Broken Hearted Club (BHC) presents: [Love Advice for Broken Hearts]

[yzeroo]

Razielle Prima ,,, "May naalala tuloy ako na naging pasyente dito na walang sense ang mga advice kasi 'di naman aabot sa kanya. Mahirap magbigay ng advice para sa ikabubuti ng tao pero 'di naman iintindihin.

Advices are sought coz they are needed. They would mean nothing if it wouldn't be heard, understood, or taken for granted"

WAG PO MASYADO EXCITED MANG GIGIL... sorry ah. pero dami ko lang po tawa

PEACE EVERYONE

 

[demon spade]

Razielle Prima ,,,

"May naalala tuloy ako na naging pasyente dito na walang sense ang mga advice kasi 'di naman aabot sa kanya. Mahirap magbigay ng advice para sa ikabubuti ng tao pero 'di naman iintindihin.

Advices are sought coz they are needed. They would mean nothing if it wouldn't be heard, understood, or taken for granted"[/QOUTE]

WAG PO MASYADO EXCITED MANG GIGIL... sorry ah. pero dami ko lang po tawa

PEACE EVERYONE

may basehan bakit niya nasabi ito,

maybe tama si tearz your not matured enough para maintindihan mo ang nais namin iparating sayo, kaya hindi ka nauubusan ng tanong which is sa tingin ko alam mo naman ang sagot..

Isa sa mga punto kung bakit niya nasabi yun, una parang di mo naman dinadigest lahat ng mga sinabi namin sayo, lahat yun ay para makabuti sayo pero it's seems kulang pa, pangalawa parang dito ka dumedepende nang pwedeng gawin once na may nangyaring kakaiba then when we say our insight eh parang hangin lang na dumaan sayo and finally wala pong nakakatawa sa sinabi niyang ito..

 

[beibhytearz]

Pahelp. I don't what to do. I'm feeling so down right now.

I love someone for almost 5 years now. She is my bestfriend. Two times ko na siyang niligawan before but unfortunately, di pwede coz we're BESTFRIENDS. Yesterday was the last time I saw her since magpapa Dubai na siya. Dun siya nagstay sakin before siya umalis kahit 1 day lang. I really love her so much that I don't want to lose her. What should I do? I don't want to lose her nor I want to be seperated from her. I can't go yet to her since marami pa akong dapat gawin dito sa pinas and I also don't know if I could ever see her again. Ang hirap, 5 years of loving her. I trusted her bf but soon that guy fucking cheated with her. That's the reason why she is no longer here and trying to move on with her life in another country. Urgh! I love her so much that I just want to be with her but I don't know what to do anymore.

Yun nga eh. 5 years. She knows how much I love her. I keep telling myself na it's better for us na bestfriends lang din siguro but yesterday nung aalis siya, I don't want to lose her nor gave her to someone else. I want to be by always by her side. Is it better to be just besftfriends forever or to be lovers that has only a 50% chance of being together forever or being a stranger.

"cheated on her"
Yun po tamang term.
kasi cheated with her means dalawa sila na nagcheat.

Back sa case mo, there is nothing wrong being a bestfriend.
You may still love her kahit na best lang kayo. And if you'd ask me it's better pa nga kasi habang bestfriends kayo she can be open to you to the maximum possible way. Unlike pag naging kayo.

Pag naging kayo na kasi meron chance na matamaan na ang friendship ninyo. Papasok na ang selos, though may selos na sa ngayon kasi nga nagmamahal ka na. Magiging public lamang ito kasi if naging kayo na magkakaroon ka ng karapatan na magselos.
So from there sa halip na maging close kayo baka mabawasan na. She would think of words to tell you and di na magiging ganun kaopen sayo about everything.

For now give her space. Lalo na alam mo pala reason why bakit siya lalayo. Pray na sana magabayan siya. Time will tell if may chance maging kayo. though i hate to be the bearer of bad news but I guess your girl loved being your bestfriend. Than a lover. Maybe she saw something in you deserving to be her bestfriend. And being a bestfriend is better than a lover. Pati ako ganun din gusto ko. Difference lang naman is you can go physical sa kanya which in bestfriends dont apply. Unless willing siya sa friends with benefits na setup.

Razielle Prima ,,,

may basehan bakit niya nasabi ito,

maybe tama si tearz your not matured enough para maintindihan mo ang nais namin iparating sayo, kaya hindi ka nauubusan ng tanong which is sa tingin ko alam mo naman ang sagot..

