Broken Hearted Club (BHC) presents: [Love Advice for Broken Hearts]

[Miss Red]

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pero nag uusap po kami sa girl okay nman, medyo na iilang siya dahil bata ako... pero sa tingin ko may chance ako kasi pinapikta niya na may pag asa talaga..salamat po sa advice

Im already 30 and my husband is just 26, we'd been together for 6 long years and still counting. wala naman problem sa age gap eh. if you work together, you can make things work out in spite of the differences and incompatibilities.

keep believing and dont stop loving if this one fails, there's always a next chapter in your life.

 

[buttercup20]

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Im already 30 and my husband is just 26, we'd been together for 6 long years and still counting. wala naman problem sa age gap eh. if you work together, you can make things work out in spite of the differences and incompatibilities.

keep believing and dont stop loving if this one fails, there's always a next chapter in your life.

nakakainspire naman yan missred...

hmmmm...

 

[Miss Red]

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nakakainspire naman yan missred...

hmmmm...

thanks butt!
actually, hindi naman kame perfect couple (as you can read to my poems and stories here) but in spite of those pains, heartaches and headaches, Im trying to be more positive in all situations because I do believe that in everything that happens, it always comes with its purpose.

ahaha, easy to say, hard to do but we have to do to continue living and to liven our spirits!

throw all the badvibes away!

ang haba ng sinabi ko

 

[leonard1928]

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18 years old po ako tapos yung girl ay 20..? bigay po kayo ng tips ano ang dapat at di dapat gawin..salamat po..

best tip na pwede ko sabihin sayo is magfocus ka muna sa pagaaral..

di ko sinabing iwan mo gf mo pero at that age..dapat alam mo ang mas dapat mong ipriority..

if ever na may problem kayong maencounter..take it lightly and dont ever try to make lustful things..

 

[Miss Red]

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best tip na pwede ko sabihin sayo is magfocus ka muna sa pagaaral..

di ko sinabing iwan mo gf mo pero at that age..dapat alam mo ang mas dapat mong ipriority..

if ever na may problem kayong maencounter..take it lightly and dont ever try to make lustful things..

I disagree...charing!

This is true and correct loveteam. galing ni loveteam ah.
pero paano kapag tumibok ang puso, wala ka na magagawa kundi sundin ito - donna cruz

be inlove and be inspired and dont let this ruin your life

 

[Dakilang Torpe]

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patulong po jan, pagkaharap ko si girl sobrang hiya ko as in ako na yata pinaka torpe sa lahat ng makikilala nio kaya sa palagay ko naasar na sia sakin sabi nia pa nga suplado at masunget daw ako di ko kasi sia pinapancn maski daw hi di ko masabi kaya aun di raw nia ako papancnin hanggang di ako gumagawa ng first move

 

[raelito]

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Hi all this topic is not mine pero gusto ko makatulong sa friend ko wala din kasi ako maisagot pag kinkwento nya basta magulo eh sa love experts jan please do reply in this post

Ang kwento

Matagal na ung friend ko at gf nya as in years na
and then dito ako nabigla suddenly nagconfess sa kanya gf nya that she slept with another guy
sobrang nashock syempre friend ko but bilib ako sa kanya di sya nagpakain sa galit so pinagusapan nila mabuti at in the end natangap pa nya si girl pero un lang syempre bawas na bawas na ang tiwala. do you think worth it ung pagtangap nya ulit? nakita ko din naman mukang nagsisisi talaga si girl pero who knows lang talaga what could happen.

How the cheating happened, d ko alam pano nameet ni girl ung guy pero sabi sa akin it took 3 months before the cheating happened and ang malala it was just the 2nd time they went out that it happened kaya medyo hilarious din. so un nga my friend asked her gf to confess the whole thing kahit masakit kasi nga syempre un ang payo ko mas madali makamoveon if you know the whole thing and kung may pagkukulang ka man si guy so un, as per the confession sabi ni girl ginusto nya ung nangyari because it was planned but hindi daw nya nagustuhan nung gagawin na niya ung act dun ako nalabuan dapat nagbackout si girl diba? so un diniscuss ni girl the whole thing and d lang ako makapaniwala na hindi nya nagustuhan ung ginawa niya with all the things that she did to the guy? you know what i mean na different positions including the girl being on top. so ayun naguluhan na naman si friend all my friend wants is umamin si gf sa lahat2 ng nagawa nya nun atleast may peace of mind na siguro pag gnawa ni girl un

i dont know talaga eh whats your suggestion guys?
this is really a crazy situation na di ko alam pano magbigay ng payo kaya i just posted it here wala naman mawawala para lang makatulong

 

[maestrodos]

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whoa, idol ko si friend mo sa ginawa niya, biruin mo natanggap pa niya ung gf niya kahit na nagkaganun. sigurado bawas na ang tiwala nung friend mo kay gf niya. at sabi nga ni kuya jobert, "Ang Tiwala at Pagmamahal magkakambal yan..". para sa akin,equivalent exchange ang dapat mangyari. hindi sa kelangang mambabae ang friend mo kundi dapat me gawin yung babae para makabawi sa nasirang tiwala. yun lang para sa'kin. kasi sa aminin at sa hindi, balik sila sa simula. sayang ang tagal na pa naman din nila.

