Is it really acceptable?

[inan18]

I don’t know if this is the right place to share this feelings inside of me. Im gay and im in a relationship with a gay too. We met through Facebook and I personally met him in baguio. We’ve been together for couple of days and everything seems to be so fast. Naging kami, i went back to manila so ang set up is ldr. Ldr is pretty much the difficult situation we can ever deal with kaya gumawa ako ng paraan para magkalapit kami. Lumipat sya ng manila and eto we’re living together. Okay naman lahat since matured n kami kaya siguro ung mga simpleng away parang wala lang. I know na loyal ako kaya all these dating applications has been uninstalled on my phone when we decided to be partner. So ayun na nga I accepted na may twitter account sya and its more of “gay videos” since alam ko namang mahal nya ako.

Untill then nahuli ko syang nag install sya ng blued which we all know na pang dating app talaga where you can meet plenty of people and you can even interact with them. By the time na nalaman ko nagdahilan sya na he doesn’t know it sabe nya its just for “kalibugan thing” nagalit ako di ko pinalampas ung bagay na yon hanggang sa inuninstalled na nya kasi ako ung type n tao na vocal. Tipong kapag may nararamdaman akong masama sasabihin ko.

Right now nakita ko nanaman naka install yung blued app since tulog sya i tried to check it and see those convos I’ve seen many private invitations for video chat and then there are some na may personal message. I haven’t seen anything na pagseselosan but is it really acceptable na yung partner mo gumamit ng mga ganung app to interact woth other guy?

Im so done ayoko ng malolo kasi masakit maloko lalo na kapag matagal na relationship. Kung lokohan lang edi habang maaga putulin na ung relationship. I kept on telling him why he needs it and he always tells me na PAST TIME.

If you’re in a relationship do you really have to have that whatsocalled past time? Honestly im so confused to what’s going on. Help me understand please. Pero base on my observation sya ung tipo ng tao na mahilig manuod ng m2m and he enjoys it morethan having interaction woth me. I don’t really get it why he can’t stop these things specially may partner na sya.

Please respect its just so happen na wala akong mapagsabihan kasi tendency mga friendko magkakaroon ng impression sa kanya.

 

[chillo1]

As long as wala ka naman nakikitang kahina-hinala. I mean, kung wala ka naman nababasang ka-chat niya don or nakaka-meet dun sa dating app. Pero at the first place maiisip mo rin baka binubura niya. When he says just for kalibugan thing.. I think that's not the right app for that.. Kasi dun nakakapag interact and chat ka sa mga users so it means anytime when you're unaware, maybe.. We're not sure. Pero mas maganda sabihin mo yan sa kanya na di ka kumportable sa mga bagay na yan. Napag-uusap naman yan. At kung talagang mahal ka niya, maiintindihan niya yun. as you said, you are matured, so as him. Kaya dapat alam niya kung anong dapat iwasan. Kasi alam niya rin yung pakiramdam kapag sa kanya naman ginawa iyon.

 

[WakaTok]

para sakin ts kung Yung normal na lalaki babae na relasyon tapos yung lalaki manonood ng mga xrated na videos para sakin natural lang yun pero kung may ka chat na syang iba at iba ang pakiramdam mo sa intensyon nila hmmm alam mo na gagawin dun. pero ikaw naman nag sabi na walang reason na pag selosan diba pero sana itigil nya na yun app na yun diba

 

[jigen143]

hndi po ako gay pero nangyari na sakin yan. mahilig kami sa pc games ng gf ko at naging ka chat nya ung mga kalaro at katxt pa nakikipag meet pa. ilang beses na. pinapatawad ko lng at marami n ko binigay na chances. at nung last time nakipag hiwalay na ko kasi paulit ulit lng na un ang dahilan katulad sau. marami sya naging side bf nuon. last 3years pa yun. ganyan na ganyan sau pg kakaiba lng sa online games. magiging ka txt pa yan tas mag meetup sunod. pag usapan nyo yan ts kasi di maganda yan. kung past time may iba pa pwede gawin. manuod ng tv series. kdrama. mag badminton. at kung anu ano pa. ts. sa isang relasyon d maganda may kalandian iba. sau lng dapat sya naka focus at masaya kau parehas. yayain mo sya na maging mahilig sa ibang gawain para past time nya.