Isa sa mga punto kung bakit niya nasabi yun, una parang di mo naman dinadigest lahat ng mga sinabi namin sayo, lahat yun ay para makabuti sayo pero it's seems kulang pa, pangalawa parang dito ka dumedepende nang pwedeng gawin once na may nangyaring kakaiba then when we say our insight eh parang hangin lang na dumaan sayo and finally wala pong nakakatawa sa sinabi niyang ito..

Haha, di po kami nanggigigil sir yzero. Ang point lang is mukhang malabo pa sa'yo ang meaning ng Love. May first time sa lahat ng bagay, usually pag first time mo di mo pa alam at naguguluhan sa mga nangyayari which is normal. Ang di lang normal is sasabihin mo na mahal mo ang isang tao pero nagagawa mong tumingin sa iba. Try reading this above problem where he's stuck being inloved with his bestfriend for 5 years. Dun sa5 years na yun iisa lang ang goal niya and til now focused siya sa bestfriend na ayun though surely maraming DDG na babae siyang nakakasalamuha, focused pa rin siya sa single Goal. Yun ang love.

Di rin namin ipinipilit sa'yo mga sinasabi namin. Yun lang may tanong ka, sinasagoit namin at may bago ka ulit tanong. Yes tama si sir spade habang tumatagal at dumarami tanong mo nawawala ka na sa topic ng sarili mong kwento. Pwedeng maging magulo pero sana di ganunn kagulo na maraming conflict. If ever one of us ang sinundan mo maybe wala ka na prob now. Kasi meron ka na fixed na gagawin. Di ka na mangangapa. Yun lang di ka na nga sumunod gumagawa ka nanaman ng bagong problem. You even rated yung mahal mo na "1/4" nung DDG? why does it have to go Physical? Are you sure that's even love?

 

[demon spade]

"cheated on her"
Yun po tamang term.
kasi cheated with her means dalawa sila na nagcheat.

Back sa case mo, there is nothing wrong being a bestfriend.
You may still love her kahit na best lang kayo. And if you'd ask me it's better pa nga kasi habang bestfriends kayo she can be open to you to the maximum possible way. Unlike pag naging kayo.

Pag naging kayo na kasi meron chance na matamaan na ang friendship ninyo. Papasok na ang selos, though may selos na sa ngayon kasi nga nagmamahal ka na. Magiging public lamang ito kasi if naging kayo na magkakaroon ka ng karapatan na magselos.
So from there sa halip na maging close kayo baka mabawasan na. She would think of words to tell you and di na magiging ganun kaopen sayo about everything.

For now give her space. Lalo na alam mo pala reason why bakit siya lalayo. Pray na sana magabayan siya. Time will tell if may chance maging kayo. though i hate to be the bearer of bad news but I guess your girl loved being your bestfriend. Than a lover. Maybe she saw something in you deserving to be her bestfriend. And being a bestfriend is better than a lover. Pati ako ganun din gusto ko. Difference lang naman is you can go physical sa kanya which in bestfriends dont apply. Unless willing siya sa friends with benefits na setup.

Haha, di po kami nanggigigil sir yzero. Ang point lang is mukhang malabo pa sa'yo ang meaning ng Love. May first time sa lahat ng bagay, usually pag first time mo di mo pa alam at naguguluhan sa mga nangyayari which is normal. Ang di lang normal is sasabihin mo na mahal mo ang isang tao pero nagagawa mong tumingin sa iba. Try reading this above problem where he's stuck being inloved with his bestfriend for 5 years. Dun sa5 years na yun iisa lang ang goal niya and til now focused siya sa bestfriend na ayun though surely maraming DDG na babae siyang nakakasalamuha, focused pa rin siya sa single Goal. Yun ang love.

Di rin namin ipinipilit sa'yo mga sinasabi namin. Yun lang may tanong ka, sinasagoit namin at may bago ka ulit tanong. Yes tama si sir spade habang tumatagal at dumarami tanong mo nawawala ka na sa topic ng sarili mong kwento. Pwedeng maging magulo pero sana di ganunn kagulo na maraming conflict. If ever one of us ang sinundan mo maybe wala ka na prob now. Kasi meron ka na fixed na gagawin. Di ka na mangangapa. Yun lang di ka na nga sumunod gumagawa ka nanaman ng bagong problem. You even rated yung mahal mo na "1/4" nung DDG? why does it have to go Physical? Are you sure that's even love?

di ko pwedeng tawaging "love" yan "obsession" pwede pa.
Edit : may similarities din pala sila, yung isa 5 months tapos
5 years.
Similar by numbers but not the period of time..