 

[Miss Red]

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patulong po jan, pagkaharap ko si girl sobrang hiya ko as in ako na yata pinaka torpe sa lahat ng makikilala nio kaya sa palagay ko naasar na sia sakin sabi nia pa nga suplado at masunget daw ako di ko kasi sia pinapancn maski daw hi di ko masabi kaya aun di raw nia ako papancnin hanggang di ako gumagawa ng first move

wala naman masama sa pagiging torpe lalo na kung first time mong tinamaan ng pana ni kupido.

if i were you, sa experience mongyan ka kumuha ng mga aral, yun tipong ah nung ganito nagawa ko ganito naging reaction nya. mga ganyang bagay ba. wag ka agad panghinaan ng loob but instead build up confidence in you.

umpisahan mo sa isang hi or hello or just a smile, kahit hindi dun sa mismong babaeng gusto mo. kahit sa ibang taong makita mo or makasalamuha mo. gawin mong hobby then eventually makakasanayan mo yan at magiging normal na lang sayo. hindi mo mamamalayan si crush mo na pala ang nabati mo then tuloy tuloy na yan.

Hi all this topic is not mine pero gusto ko makatulong sa friend ko wala din kasi ako maisagot pag kinkwento nya basta magulo eh sa love experts jan please do reply in this post

Ang kwento

Matagal na ung friend ko at gf nya as in years na
and then dito ako nabigla suddenly nagconfess sa kanya gf nya that she slept with another guy
sobrang nashock syempre friend ko but bilib ako sa kanya di sya nagpakain sa galit so pinagusapan nila mabuti at in the end natangap pa nya si girl pero un lang syempre bawas na bawas na ang tiwala. do you think worth it ung pagtangap nya ulit? nakita ko din naman mukang nagsisisi talaga si girl pero who knows lang talaga what could happen.

How the cheating happened, d ko alam pano nameet ni girl ung guy pero sabi sa akin it took 3 months before the cheating happened and ang malala it was just the 2nd time they went out that it happened kaya medyo hilarious din. so un nga my friend asked her gf to confess the whole thing kahit masakit kasi nga syempre un ang payo ko mas madali makamoveon if you know the whole thing and kung may pagkukulang ka man si guy so un, as per the confession sabi ni girl ginusto nya ung nangyari because it was planned but hindi daw nya nagustuhan nung gagawin na niya ung act dun ako nalabuan dapat nagbackout si girl diba? so un diniscuss ni girl the whole thing and d lang ako makapaniwala na hindi nya nagustuhan ung ginawa niya with all the things that she did to the guy? you know what i mean na different positions including the girl being on top. so ayun naguluhan na naman si friend all my friend wants is umamin si gf sa lahat2 ng nagawa nya nun atleast may peace of mind na siguro pag gnawa ni girl un

i dont know talaga eh whats your suggestion guys?
this is really a crazy situation na di ko alam pano magbigay ng payo kaya i just posted it here wala naman mawawala para lang makatulong

If your friend is still on doubt, I suggest na he leave the girl muna rather than to stay with her pero nilalamon sya ng hinala.

tell your friend na since he forgave her gf in spite that she cheated on him, dapat he renewed the trust with her. kung pipilitin kasi nyang buuin ulit yun trust nya sa gf nya na nasira na, hindi na mangyayari yun but instead he must created a new trust for her na dapat paghirapan i-gain ng babae.

so better step out of the relationship kung ganyan nagdududa pa rin sya at nasasaktan. pero kung nagmatigas ang kanyang ulo at sinunod ang kanyang puso, he must stand with his decision. tigilan ang paghihinala at muling matiwala.

for sure, mahirap gawin but it will come a time na magagawa nya rin. pero syempre sabi ko nga dapat paghirapan ulit ng babae na makuha ang tiwala ng kanyang bf. kapag napansin ng friend mo na wala naman effort sa babae na para ibalik yung sinira nyang tiwala, then its time for your friend to move on kasi hindi sincere ang sorry ng gf nya sa kanya.

its a two way process, your friend should be willing to trust her fully and his gf must do her very best to prove she's worthy.

for you naman po, just dont judge the girl for what she did. there's must be a reason for everything. behind her story comes an untold truth. let's still give her the respect due to her.

