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Ilan ang toxic friends mo?

sleep04

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Actually, isa lang ang toxic kong kaibigan, yung katrabaho ko na pakialamara, tapos sobrang daldal na bungangera, maganda pa naman siya pangit lang talaga ng ugali niya
 

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normal yung maganda na pangit ang ugali kahit nga pangit eh pangit pa rin ugali :slap: kahit saan naman may taong toxic wala na tayong magagawa part yun

saklap no? :rolleyes:
 

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I dont really know if toxic friends yung tamang term sa lahat ng sinabi mo pero may mga binanggit kang points na toxic friends nga ang mga yun.

Dumating sa punto ng buhay ko sa edad ko na inuninstall ko yung facebook ko hindi dahil sa toxic friends kundi dahil sa toxic posts at walang ka kwenta kwentang nakikita ko dun. Another important reason ay pakiramdam ko kasi distraction to eh.

Pero bakit nga ba gngawa ng tao to? Let me illuminate you guys. Parang Drugs ang facebook. Actually may image akong nakita sa net na best example nito eh. Isasama ko na lang siguro pag madaming curious.

Pag tayo naka droga, weeds or high. ay dahil yung tinake nating substance may mga chemicals na nakakaapekto sa katawan at sa brain. At pag narelease yun dun ka makakaramdam ng different emotions depende sa tama. Ganun din ang facebook.

Kahit wala kang tntake na drugs pero pag yung post mo nilike ng crush mo, umabot ng 100 likes yung bagong dp mo, may pinost kang lugar na malayo at mdaming na inggit base sa comments, natutuwa ka. Nagrerelease ng chemicals sa brains mo which is yung Oxytocin, Serotonin, Endorphin, Dopamine. Ngayon pag nasanay ka na at natuwa syempre uulitin mo. Lalo na't iniisip mo wala namang mali sa gngawa mo dahil d ka naman nagsha????? or humihithit ng chongke. Yun nga lang di mo napapansin, naaadik ka na pala.

Take for an example may ka office mate ako na same position with me. Active yun sa social media. Mabait syang tao pero sa paningin ko "mapagpanggap". Naka install ang facebook nun at gaya ng sabi ko naka uninstall yung akin. Tuwing may nagawa syang task, kumakain sa magarang resto (libre ng boss or admin), may nagawang good deed, pinopost nya agad. Pero in reality napaka tamad neto. Nung inassign sya sa branch ko walang ginawa kundi mag scroll ng mag scroll. Kahit yung partner conpany ko nagreklamo nung nakasama sya. Kumbaga pinapakita nya lang sa social media yung good points nya pero in reality tamad na tao. Although mabait naman talaga to. Sadyang naka "drugs" lang sa social media. Medyo opposite kami. Ako mahilig ako tumulong sa kapwa ko ( Pero di ako nagpopost sa social media sa gnawa ko kasi feeling ko it defeats the purpose. Ayoko isipin ng tao na gingawa ko yun para lang may maipost ako at maka receive ng praise.)

Ngayon pwede nyo kong punahin na ang pangit ng term ko naka "drugs". Actually malambot pa nga ko dyan. May kakilala akong dahil sa social media (take note pala simba pa to) dahil gusto nyang ma achieve yung High Social Status, pumatol sa matanda. May boyfriend pa yan. May kilala akong 3 babae ganyan.

Meron kasing Social Status (especially sa babae) na sa parents or family umaasa sa pera para makapag social climb or pede ding hard work talaga. Yun bang may sariling condo. Nakaka gala every weekend or nakakapunta sa malalayong lugar. May kotse. Naka Iphone X or Samsung Note 9. Laging may outing. Nakasakay lagi sa eroplano or barko. Isipin mo na lang kung ilang likes ang magagawa nyan kung lagi itong pinopost sa social media. Kasi gusto nila yung "feeling" ng High Class pero in reality pinipilit lang nila at dumadatig pa sa punto na may "mali" na silang gngawa. Ngayon syempre wala namang masama kung "walang nakakaalam" other term? Silent walkers.


Kaya in reality, high percentage ng nakikita mo sa facebook ng friend mo fake. They're just faking their lives. Altho syempre bakit mo naman ipopost yung mga bagay na negative sa pningin ng tao like yung iphone mo inutang mo lng sa kaibigan mo tapos d mo na binayaran yung kulang, nakaka gala ka every weekend dahil lang sa padala ng erpats mo, nakaloan ka para sa condo dahil pinatulan mo yung higher up na nag poprocess ng documento mo, puro away kayo ng boyfriend girlfriend mo pero kailangan mong ngumiti sa selfie nyo kasi minsan lang kayo pumunta sa lugar na napuntahan nyo etc etc etc

Yan ang toxic. Buti pa sa mobile legends puro cancer lang makikita mo. Walang toxic.
wala di yun friend toxic nga eh peace! ;-)
 

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Per TS, toxic friends in social media. Fortunately I don't have any toxic friends in real life, but in socmed ang dami specifically sa Facebook. I had them as FB friends due to many online games I've played before, though I really don't know them well. Some of them were really toxic and I unfriend them immediately after seeing posts of theirs na hindi komportableng basahin. Agree ako kay @hindipoakoyun at tama si ts @10reason, there's a higher percentage of your FB friends na walang pakielam sa posts mo, more than those who really case. Kaya I really don't bother much sharing about me sa Facebook — I'm only there to repost memes or quotes and other contents or videos na gusto ko balikan sometime when I browse my own timeline.

Bottomline, it is better to be a responsible user in socmed and stray away from toxicity. Though whether you're a responsible user or toxic one, you won't be merited at all nor get paid or rewarded, but at least you leave a positive cause to younger viewers or probably to some.
 

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Sa close friends none.
 

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Medjo marami pag Ber months :lol:

Reminder: Live within your means :salute:
 

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Kaya bihira ako sumilip sa social media ngayon dahil parang gaya pa rin ng dati, kahit saan may toxic. Ayoko ng magulong life.
 

r a Z e

 
 
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So far parang wala na, since na-unfollow & na-unfriend ko na yung mga toxic social media friends ko since 2016 mostly dahil sa politics.
 

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same reason din, politics.. mabuti na yung wag makipag argue kaysa mawala yung friendship sa real world.
 

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Sa sobrang dami nila, nawala silang lahat :lol:
 
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