 

[nikzjan27]

makapagbasa nga. patambay lang po

 

[xx2047xx]

nice quotes

 

[malassezia]

Hi friends!

I would just like to relay something that happened to me and my friend. Para lang warning sa mga babae. At hindi mabroken heart. Hahaha.

I recently learned na ang daming babae ng Persian/Iranian BF ko. Well ex na, pero di pa niya alam kasi nasa Iran siya ngayon. Hehehe. As in ang dami. The principle daw kasi is they are encouraged to have multiple GFs kasi bawal daw mag sariling sikap. Sin daw yun. Pero yung magsabay-sabay ng mga babae, hindi? Hmmmm. Twisted. Anyway, ganun daw talaga sila dito. Madali daw kumuha ng GF. Kahit ikaw ang serious GF, meron on the side.

Degrading isn't it?

 

[demon spade]

Hi friends!

I would just like to relay something that happened to me and my friend. Para lang warning sa mga babae. At hindi mabroken heart. Hahaha.

I recently learned na ang daming babae ng Persian/Iranian BF ko. Well ex na, pero di pa niya alam kasi nasa Iran siya ngayon. Hehehe. As in ang dami. The principle daw kasi is they are encouraged to have multiple GFs kasi bawal daw mag sariling sikap. Sin daw yun. Pero yung magsabay-sabay ng mga babae, hindi? Hmmmm. Twisted. Anyway, ganun daw talaga sila dito. Madali daw kumuha ng GF. Kahit ikaw ang serious GF, meron on the side.

Degrading isn't it?

nasa kultura na nila yun and i think mahirap nang baguhin yun lalo na kung nakasanayan at napagpasa-pasahan na nila.

By the way thank you for the little information.

 

[malassezia]

nasa kultura na nila yun and i think mahirap nang baguhin yun lalo na kung nakasanayan at napagpasa-pasahan na nila.

By the way thank you for the little information.

Yup. Kaya I think prevention is better than cure.

Better other girls know, before they start a pseudo-relationship with one of them. Ako kasi, i didn't really know. First time ko lang sila naencounter. Mas gusto nila mga saleslady and bata. So ingat girls.

 

[orbot]

patambay pooooooooo

 

[gotchie]

patambay po btw my camanava area b dto

 

[beibhytearz]

Hi friends!

I would just like to relay something that happened to me and my friend. Para lang warning sa mga babae. At hindi mabroken heart. Hahaha.

I recently learned na ang daming babae ng Persian/Iranian BF ko. Well ex na, pero di pa niya alam kasi nasa Iran siya ngayon. Hehehe. As in ang dami. The principle daw kasi is they are encouraged to have multiple GFs kasi bawal daw mag sariling sikap. Sin daw yun. Pero yung magsabay-sabay ng mga babae, hindi? Hmmmm. Twisted. Anyway, ganun daw talaga sila dito. Madali daw kumuha ng GF. Kahit ikaw ang serious GF, meron on the side.

Degrading isn't it?

Yup. Kaya I think prevention is better than cure.

Better other girls know, before they start a pseudo-relationship with one of them. Ako kasi, i didn't really know. First time ko lang sila naencounter. Mas gusto nila mga saleslady and bata. So ingat girls.

Yes, there are cultures wherein, lalo na kapag di ka sanay, degrading talaga. Here in Romania naman sobrang open sila sa sex. There are times that a family can do whatever they like. Incest is quite famous here though not everyone practices it. As what was posted in one of my confessions where nagsusukatan lang sino mas masikip. For me it should be discrete if not private. Pero dito they can do it anywhere. A fellow workmate also took out his shaft while we were working before just to ask us if it's a good size. Another place I've gone before was in malaysia where they prefer sadomasochistic practices. I find it disturbing. In America too, A girl can have a date with any guy she wanted. They don't need to be in a relationship to do so. Once a girl liked a guy, they too can have S**. Unlike here that in most cases a girl and a guy often go as far as that where they're in a relationship.

