do? I really pity her and im very saddened, please help kailangan na namin talaga magkahiwalay kasi against all odds yung love life namin

Pwede mo bang ikwento yung buong pangyayari?

 

[Riyae08]

Kung di mo ikkwento,

The best and worst way to go is..

Make her Hate you so Bad,
She'll believe She is better off without you...

Since sabi mo naman against all odds ang inyong kwento..

it won't be that hard.

 

[tigerhowl]

Its better to tell us what happened

para mas ok ang opinion/advices

 

[ingatz]

alin ang mas madali , ang mag-move on or ipaglaban nyo ang relasyon nyo?

 

[duploader]

Kung gusto mo tulungan ex mo na maka-move on then keep your distance. Dalawang paraan lang para maka move on, it's either you fall in love again with another person or let time heal the wounds.

 

[stronghanz]

You cannot expect someone to move on if you're still in the picture. Since the relationship is not worth fighting for anymore then cut all communication all at once. Otherwise baka umasa pa siya and that will make it harder for both of you.

You'll help pa nga if you cut ties totally eh.

Ikwento mo kasi ung reason why against all odds kayo. Pero yun nga mas okay kung wag na lang. Hindi makakatulong ang pity mo mas aasa pa siya kung constant ka pang andiyan.

Pwede mo bang ikwento yung buong pangyayari?

Okay i will tell our story but i will make it short just to make you understand a little bit of our situation,

It all started when i was hired in a company way back 2014 as a supervisor , and my x gf is also an employee she helped me a lot in terms of personal and job related problems, she is married but not annulled only separated having 2 kids, i really owe her almost everything, in just 2 months nag ka kami na, now the problem is she is my boss in the company, sometimes pinapatawag nya ako like magpapatulong and magpapa sabay dinner, and hindi ko magawagang tumanggi pag kasama ang mga boss namin kasi a head sya sakin sa company so maraming kapit and she can do anything, and maybe pag hindi na ito na stop siguro mag quit nlang ako sa aking job?

What can you suggest mga ka symb? Grabeh ang hirap talaga kasi laki na ng sahod ko dito sa company(SMC) namin tapos iiwan kolang... my parents told me also na dapat mag quit na talaga ako sa work pag hindi pa ito na stop.

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Your kind and gracious advice please.

 

[xngqel]

Okay i will tell our story but i will make it short just to make you understand a little bit of our situation,

It all started when i was hired in a company way back 2014 as a supervisor , and my x gf is also an employee she helped me a lot in terms of personal and job related problems, she is married but not annulled only separated having 2 kids, i really owe her almost everything, in just 2 months nag ka kami na, now the problem is she is my boss in the company, sometimes pinapatawag nya ako like magpapatulong and magpapa sabay dinner, and hindi ko magawagang tumanggi pag kasama ang mga boss namin kasi a head sya sakin sa company so maraming kapit and she can do anything, and maybe pag hindi na ito na stop siguro mag quit nlang ako sa aking job?

What can you suggest mga ka symb? Grabeh ang hirap talaga kasi laki na ng sahod ko dito sa company(SMC) namin tapos iiwan kolang... my parents told me also na dapat mag quit na talaga ako sa work pag hindi pa ito na stop.

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Your kind and gracious advice please.

ganyan talaga sa corporate world
hindi ka makakasurvive on your own
padrino system para tumagal

ang hirap kasi nasanay na tayo sumandal sa mga tao na handang tumulong sa atin kaya nawawalan na tayo ng kompyansa sa mga skillset natin
you doubt your own capabilities
eh ano ba kung magalit sya, pare hindi mo ikamamatay yan
kapag nawalan ka ng trabaho yan ang ikagugutom mo
stick to your morals kung gusto mo talaga ilaban yang trabaho mo
be fair and accept the negativity that is going to happen
hindi mo kontrolado ang mga tao
good news is kontrolado mo ang sarili mo
upgrade your skillset
baka kasi napag-iiwanan ka na
and lastly pray, everyday it helps trust me. hehehe

 

[alpahipo]

you better quit also your at job, tutal naman parang utang na loob mo pa yun sa kanya... magsimula ka na lang ng panibago TS, Wag mong panghinayangan yung mataas na sahod, kasi ako nga walang trabaho nabubuhay din naman

 

[januaryanne]

Okay i will tell our story but i will make it short just to make you understand a little bit of our situation,

It all started when i was hired in a company way back 2014 as a supervisor , and my x gf is also an employee she helped me a lot in terms of personal and job related problems, she is married but not annulled only separated having 2 kids, i really owe her almost everything, in just 2 months nag ka kami na, now the problem is she is my boss in the company, sometimes pinapatawag nya ako like magpapatulong and magpapa sabay dinner, and hindi ko magawagang tumanggi pag kasama ang mga boss namin kasi a head sya sakin sa company so maraming kapit and she can do anything, and maybe pag hindi na ito na stop siguro mag quit nlang ako sa aking job?

What can you suggest mga ka symb? Grabeh ang hirap talaga kasi laki na ng sahod ko dito sa company(SMC) namin tapos iiwan kolang... my parents told me also na dapat mag quit na talaga ako sa work pag hindi pa ito na stop.

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Your kind and gracious advice please.

Ang supportive ng parents infairness, ayaw nila dun sa girl no? Iiwanan ang malaking sahod para lang makaiwas ang hirap maghanap ng work ngayon. Kausapin mo siya at sabihang puro work na alng at wala ng personal say youre sorry pero mahal mo trabaho mo. Bakit ka papaapekto sa ex mo and dont say may utang na loob ka eh work yan eh, kung tinulungan ka syempre part yan ng job nila na itrain ka about sa work na gagampanan mo.

Hindi mo naman sinyota agad after 2months para makatake advantage no?

