Are you with the RIGHT PARTNER? (READ THIS!!!)

[ryngareth]

nice sharing TS

 

[singkit_1588]

During an open forum, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"

The speaker then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the speaker.
...
Here's the answer.

Every relationship has a CYCLE… In the beginning; you FALL IN LOVE with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their individual or unique characteristics ¬ . Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely NATURAL and SPONTANEOUS experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "FALLING" in LOVE.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet." Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a PASSIVE and SPONTANEOUS experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love FADES. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's individual or unique characteristics ¬ , instead of being cute, it'll drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic DIFFERENCE between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with SOMEONE ELSE. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's LEARNING to love the person you found.

People BLAME their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

INFIDELITY is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies WITHIN IT...

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY, you'd feel better. But you'd be in the SAME SITUATION a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's LEARNING to love the person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner). Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also LAWS for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are PREDICTABLE.

Love is therefore a "DECISION". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: It's not pre-determined who walks into your life. It is up to you to DECIDE who you let WALK AWAY, who you let STAY, and who you refuse to LET GO.

nice...
sana ganyan mag-isip lahat..

though easier said that done..

 

[acusDgreat]

update ko po..

 

[crisss]

ayos to share ko to sa friend ko mabilis magsawa e haha

 

[---jeii]

totoo yan ts

 

[rudel777]

nice ts

 

[acusDgreat]

update update..

 

[Angelwithoutwings]

"I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY, you'd feel better. But you'd be in the SAME SITUATION a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's LEARNING to love the person you found."


I totally agree Nice one sir!

 

[acusDgreat]

update ko po itong thread..

para sa mga hindi pa nakakabasa at the same time para din sa mga newcomers..

 

[jmpotato05]

nice nice... very nice thread... ang galing lang...wala ako maisip na salita para sa thread na to..

 

[sumaksidot]

Tagos sa dibdib! nice!

 

[neopimp6666]

very nice TS

 

[acusDgreat]

nice nice... very nice thread... ang galing lang...wala ako maisip na salita para sa thread na to..

Tagos sa dibdib! nice!

very nice TS

salamat sa pgbisita..

update ulit..

 

[acusDgreat]

nghalukay po ako, para sa mga di pa nakakabasa..

update ko lang po..

 

[enlightenknight]

astig nito TS. thanks for sharing. Love is a decision not just a feeling..

 

[lean0417]

nice share ts...

it's easy to fall in love.
what is hard is knowing how to sustain the love
and keep it growing & intact..

thanks for sharing this...

 

[Mimosa]

I agree with this Nice share

 

[jennrhanz05]

uhumm grabeh... AMEN!!!

 

[acusDgreat]

salamat po..

update ulit hope my makabasa ulit..

 

[bluehavok_20]