 

[demon spade]

Yes, there are cultures wherein, lalo na kapag di ka sanay, degrading talaga. Here in Romania naman sobrang open sila sa sex. There are times that a family can do whatever they like. Incest is quite famous here though not everyone practices it. As what was posted in one of my confessions where nagsusukatan lang sino mas masikip. For me it should be discrete if not private. Pero dito they can do it anywhere. A fellow workmate also took out his shaft while we were working before just to ask us if it's a good size. Another place I've gone before was in malaysia where they prefer sadomasochistic practices. I find it disturbing. In America too, A girl can have a date with any guy she wanted. They don't need to be in a relationship to do so. Once a girl liked a guy, they too can have S**. Unlike here that in most cases a girl and a guy often go as far as that where they're in a relationship.

depende pa rin siguro ito sa babae kung papatulan nya ito o hindi wew painit na painit ang usapan dito aha.

 

[beibhytearz]

depende pa rin siguro ito sa babae kung papatulan nya ito o hindi wew painit na painit ang usapan dito aha.

kahit kasi sabihin na depende sa aming girls,
mahirap pa rin kasi pag di ka belong lalo na pag nasa ibang bansa ka. I'm not stating na indulge naman. Pero mahirap talaga mag-adjust.

Anong mainit?
Nagbigay lang naman ako additional infos ah.
Bawasan imagination kuya spade di bagay haha.

 

[demon spade]

kahit kasi sabihin na depende sa aming girls,
mahirap pa rin kasi pag di ka belong lalo na pag nasa ibang bansa ka. I'm not stating na indulge naman. Pero mahirap talaga mag-adjust.

Anong mainit?
Nagbigay lang naman ako additional infos ah.
Bawasan imagination kuya spade di bagay haha.

haha di ba bagay?.
Wala lutang lang talaga utak ko nitong nakalipas na araw eh,daming katanungan na kailangang sagutin.

 

[beibhytearz]

haha di ba bagay?.
Wala lutang lang talaga utak ko nitong nakalipas na araw eh,daming katanungan na kailangang sagutin.

Then post nang may pasyente naman.
Di naman dahil sa tayo ang tagapayo eh alam na natin ang lahat.
Ako nga may natututunan pa rin sa inyo eh.

 

[breaker004]

haha di ba bagay?.
Wala lutang lang talaga utak ko nitong nakalipas na araw eh,daming katanungan na kailangang sagutin.

ito ba yung secret natin sir spade?

 

[demon spade]

ito ba yung secret natin sir spade?

maybe haha,baka ito nga yun..

 

[gel2029]

isa na ko sa inyo </3

 

[acusDgreat]

Hi friends!

I would just like to relay something that happened to me and my friend. Para lang warning sa mga babae. At hindi mabroken heart. Hahaha.

I recently learned na ang daming babae ng Persian/Iranian BF ko. Well ex na, pero di pa niya alam kasi nasa Iran siya ngayon. Hehehe. As in ang dami. The principle daw kasi is they are encouraged to have multiple GFs kasi bawal daw mag sariling sikap. Sin daw yun. Pero yung magsabay-sabay ng mga babae, hindi? Hmmmm. Twisted. Anyway, ganun daw talaga sila dito. Madali daw kumuha ng GF. Kahit ikaw ang serious GF, meron on the side.

Degrading isn't it?

Yes, there are cultures wherein, lalo na kapag di ka sanay, degrading talaga. Here in Romania naman sobrang open sila sa sex. There are times that a family can do whatever they like. Incest is quite famous here though not everyone practices it. As what was posted in one of my confessions where nagsusukatan lang sino mas masikip. For me it should be discrete if not private. Pero dito they can do it anywhere. A fellow workmate also took out his shaft while we were working before just to ask us if it's a good size. Another place I've gone before was in malaysia where they prefer sadomasochistic practices. I find it disturbing. In America too, A girl can have a date with any guy she wanted. They don't need to be in a relationship to do so. Once a girl liked a guy, they too can have S**. Unlike here that in most cases a girl and a guy often go as far as that where they're in a relationship.

Degrading talaga lalo na kung hindi ka sanay sa nakikita at nakakasalamuha mo..

Kaya nga iba pa din ang dalagang pilipina..

Tingin ko depende pa din sa girl yun kung papatol sila o hindi..

Like you said depende sa culture..