Love or Career and Why?

[chaze08]

Wow!!! halos karamihan panay career ahhh
Pero pag nakita mo ung kababaliwan mo kaya mong sirain yung career mo. haha LOL

 

[wafamahwa]

may career na kaya love naman

 

[K3V1N]

Ako love muna, kasi si love ang inspirasyon ko para sa career ko

 

[thenth]

for me, Love AND Career. why? both of them benefits each other

Sabi nga nila, "Behind every successful man there is a woman"

You work hard/smart for your loved ones
para saan pa kung magtatrabaho ka ng sagad, kung wala ka namang lovelife?
youll just stress yourself, living in this cruel world na walang ibang ginawa kundi payamanin ang kumpanyang pinagsisilbihan mo
at syempre hindi maaaring puro pagibig lang, anong ipapakain mo sa pamilya mo kung wala kang trabaho?

so ayun, Love AND Career

 

[wakasmo]

for me, Love AND Career. why? both of them benefits each other

Sabi nga nila, "Behind every successful man there is a woman"

You work hard/smart for your loved ones
para saan pa kung magtatrabaho ka ng sagad, kung wala ka namang lovelife?
youll just stress yourself, living in this cruel world na walang ibang ginawa kundi payamanin ang kumpanyang pinagsisilbihan mo
at syempre hindi maaaring puro pagibig lang, anong ipapakain mo sa pamilya mo kung wala kang trabaho?

so ayun, Love AND Career

well said bro!

 

[iamxedrix]

love ko ang career ko. kaya shut up ka na lang. jk. love pa rin syempre. you can always find the same career from other companies or industry but its not the same thing with love. 'There are all kinds of love in this world but never the same love twice.' - F. Scott Fitzgerald.

so take good care and give priority to the love you have right now. mahirap mawalan ng trabaho pero mas mahirap mawalan ng inspirasyon.

 

[Poypoy666]

I choose career. If love really is true, it can wait and weather through storms. But not your career, as time goes by, you simply fade into oblivion like a coin falling at the bottom of the ocean floor.

 

[iron_shield]

For me CAREER brad.. i lose my gf because of my career. ayaw kasi niya sa trabaho ko palagi daw malayo ako yun ang pinagtatalunan namin palagi. At dumating ako sa point na focus muna sa career mahirap kasing pagsabayin, pag may career ka love will follow. Love can wait in the right time and place.

relate much,, ako dito hahaah

 

[immabroke]

Both! I have both! Masaya naman. Pero kung need talaga pumili, syempre career. Dahil ang love madali hanapin pero ang stable na trabaho mahirap. Haha

 

[callepogi]

d ako psychologist pero eto ang hunch ko sa ganyan

People who will choose love ay ung mga single o d pa nakaranas ng maganda o matagalang love life

people who will choose career knows how hard life today is.

pero possibility lang yan syempre

saken i will choose career.

there is a possibility that you will also find love after your career.

and there is a possibility that you will lose your success in career if you choose love.
bakit.

advantages of career:

1. Meeting new people
2. Money to date men or women
3. Mas prefer ng tao yung mapera or may trabaho kesa sa gwapo o maganda kaso wala namang career o future objectives, atleast alam mo magiging maayos ang future nyo.

sampol: lalake ka, d gwapo, pero mapera may career eh. tingin mo ba yung sandamakmak na babaeng magaganda pero hirap ang buhay dahil sa walang trabaho yung asawa o bf nila eh walang chance na patulan ka? meron. tsaka tingin ko malaki. aanhin mo yung gwapo kung wala naman patutunguhan dun ang buhay mo

4. sa hirap ng buhay ngayon, madali ang mainlove or magkaron ng karelasyon, mahirap magkaron ng trabaho.
5. People will fall in love because of your career!
6. Hindi ka man magkaron ng love life, magiging maayos naman ang buhay mo.

ang alam ko lang disadvantages ng career ay yung pagiging stressful or hectic eh. tsaka yun nga, medyo hindi ka mafofocus sa love. pero gaya ng binanggit ko sa taas, kusa yan lalapit kahit wala ka gawin.

advantages of love:

1. kilig
2. masaya
3. masarap
4. wala na ko maisip e

disadvantages

1. stressful din
2. high possibility na mawalan ka ng career. gaya sa panahon ngayon, pag nakabuntis o nabuntis ka, possible d ka na pag aralin dahil may pananagutan ka or dahil nga buntis ka, mahihirapan ka mag-aral
3. d mo alam kung may patutunguhan ang buhay mo.
4. minsan may sakit din sa ulo dahil sa away

d ko na babanggitin yung iba. isipin nyo lang yung mga kahihinatnan pa ng no.2 sadyang mahihirapan ka na pagdating sa ganyan.

so career, I CHOOSE YOU!