 

[Dakilang Torpe]

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@Ate red nga pla ewan ko ba lam nio po since grade skul kaklase ko sia close kami ahaha maski nung hanggang 2nd yr kaso nung nag 3rd yr na kame bigla nlng pumasok sa icp ko na mahal ko na pla cia at un parang nagiba na actions ko di tulad ng date na lagi kaming magkausap ngaun nahihiya na ako T.T sia pa lng din po ang unang babaeng minahal ko...

 

[tupangReD]

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w0w haha, nakakamiss ang ganyang feeling, dahan dahanin m0 lang pre unti unti ba, pabir0 bir0 lang gang sa maging kump0rtable ka na =)

 

[Miss Red]

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daanin mo ulit sa smile,
tapos sa "hi"
tapos sa "hello"

magtutuloy-tuloy na yan eventually. halata naman na tuloy ikaw me gusto...ayiiieee

ps.
aral-aral muna at gawin mo syang inspirasyon

 

[noted]

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hmmmmmmmmmm,.......

 

[Dakilang Torpe]

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epektib pa po ba ung harana? kasi marunong akong mag gitara gusto ko sna itry eh hahaha

 

[tupangReD]

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nakakakilab0t naman este nakakakilig pala, haha

 

[noted]

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nice naman.. meron plang ganito di2

 

[norell24]

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patulong po jan, pagkaharap ko si girl sobrang hiya ko as in ako na yata pinaka torpe sa lahat ng makikilala nio kaya sa palagay ko naasar na sia sakin sabi nia pa nga suplado at masunget daw ako di ko kasi sia pinapancn maski daw hi di ko masabi kaya aun di raw nia ako papancnin hanggang di ako gumagawa ng first move

Kung ako sayo aminin mo na ok lang masaktan kaysa magsisi ng mahabang panahon dahil di mo sinabi sa kanya.. believe me brad nanggaling na ko jan pumapatak ang oras...

 

[norell24]

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Hi all this topic is not mine pero gusto ko makatulong sa friend ko wala din kasi ako maisagot pag kinkwento nya basta magulo eh sa love experts jan please do reply in this post

Ang kwento

Matagal na ung friend ko at gf nya as in years na
and then dito ako nabigla suddenly nagconfess sa kanya gf nya that she slept with another guy
sobrang nashock syempre friend ko but bilib ako sa kanya di sya nagpakain sa galit so pinagusapan nila mabuti at in the end natangap pa nya si girl pero un lang syempre bawas na bawas na ang tiwala. do you think worth it ung pagtangap nya ulit? nakita ko din naman mukang nagsisisi talaga si girl pero who knows lang talaga what could happen.

How the cheating happened, d ko alam pano nameet ni girl ung guy pero sabi sa akin it took 3 months before the cheating happened and ang malala it was just the 2nd time they went out that it happened kaya medyo hilarious din. so un nga my friend asked her gf to confess the whole thing kahit masakit kasi nga syempre un ang payo ko mas madali makamoveon if you know the whole thing and kung may pagkukulang ka man si guy so un, as per the confession sabi ni girl ginusto nya ung nangyari because it was planned but hindi daw nya nagustuhan nung gagawin na niya ung act dun ako nalabuan dapat nagbackout si girl diba? so un diniscuss ni girl the whole thing and d lang ako makapaniwala na hindi nya nagustuhan ung ginawa niya with all the things that she did to the guy? you know what i mean na different positions including the girl being on top. so ayun naguluhan na naman si friend all my friend wants is umamin si gf sa lahat2 ng nagawa nya nun atleast may peace of mind na siguro pag gnawa ni girl un

i dont know talaga eh whats your suggestion guys?
this is really a crazy situation na di ko alam pano magbigay ng payo kaya i just posted it here wala naman mawawala para lang makatulong

ang labo nga brad..ginusto nya yung nangyari pero di nya gusto yung ginawa nila... or baka naman kailangan lang ng pera ni girl..

 

[Dakilang Torpe]

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ang intindi ko sa girl siya ay isang manloloko!!! di sia makuntento sa isang lalaking tunay na nagmamahal sa kanya! at ska wag niang sabhing ayaw nia kung ayaw nia edi sna nag back out sia at kung totoo at mahal nia talaga ung lalake di sia papagalaw sa iba! for me it hurts kung mangyayari man yan tibag ang pagkalalake ko nian

 

[tupangReD]

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just be sure na f0rgive and f0rget, baka dumating yung time na lagi nya isusumbat yun nagawa nung girl pag mag kakaaway sila, wala masama sa pag papatawad.
Fo0l me 0nce shame 0n y0u, fo0l me twice shame 0n me.