Malabo pa kuya, kwento pa :llol:

 

[stronghanz]

ganyan talaga sa corporate world
hindi ka makakasurvive on your own
padrino system para tumagal

ang hirap kasi nasanay na tayo sumandal sa mga tao na handang tumulong sa atin kaya nawawalan na tayo ng kompyansa sa mga skillset natin
you doubt your own capabilities
eh ano ba kung magalit sya, pare hindi mo ikamamatay yan
kapag nawalan ka ng trabaho yan ang ikagugutom mo
stick to your morals kung gusto mo talaga ilaban yang trabaho mo
be fair and accept the negativity that is going to happen
hindi mo kontrolado ang mga tao
good news is kontrolado mo ang sarili mo
upgrade your skillset
baka kasi napag-iiwanan ka na
and lastly pray, everyday it helps trust me. hehehe

Yes sir you have a point grabeh talaga im sure this month ang baba ng productivity ko in terms of numbers kasi affected na ako, worst case scenario is that yung x gf ko naka adjust na kasi tinutulungan ko sya, ang feeling ko nga ba is para akong maliit na bola na nasa mga kamay nya sometimes she even once told me that i will go down sa company if iiwanan ko sya daw, grabeh mababaliw na ata ko everyday.

you better quit also your at job, tutal naman parang utang na loob mo pa yun sa kanya... magsimula ka na lang ng panibago TS, Wag mong panghinayangan yung mataas na sahod, kasi ako nga walang trabaho nabubuhay din naman

Yes im planning on that sir simula nag break up kami nag job hunting na ako unfortunately wala pa akong nagustuhan na company i hope ma solve na ito next year, pray lang ako palagi for now.

Ang supportive ng parents infairness, ayaw nila dun sa girl no? Iiwanan ang malaking sahod para lang makaiwas ang hirap maghanap ng work ngayon. Kausapin mo siya at sabihang puro work na alng at wala ng personal say youre sorry pero mahal mo trabaho mo. Bakit ka papaapekto sa ex mo and dont say may utang na loob ka eh work yan eh, kung tinulungan ka syempre part yan ng job nila na itrain ka about sa work na gagampanan mo.

Hindi mo naman sinyota agad after 2months para makatake advantage no?

Malabo pa kuya, kwento pa :llol:

You know when we are still on? since from that im controlled by her and she told me that she really cares thats why higpit sya and then i realized ayaw lang nya pala akong mawala kasi hiwalay sya sa kanyang husband and to think married sya baka patayin ako or e demanda ako sa kanyang partner and i know a lot from my colleagues usap usapan na kami na my relationship kami ng boss namin, kakaasar din kasi pag nag mamasyal kami pag may kakilala sya na relative or close sa family nila i kukulong kalang sa kotse nya para bang tinatago ka, alam mo yung feeling, naku tapos ang selosa grabeh, i admit nagkakami dahil maganda talaga ang boss namin at first yun talaga nagpa attract sa akin yun pala may attitude palang tinatago.

 

[januaryanne]

Yes sir you have a point grabeh talaga im sure this month ang baba ng productivity ko in terms of numbers kasi affected na ako, worst case scenario is that yung x gf ko naka adjust na kasi tinutulungan ko sya, ang feeling ko nga ba is para akong maliit na bola na nasa mga kamay nya sometimes she even once told me that i will go down sa company if iiwanan ko sya daw, grabeh mababaliw na ata ko everyday.



Yes im planning on that sir simula nag break up kami nag job hunting na ako unfortunately wala pa akong nagustuhan na company i hope ma solve na ito next year, pray lang ako palagi for now.



You know when we are still on? since from that im controlled by her and she told me that she really cares thats why higpit sya and then i realized ayaw lang nya pala akong mawala kasi hiwalay sya sa kanyang husband and to think married sya baka patayin ako or e demanda ako sa kanyang partner and i know a lot from my colleagues usap usapan na kami na my relationship kami ng boss namin, kakaasar din kasi pag nag mamasyal kami pag may kakilala sya na relative or close sa family nila i kukulong kalang sa kotse nya para bang tinatago ka, alam mo yung feeling, naku tapos ang selosa grabeh, i admit nagkakami dahil maganda talaga ang boss namin at first yun talaga nagpa attract sa akin yun pala may attitude palang tinatago.

Complicated nga. Yeah magfile ka na ng resignation at magjob hunting na

 

[partypooper]

grabi swerti nyo naman sa subrang dami ng problema sa mundo sa inyo love life lang

 

[bhebhekoh]

both of you need some space...space na hind na kayo magkikita para makamove on kayong dalawa..un lang yun

 

[parkkeuris]

Okay i will tell our story but i will make it short just to make you understand a little bit of our situation,

It all started when i was hired in a company way back 2014 as a supervisor , and my x gf is also an employee she helped me a lot in terms of personal and job related problems, she is married but not annulled only separated having 2 kids, i really owe her almost everything, in just 2 months nag ka kami na, now the problem is she is my boss in the company, sometimes pinapatawag nya ako like magpapatulong and magpapa sabay dinner, and hindi ko magawagang tumanggi pag kasama ang mga boss namin kasi a head sya sakin sa company so maraming kapit and she can do anything, and maybe pag hindi na ito na stop siguro mag quit nlang ako sa aking job?

What can you suggest mga ka symb? Grabeh ang hirap talaga kasi laki na ng sahod ko dito sa company(SMC) namin tapos iiwan kolang... my parents told me also na dapat mag quit na talaga ako sa work pag hindi pa ito na stop.

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Your kind and gracious advice please.

Eto lamang mga tanong ko sa iyo ay:

Gaano ka professional na tao?

Naseseperate mo ba ang personal at professional sa corporate world?

Kung magkaroon man ng conflict of interest, magreresign ka ba?