masama ba magkaron ng crush or feelings sa isang kaibigan???

[smash_kamote]

bahala kayo dyan,basta ako hindi ako naniniwala sa mga ganyan..
Crush?may ganung spelling?wala sa bukabularyo ko yan

 

[ames]

Hehehe be sure lang muna sa feelings mo dood since liking is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay different from love...

Now, if you are going to ask me how would you know if you feelings are real, rather than just be attracted or infatuated? --It is love if you can see His presence and be overwhelmed by it, His presence in that person. Otherwise, it is just infatuation.

Now going back to your predicament regarding if the feeling is just one way, why should it be a concern that she should reciprocate your feelings, whatever it may be?

If you see na hindi pala two way, then it simply means there hasn't been any spark yet...a divine intervention that made her feel the same way for you too. As unpleasant as it may seem, accepting the fact that not all keys fit a certain lock will help you find a way to find the right lock rather than you insist in using the wrong key in your choice lock and ending up having your key destroyed.

Easy lang tol kasi it just means He has the right person for you to actually feel more wonderful. He has plans for you...the right and best plans

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Addendum:

An excerpt from my post in http://www.symbianize.com/showthread.php?t=38242, it goes like "...it would be very difficult for those who see you to love you in the first place, simply because you would not give a little love to yourself..."

Just a thought

very well said... no wonder,from davao ka weeeeeee hehhe.. i definitely agree w/ u.. u have to assess urself kung ano bah tlga., iba naman kasi ung "LIKE" from LOVE ryt?

the buttom line here is,ndi sya masama coz its ok pa rin n magka crush ka s friend mo.. meaning to say that u adore some of his/her characteristics & all.. pero it doesnt necessary mean naman that u love her/him na db? but if u find urself loving dat person.. then tel ur fren,pero u have to accept watever the consequences of ur action..kc db d possibilities are magkaka ilangan lng kau at mgkakaroon ng gap..w/c is more harder haayy,.kaya ask urself 1st kung wat b tlaga

 

[banayad]

Para sa akin...
Minsan kc iniicp natin na kaibigan lang natin talaga ang isang tao...At dahil dun nakukul0ng tao dun..Natatak0t lang tayo mawala ang pinag samahan...

 

[Versa]

dami ko natutuhan sa thread na ito kahit luma na... nakakarelate kasi ako, pro it was my fault kasi, dapat talaga, don't expect too much... grabe, ilang gabi rin akong hindi nakatulog dahil sa pag-iwas na ginawa niya. napakasakit ng feelings, atleast naka-move-on na ako ngaun.

 

[sheryllynn]

no, its not your fault anyway to have a crush on him.
Its just that the situation was kinda tough because your
worried about your friendship. Be true to yourself, tell him.

 

[yamii]

Ako naexperience ko na to eh. bringing back the memories.
para sa akin depende sa friend mo yan. kung paano nya tatanggapin pag naglabas ka na feelings. Pwedeng yung founded relatioship nyo as frineds eh sa isang saglit eh parang kristal na mababasag at mahirap na buuhin. pwede rin maganda ang labas dahil baka may feelings din yung friend mo para sa iyo. as for me bad talaga nangyari. we're still friends pero iba na nga ika nga. hindi na tulad ng dati. nagkaphobia na nga ata ako. kya till now im still single at nagpapakasbusy nalang sa work muna. malapit na namn Valentines day.

 

[junrad27]

hmmm..crush lang naman eh masama pagnalaman nya.d kaya magkailangan..kayu..heheh as much as possible crush lang kung ayaw mung masira ung relationship nyu as a friends..pero kung lam nuh na crush ka nya? why not...pero sa mga friends..masarap at comfortabel....baka iba lang yang filings muh..kasi nakakadala ng damdamin talaga ang friendship..eh..baka sa susunod mawaala n rn yang pilings muh..


hmmmm.....un lang pho.....

 

[yheng2392]

hindi nmn ask long as alam mong dalhin.

depende din kasi yan if seseryosohin mo. dun na magsisimula yung prob lalo na if may karelasyon sya

 

[WakaTok]

ah hindi namn ..pero nakakailang pag - nalaman nya na crush mo sya..kac baka mawala closeness nyu,,,,,,ganun hehehe

 

[mynameiscloud]

Walang masama sa ganyan ate!
Nasa taong bet mo yan kung paano nya ikaw iaapproach.

Pwede kasing deadma lang siya dun kasi ang treatment nya is un nga kapatid lang.
pwede ding maging aloof siya sayo kasi naawkwardan siya.

napaka complikado talaga ng buhay ate
Kung gsto mi mag last friendship nyo. Stop mo pero if u think na worth it naman go push lang. Kaso u have to consuder the repercussions

 

[shayydii]

depende kung gusto ka din hahahhaa

 

[Christler Pascual]

Patunayan mo na pedeng maging kayo. Ang kaibigan pag naging karelasyon mo ay pangmatagalan at nauuwi pa sa pagiging mag-asawa.. Push mo yan TS

 

[2ec4m3]

Walang masama kung magkaroon ka ng feelings sa kahit sinong tao. As in kahit sino. Tao lang tayo.

 

[cotton24]

walang masama. basta wala kang ibang masasaktan (bukod sa sarili mo).

 

[madapaka022]

Hindi masama yun kung single rin naman sya.. magiging masama lang yun kung commited na sya tapos sinusubukan mo syang makuha, etc..

Ang maiipayo ko lang sayo.. halimbawa commited na sya.. iwasan mo na lang sya at mag move on ka na.. marami ka pa namang pwedeng maging friends na iba.

if single naman kayo pareho.. hayaan mo lang yung feelings mo.. wag mong pigilan.. kasi pag pinipigilan.. mas lalong tumatagal.. if ever man na hindi nga nya maibalik sayo ung nararamdaman mo para sa kanya.. ok lang yun.. ganun talaga minsan.. basta darating din yung time na mapapagod ka rin or matatanggap mo rin na hanggang dun lang talga.

 

[niecelcream]

Okay lang naman makaappreciate ng kaibigan.
Pero yung pilitin natin silang magustuhan rin tayo o maibalik ung nararamdaman natin saknila is a No No.
Continue to love & appreciate things. Malay mo ung may gusto sayo,
Nsa tabi mo lang rin pala, baka sya matutunan mong gustuhin.

 

[2ec4m3]

wala naman sa batas na pinagbabawal yan. protektahan mo lang parati ang puso mo at wag umasa agad.

 

[chazzaeigens]

Obvious naman na hindi masama. If you guys are on the same page edi mabuti, if not then let it hit you and accept it.
Ito'y pag hanga lamang.