 

[hindipoakoyun]

I don’t know if this is the right place to share this feelings inside of me. Im gay and im in a relationship with a gay too. We met through Facebook and I personally met him in baguio. We’ve been together for couple of days and everything seems to be so fast. Naging kami, i went back to manila so ang set up is ldr. Ldr is pretty much the difficult situation we can ever deal with kaya gumawa ako ng paraan para magkalapit kami. Lumipat sya ng manila and eto we’re living together. Okay naman lahat since matured n kami kaya siguro ung mga simpleng away parang wala lang. I know na loyal ako kaya all these dating applications has been uninstalled on my phone when we decided to be partner. So ayun na nga I accepted na may twitter account sya and its more of “gay videos” since alam ko namang mahal nya ako.

Untill then nahuli ko syang nag install sya ng blued which we all know na pang dating app talaga where you can meet plenty of people and you can even interact with them. By the time na nalaman ko nagdahilan sya na he doesn’t know it sabe nya its just for “kalibugan thing” nagalit ako di ko pinalampas ung bagay na yon hanggang sa inuninstalled na nya kasi ako ung type n tao na vocal. Tipong kapag may nararamdaman akong masama sasabihin ko.

Right now nakita ko nanaman naka install yung blued app since tulog sya i tried to check it and see those convos I’ve seen many private invitations for video chat and then there are some na may personal message. I haven’t seen anything na pagseselosan but is it really acceptable na yung partner mo gumamit ng mga ganung app to interact woth other guy?

Im so done ayoko ng malolo kasi masakit maloko lalo na kapag matagal na relationship. Kung lokohan lang edi habang maaga putulin na ung relationship. I kept on telling him why he needs it and he always tells me na PAST TIME.

If you’re in a relationship do you really have to have that whatsocalled past time? Honestly im so confused to what’s going on. Help me understand please. Pero base on my observation sya ung tipo ng tao na mahilig manuod ng m2m and he enjoys it morethan having interaction woth me. I don’t really get it why he can’t stop these things specially may partner na sya.

Please respect its just so happen na wala akong mapagsabihan kasi tendency mga friendko magkakaroon ng impression sa kanya.

Hindi lang siguro nya into serious relationships ngayon. baka pati ikw past time nya din.

Di ko sure pero based lang to sa POV ko. May mga taong naghahanap ng forever at baka isa ka na dun. At meron namang into relationships pero fling fling lang. Landian lang pero hanggang dun na lang. Yun bang kapalit palit ka pa din.

Pwede kasing marami ng naging past relationships yan at narealize nya na hindi na rin dapat sinseryoso ang isang relationship dahil nagbbreak din naman.

Iwan mo na lang dahil mahirap if ikaw lang yung gumgawa ng way para magkaayos kayo samantalang sya naman yung gumgawa ng way para di kayo magka ayos.

Nga pala same tayo. Inuninstal ko din Tinder ko nung naging in a relationship ako and I stopped my chats with my other prospects. Pero bandang huli niloko lang din ako.

 

[motoro]

I don’t know if this is the right place to share this feelings inside of me. Im gay and im in a relationship with a gay too. We met through Facebook and I personally met him in baguio. We’ve been together for couple of days and everything seems to be so fast. Naging kami, i went back to manila so ang set up is ldr. Ldr is pretty much the difficult situation we can ever deal with kaya gumawa ako ng paraan para magkalapit kami. Lumipat sya ng manila and eto we’re living together. Okay naman lahat since matured n kami kaya siguro ung mga simpleng away parang wala lang. I know na loyal ako kaya all these dating applications has been uninstalled on my phone when we decided to be partner. So ayun na nga I accepted na may twitter account sya and its more of “gay videos” since alam ko namang mahal nya ako.

