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12 January
Saturday
A NOT SO gOOD iDEA
“And we have this confidence in him…” – 1 John 5:14
It’s a stupendous idea, I thought to myself. You go, girl, I encouraged myself more.
I did my research and preparations for the grand event.
I carried out everything with every fiber of my being.
I developed the list, typed the necessary paperwork, artfully crafted each page and readied everything for our first family meeting.
But I didn’t quite pull it off. I thought “owning” the idea meant I was on my own. Because of this, the whole initial process was a disaster.
I was too confident, much too proud.
I prided myself in thinking that I had all the brilliant answers.
It had to take arguments, hurt feelings and the awkwardness that night to make me realize what a fool I was.
Little did I know that when I put my full confidence in God alone will He work wonders beyond what I could ever dream of.
That stupendous idea? Thank God, He made it flourish. In the end, it blessed many — even me. Lallaine Gogna
REFLECTION:
“Such confidence we have through Christ toward God. Not that of ourselves we are qualified to take credit for anything as coming from us; rather, our qualification comes from God.” (2 Corinthians 3-4)
Lord, this year, allow me to grow in confidence and hope of all that You have in store for me!
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the art of fadinG aWay
Today, we once again meet John the Baptist who prepared the people of Israel for the coming of Jesus. In today’s gospel, we read how John fulfilled his task and was ready to step aside and fade away.
There were still disciples of the Baptist who claimed that John was greater than Jesus and may have been the real Messiah. And so the evangelist quotes the famous words of John, “He must increase, but I must decrease.” He compares Jesus with the bridegroom and himself with the friend of the groom. The Old Testament compares Israel with a bride,and God with the bridegroom, to express the profound union between God and His people.
The bridegroom’s friend, the best man, also played an important role. Through him, the bride and bridegroom could communicate before the wedding. The friend arranged the wedding, invited the guests and presided at the weeklong wedding
feast. In the evening, he would guard the door of the bride’s room so that no false lover would enter. He was relieved from his duty when the groom comes to be with his bride.
John’s task was to bring Jesus and Israel together. He already completed his task and was ready to fade away as he joyfully exclaimed that he must decrease while Jesus must increase. What would happen from now on between Jesus and Israel was no longer his responsibility. He could only do what was in his power, and he had done it very well.
Each of us has a certain task and role to play. It would be good to be certain about this and not interfere with the tasks of others or cling to one’s position when someone else is ready to take over. Pride could be a reason. It could also be the desire to be recognized. Another reason could be lack of trust in others.
Let us be realistic. We can only do what is in our power and then let others take over. May we have the humility of John the Baptist when the time comes to let go. Fr. Rudy Horst
Reflection Question:
Do I have the tendency to cling to a position? Can I delegate and let others take over?
Prayer: Lord, let me learn from John the Baptist’s example the virtue of humility. Help me to be aware when my time comes to give way to others. And when that moment comes, let me do it with joy and not with bitterness. Help me also to say honestly at that moment that I have done what I could.
St. Tatiana, martyr, pray for us.
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Saturday
A NOT SO gOOD iDEA
“And we have this confidence in him…” – 1 John 5:14
It’s a stupendous idea, I thought to myself. You go, girl, I encouraged myself more.
I did my research and preparations for the grand event.
I carried out everything with every fiber of my being.
I developed the list, typed the necessary paperwork, artfully crafted each page and readied everything for our first family meeting.
But I didn’t quite pull it off. I thought “owning” the idea meant I was on my own. Because of this, the whole initial process was a disaster.
I was too confident, much too proud.
I prided myself in thinking that I had all the brilliant answers.
It had to take arguments, hurt feelings and the awkwardness that night to make me realize what a fool I was.
Little did I know that when I put my full confidence in God alone will He work wonders beyond what I could ever dream of.
That stupendous idea? Thank God, He made it flourish. In the end, it blessed many — even me. Lallaine Gogna
REFLECTION:
“Such confidence we have through Christ toward God. Not that of ourselves we are qualified to take credit for anything as coming from us; rather, our qualification comes from God.” (2 Corinthians 3-4)
Lord, this year, allow me to grow in confidence and hope of all that You have in store for me!
************
the art of fadinG aWay
Today, we once again meet John the Baptist who prepared the people of Israel for the coming of Jesus. In today’s gospel, we read how John fulfilled his task and was ready to step aside and fade away.
There were still disciples of the Baptist who claimed that John was greater than Jesus and may have been the real Messiah. And so the evangelist quotes the famous words of John, “He must increase, but I must decrease.” He compares Jesus with the bridegroom and himself with the friend of the groom. The Old Testament compares Israel with a bride,and God with the bridegroom, to express the profound union between God and His people.
The bridegroom’s friend, the best man, also played an important role. Through him, the bride and bridegroom could communicate before the wedding. The friend arranged the wedding, invited the guests and presided at the weeklong wedding
feast. In the evening, he would guard the door of the bride’s room so that no false lover would enter. He was relieved from his duty when the groom comes to be with his bride.
John’s task was to bring Jesus and Israel together. He already completed his task and was ready to fade away as he joyfully exclaimed that he must decrease while Jesus must increase. What would happen from now on between Jesus and Israel was no longer his responsibility. He could only do what was in his power, and he had done it very well.
Each of us has a certain task and role to play. It would be good to be certain about this and not interfere with the tasks of others or cling to one’s position when someone else is ready to take over. Pride could be a reason. It could also be the desire to be recognized. Another reason could be lack of trust in others.
Let us be realistic. We can only do what is in our power and then let others take over. May we have the humility of John the Baptist when the time comes to let go. Fr. Rudy Horst
Reflection Question:
Do I have the tendency to cling to a position? Can I delegate and let others take over?
Prayer: Lord, let me learn from John the Baptist’s example the virtue of humility. Help me to be aware when my time comes to give way to others. And when that moment comes, let me do it with joy and not with bitterness. Help me also to say honestly at that moment that I have done what I could.
St. Tatiana, martyr, pray for us.
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