How to ask your BF to Cool things down.

[mysuperjekie]

Hi Guys, pahelp naman ako kung paano ko sasabihin sa boyfriend ko na magcool-off muna kami.

Hindi nya kasi sineseyoso yung sinasabi ko like sabihin kong cool off muna tayo kasi napapagod na ko sa mga issues mo. (medyo mahilig kasi sya sa horse racing at ayaw rin nya tumigil sa pagentertain dun sa officemate nya na panay message at pagpapasundo sa kanya, sabi nya kasi friends lang sila at officemate. nakikisama lang daw.) Lagi lang nyang sinasabi na masyado lang madumi yung utak ko at naglilibang lang daw sya sa pagkakarera.

May nakapag-advise kasi sa akin na para marealize ng boyfriend ko yung mali nya is dapat mawala muna ako sa circulation ng buhay nya. Kaso hindi ko alam paano sisimulan dahil kpag inoopen ko tong topic na to sa kanya, parang wala naman nangyayari. pupunta lang sa office susunduin ako, then balik na naman. Same routine lang.

paano ko ipapaintindi sa kanya na kailangan namen ng space?

 

[third143]

nagpapa hold ka po kasi..

gayahin mo lang ginawa ni BASHA kay POPOY, im sure it will work kahit masakit sayo.

Goodluck!

 

[motoro]

I don't believe in cool offs. I think it's much better to have a heart to heart talk for one last time and then decide whether to continue or not if it bothers you that much. It's understandable why you are having concerns about his behaviors. Maybe at this point he won't understand that his "hobby" will turn into an addiction or bisyo. At the same time, his constant entertaining of his office mate isn't a good idea at all because there's a risk that he would cheat on you. Everything starts with being "friends" and even if he's really treating the office mate as friend, he should still consider your feelings. Clearly, his pakikisama is more important that what you are feeling or perhaps he unconsciously like this friend. I bet he will be upset if your male office mate is constantly driving you home. So yeah, your concerns are valid so have a heart to heart talk with him for the last time and decide.

 

[Lord Snow]

kung di sya nakikinig. gumawa ka ng eksana ung talagang makukuha mo ung atensyon nya. tsaka mo sabhin saknya. pero for sure hahabol yan at di yan basta basta papayag. worst scenario? baka mag skandalo pa yan sa work place mo. ingat nlng and goodluck!

 

[hakibuki3]

sabihin mo lang sa kanya, sigurado naman na makikinig yun sayo. Then pag nakapag usap na kayo, at sa tingin mo may nagbabago na sa kanya (maganda man o hindi) tsaka mo lang marerealize na masyado kang naging martir sa kanya, learn to speak for yourself lalo na sya mga ganyang lalaki

 

[mkvd3g]

hindi seryoso sayo yan kung ganyan ayaw ka pakinggan at unawain. Sabihin mo makikipagbreak ka sa kanya kung hindi sya mag titino

 

[vhinzup]

nagpapa hold ka po kasi..

gayahin mo lang ginawa ni BASHA kay POPOY, im sure it will work kahit masakit sayo.

Goodluck!

Like ko tong comment ni sir ^_^ tama.. !