Untill then nahuli ko syang nag install sya ng blued which we all know na pang dating app talaga where you can meet plenty of people and you can even interact with them. By the time na nalaman ko nagdahilan sya na he doesn’t know it sabe nya its just for “kalibugan thing” nagalit ako di ko pinalampas ung bagay na yon hanggang sa inuninstalled na nya kasi ako ung type n tao na vocal. Tipong kapag may nararamdaman akong masama sasabihin ko.

Right now nakita ko nanaman naka install yung blued app since tulog sya i tried to check it and see those convos I’ve seen many private invitations for video chat and then there are some na may personal message. I haven’t seen anything na pagseselosan but is it really acceptable na yung partner mo gumamit ng mga ganung app to interact woth other guy?

Im so done ayoko ng malolo kasi masakit maloko lalo na kapag matagal na relationship. Kung lokohan lang edi habang maaga putulin na ung relationship. I kept on telling him why he needs it and he always tells me na PAST TIME.

If you’re in a relationship do you really have to have that whatsocalled past time? Honestly im so confused to what’s going on. Help me understand please. Pero base on my observation sya ung tipo ng tao na mahilig manuod ng m2m and he enjoys it morethan having interaction woth me. I don’t really get it why he can’t stop these things specially may partner na sya.

Please respect its just so happen na wala akong mapagsabihan kasi tendency mga friendko magkakaroon ng impression sa kanya.

If he's just watching p**n then you can probably let is slide but when a past time involves another person whether there's malice or not, it isn't acceptable already. In a way, it's a form of cheating already because if he wants to do something worthwhile especially "kalibugan things" it should be with you. There's just no reason for a person whether in a gay relationship or otherwise to still be chatting with the opposite sex because more often than not infidelity starts with an innocent chat.

 

[inan18]

I truly appreciate all of your opinion. All of it are true and i know he knows what’s the right thing naman. For me siguro andon sya sa point na nakasanayan nya yon because of his past na niloko sya. May mga times na tayong partner mag aaggree nalang tayo sa ginagawa ng partner natin para masabing hindi tayo mahigpit. I admit na mali ako sa part na i let him chat with someone for past time and he said “dck pick” reason daw. I just don’t get the point na kung may partner na dapat labas na mga ganyang bagay kasi una sa lahat hindi na single. Like what I’ve mentioned na im vocal so lahat ng sama ng loob ko sinasabe ko sa kanya. Sya naman makikinig tapos mag sosory di na daw nya uulitin and besides di nya naman daw ako ipagpapalit. One time sinabe ko “sa una masasabe moyan kasi kalibugan lang what if na fall ka jan, we’ll never know what will happen in future. Sagot nya hindi daw. Edi fine so na stop na ung hat through messager which u have an access. Itong kost recent blued naman kasi ung Twitter wala naman syang ka-DM. Itong blued kasi may nearby thing sya and tama ung we can interact with people through those dating app. For now I haven’t seen anything wrong sa convo. Pero ung mga downloaded videos acceptable naman para sakin pero ung sabihin live para sakin hindi kasi cheating na un diba.

 

[hindipoakoyun]

The problem is that LDR yung relationship nyo.

Its amazing nga na naging kayo kahit magkalayo kayo eh. Yan yung risks ng LDR. May possibility na isa sa inyo magcheat. Syempre wala ka naman dun to satisfy his sexual desires. and may mga what ifs din. What if he meets someone who is more convenient than an LDR?

Yan yung madalas nakakasira lalo na sa mga nangingibang bansa. Pero maybe I can help you pero its all up to you. Nasa sig ko yung application. When in doubt, install this in his phone. Hopefully android user sya.