This is a good clarification in choosing between love and career, I experienced it, yung gf ko lumipat ng team kase malayo kami sa isat,isa binabangit nya parate na kung pwede lumipat ako dun sa city which is nagwowork xa pero di ako pumayag kase stable na at maganda ung trabaho ko sa hometown namen, nasa mind set ko parati na mahirap ang buhay at maghanap ng trabahong maganda na fit sayo kaya stick ako kung saan ako ngayon, ayun lumipat ng team, yes gwapo ang lalake tapos magkasama lang sila sa work

 

[jhenix123]

For me Love, why? Loving someone is also a career giving your best always to be with this person you love, so for me lossing the one i love meaning my career is done. not saying career on the other way is done also, a lot of things to explain but i will pick love over money if i would be given a chance to choose.

How bout you? give us your thought lets exchange ideas regarding this. thank you.

for me career , kasi ang love nandyan lang yan dapat nakaplano muna lahat.

 

[kitang1201]

Pwede both. sabi nga nila time management lang yan. yes madaming sakripisyo pero pag nagkakaintindihan kayo at mahal ninyo isa't isa. kayang-kaya yan.

 

[da3m09]

syempre si love

 

[Julskelion]

For me Love, why? Loving someone is also a career giving your best always to be with this person you love, so for me lossing the one i love meaning my career is done. not saying career on the other way is done also, a lot of things to explain but i will pick love over money if i would be given a chance to choose.

How bout you? give us your thought lets exchange ideas regarding this. thank you.

In my opinion, if your career is your life greatest purpose then your love life will supplement it. If your girl doesn't understand this and makes a lot of issues about it then your not compatible with each other.

Your relationship or your love for that matter will always be someone who will encourage or make you better in achieving your life's purpose; however there will always be compromises in the relationship but not to the point that you forget or undermine your life purpose.

 

[celinelois]

Madami ang nag sasabi na Career muna dahil ang love susunod lang yan. Career muna dahil ano ipapakain mo sa mamahalin mo. Career muna para ma prepare mo ang future.

Bakit, hindi ba natin maiisip ang mga bagay na yan kung love ang uunahin natin? Kumbaga nga sabi nila, pag may inspirasyon, mas makakaya natin ang mahihirap na goals natin.

Paano kung ilagay natin si Love. Love ang pipiliin ko dahil susunod naman si Career eh, syempre dahil love ko ang tao, mag pupursige akong makakuha ng magandang work na makapag provide ako sa mga needs niya.

And we are talking about RIGHT LOVE here, hindi mga puppy love na or LOVE dahil may gusto lang.

LOVE, I choose you!

 

[kengie03]

hirap nyan. haha. di mo ba pwedeng pagsabayin?

 

[Iztrahat216]

This question reminds me of the speech of the CEO of Coca-Cola.

According to him, “Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them – Work, Family, Health, Friends and Spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.

You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls – Family, Health, Friends and Spirit– are made of glass. If you drop one of these; they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for it.

Work efficiently during office hours and leave on time. Give the required time to your family, friends and have proper rest. Value has a value only if its value is valued.”

Although Love and Career was not directly mentioned, this do apply. I had my fair share of both. That time I preferred to run after career, (for financial stability and career growth). Sadly i had to severe my relationship with my Girlfriend. As i progressed on the career ladder, the more did I realise that Love is more important than Career. As the speech goes, career can bounce back. Funds can be earned, but a severed relationship can not be placed back to it previous state.

Remember your career won't be with you on your death bed, but the person whom you love will.

 

[adrian2143]

Almost all of the marriage breakup cost by Money.

So I think you need to balance it.

 

[Ejstrider]

Up ko nga to till now nagtatanong pa din ako.

 

[hurt143]

Why can't we have both love and a career? Is it really that hard? It doesn't make sense when you have to give up one for the other.