@mama meow
and that was a handful
i think I hit your home right there
well for one I wasn't really convincing you regarding marriage,people like you are more or less decided already on what to do and no longer listen to other people's opinion on the matter.Obvious naman un,and your latest post just proves it. i think its more of for the people reading so they do get to see two sides of the coin.
and like what I did mention on my previous post, being single and married is to be a choice and I do respect what ever your choice is,but ofcourse will rebut on certain points this is a forum after all
it just so happens na maganda ung arguements mo
one,
being married has its cons and pros true,but its not at all a walk in the park nor is it anything close to wonderful and perfect.
wala naman ako sinabing being married is perfect
Kung mahirap na sayo ang pagiging single,mas mahirap ang pagiging married.
madaming ups and downs ang married life,
from finances to everyday life.
but there are things na hinding hindi maiintindihan ng isang single na tao and probably never will.
and ito ung mga bagay na "you are missing out"
one would be having a son/daughter.
ung ngiti lang ng anak mo kapag pagod ka, ung yakap..
ung halik...iba..
and dont tell me na parehas lang un sa halik ng pamangkin at kapatid ..dahil ...well ibang iba..something na di mo magegets ever.
kung tingin mo dyahe ang pagbubuntis, hospital at pananatili sa bahay.
well oo naman,
pero kapag nahawakan mo na ung bata...
sobrang mawawala lahat ng yan..
pero then again...di mo alam un.
parang ganito,
di mo malalaman ang salitang gutom hanggat lagi kang busog.
hindi mo alam ang salitang ginhawa kung di ka naghirap.
me mas malalim pa,
di mo alam ang umaga hanggat di mo pa nakikita ang gabi.
given na mahirap ang married life..pero bakit madami pa din ang nag eengage sa ganitong compromises?
well its something na your brain wouldn't understand anyway.
good for you kung alam mo ang desires and happiness mo
lahat naman ata ng tao e dapat ganun.
kasi para saan ba ang lahat ng ito,ika nga.
bawat ginagawa natin sa mundo e halos lahat to satisfy our own needs and wants
pero ika nga sa ibang relihiyon,once we stop and we do something selfless thats when we start a higher calling.
kung ang tingin mo sa marriage e isang manipis na papel lang.
at isang pahirap sa buhay gaya nga ng nabanggit mo,
well
it doesnt really equate na un ang katotohanan, sa mundo mo sigurong ginagalawan mo baka.
pero para sa iba ,at karamihan ang kasal at hindi lamang isang kasunduan.
Di ko alam kung anung background mo,
pero sa isang typical na pamilyang pilipino,kumpara sa ibang lahi, mas matibay ang mga salitang kasal at hindi lang procreation gaya ng pinopoint out mo.
siguro naman me kilala kang isang pamilya na masaya ...
tuwing tinignan mo ba sila procreation lang ba talaga?
even sa relihiyon matagal ng tinaggal ang idea ng pro creation,dahil sa over population.
, well except on certain areas na talgang konti lang ang population.
totoo na ang pag ibig e makikita kahit saan at kahit kanino,
at pede mong ituring na pamilya ang bawat isa na nakakasalamuha mo,
pero ung pag ibig na mag eendure sa lahat ng pagkakataon e bukod sa magulang, minsan hindi pa nga,
e ....well...choice ...na un..hehehehe
ever wondered why most people kahit na alam na masasaktan, are still willing to risk falling inlove?
well,...you wouldnt know.
i am skipping the discussion on God, and creation
regarding sa mga inspirasyon mo,yeeah true they love what they are doing.
kaya nga sila successful and stuff as pero your indications,
pero there is a trait about them that you would never get and will stop you from being close to their footstep
as for your sologamy,
well its another term for narcissm if you ask me,this is my personal opinion thou,
and totoo madalas banyaga lang meron nito,kaakibat ng superiority complex
there is a reason why pinoys are considered one of the most happiest people on earth.
as for ts.
like i said nothing will prepare you for marriage .
and dont get married for the wrong reasons.
ung sa babies and pets, sure why not,
pero expect na di maganda ang kakalabasan.
specially at wala kang anak
i have both a dog and a kid,and they are worlds apart,specially sa self satisfaction and gratification.
pero again you wouldnt understand that.kasi all you have is a hypothesis.