How can YOU unlove a person

[januaryanne]

Kakatanong lang sa akin nyan kasi. Kala ko kung ano na naman ang nangyayari. Yun pala may nakita lang sa pelkula. Hilig haluan ng kadramahan ang buhay ng ibang tao. Ayaw nila na chill lang gusto. Haha. Hirap makipag debate sayo magaling ka mag english e.

si gf?
pahumble ka pa!!
o siya off topic hiya ako kay Miss Red magofftopic
see you around

 

[jow777]

dear, your thread caught my attention. Just wanna ask a question before I say anything, do you have a child with this guy? cause you say "My husband"

 

[Miss Red]

Yes. 3 year old daughter

 

[jow777]

Yes. 3 year old daughter

it will be hard for you to forget him, kase meron kayong anak, at magkikita at magkikita kayo, if sayo nag stay ang daughter nio at gusto sya makita ng dad nya, I suggest umalis or lumabas ka ng house ka pag dadalaw ung dad nya to avoid of seeing him. best way para makalimutan or mag fade ung feelings mofor him is wag mo xa makita, tapos buhos mo lng sa daughter mo ung time and attention mo. di mo rin masasabi na di ka na magmamahal, "mahirap magsalita ng tapos" not now or next year but future there is a possibility, just find the right guy na accept kung ano ung nangyari sayo and tanggap ung anak mo.

mamaya na ulet ako nag post, nagluluto kase ako

 

[Miss Red]

it will be hard for you to forget him, kase meron kayong anak, at magkikita at magkikita kayo, if sayo nag stay ang daughter nio at gusto sya makita ng dad nya, I suggest umalis or lumabas ka ng house ka pag dadalaw ung dad nya to avoid of seeing him. best way para makalimutan or mag fade ung feelings mofor him is wag mo xa makita, tapos buhos mo lng sa daughter mo ung time and attention mo. di mo rin masasabi na di ka na magmamahal, "mahirap magsalita ng tapos" not now or next year but future there is a possibility, just find the right guy na accept kung ano ung nangyari sayo and tanggap ung anak mo.

mamaya na ulet ako nag post, nagluluto kase ako

thanks for the reply.
isa sa mga dillema ko yan. yung not seeing him kapag dinadalaw nya baby ko. kasi everytime ide-date nya yun anak namin, sinasama nya talaga ako. and syempre ayoko din naman iwan sa kanya, baka kasi itakas nya eh.
pero I requested him na rin naman to not seeing my daughter anymore kasi ayoko makita yun anak ko umiiyak kapag nagpapaalam syang iwan sya. I dont want my daughter to be hurt by the same person who hurted me even daddy nya pa yun. and besides, he already decided to be single again. he's working na nga "daw" for the annulment. and if that's what he want, I'll give it to him.

For now, iwas ako sa mga calls and texts nya. kahit yun mga text na kamusta yun bata. no need to answer that question because he already know na I wont let anything happen to our daughter para hindi sya maging ok.

Sabi nya financial support na lang daw ibibigay nya, but tinanggihan ko. kaya ko naman support ang baby ko ng wala sya. If that's the only thing he can provide to her daughter then thanks but no thanks.

madamot ba ko? but my daughter doesnt deserve a part time father. what she deserves is a full time father who can commit with her wholly. walang barkadang kaagaw.

haysss...
anyway, no hard feeling. he's already forgiven and ayun nga i still love him.
I just hope and pray na even nde mawala yun love, malagpasan ko na yun stage of missing him so much and longing for him everyday.

 

[emzie03]

@anne. Ganda ng mga sinabi mo.

Panonoorin ko din yung Starting Over Again.
Lakas makahatak e. haha! Tagos hanngang buto.

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To topic..
Title pa lang, catchy na.

I have asked myself this many times and i haven't still figure it out.
I don't know if there's any way to just unlove someone coz i know for a fact that if it's real or true love, it will always be there.

Siguro sakin, acceptance at prayer yung malaking makakatulong.
Keep yourself busy. Ganun. I know it's much easier said than done.
But as the old saying goes, time heal all wounds.

Nalungkot ako nung nabasa ko. Parang ang unfair lang na isang araw pag gising niya marerealize niya na hindi ka na niya mahal.
You'll keep asking yourself what went wrong..
Oh well.. that's life. Take it as a blessing na lang din.
I hope you'll be fine soon Ms. red.
Mag paganda ka lalo.

 

[Miss Red]

@anne. Ganda ng mga sinabi mo.

Panonoorin ko din yung Starting Over Again.
Lakas makahatak e. haha! Tagos hanngang buto.

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To topic..
Title pa lang, catchy na.

I have asked myself this many times and i haven't still figure it out.
I don't know if there's any way to just unlove someone coz i know for a fact that if it's real or true love, it will always be there.

Siguro sakin, acceptance at prayer yung malaking makakatulong.
Keep yourself busy. Ganun. I know it's much easier said than done.
But as the old saying goes, time heal all wounds.

Nalungkot ako nung nabasa ko. Parang ang unfair lang na isang araw pag gising niya marerealize niya na hindi ka na niya mahal.
You'll keep asking yourself what went wrong..
Oh well.. that's life. Take it as a blessing na lang din.
I hope you'll be fine soon Ms. red.
Mag paganda ka lalo.

thanks emzie
yes I find this trial a blessing in disguise.
I'd been receiving so much support from across the globe (literally) lalo na sa mga relatives. and the prayers were overflowing.
plus the fact na I'm into relationship with God. He blessed me so much na hindi ko inexpect.
now nakakapag-save na ko. nagagawa ko na rin yun mga bagay na di ko nagagawa noon.
I appreciate my life more than ever.

dati office-bahay-office-bahay lang ang buhay ko. now meron na kong naging life outside work and home.
I still have my time for my baby, time for myself and to God.

though, yes, sometimes tinatamaan pa rin ako ng lungkot at sakit, lalo na kapag informations are coming about my ex na his being someone his not really is. lalo na when he's conforming sa paligid nya.

I just hope and pray na time will come, we both will finally healed.

 

[jow777]

anu nga pala cause ng break up nyo? wala ata ako nabasa

Keep yourself busy. Ganun. I know it's much easier said than done.
But as the old saying goes, time heal all wounds.

takte yang keep yourself busy na yan, ginawa ko jan tulog lang ang pahinga masama nyan pag sumama pa sa panaginip

 

[Miss Red]

anu nga pala cause ng break up nyo? wala ata ako nabasa

mahabang kwento eh.
in summary - nasaktan ako, paulit-ulit (barkada, babae, bisyo). nahigpitan ko sya dahil sa mga heartaches na yun kaya one day nagising sya, nasakal na daw sya, napagod, nagsawa, gusto kumawala at magbuhay binata.

-the end-

 

[jow777]

mahabang kwento eh.
in summary - nasaktan ako, paulit-ulit (barkada, babae, bisyo). nahigpitan ko sya dahil sa mga heartaches na yun kaya one day nagising sya, nasakal na daw sya, napagod, nagsawa, gusto kumawala at magbuhay binata.

-the end-

syet! biruin mo nakakuha pa xa ng dahilan, "nasasakal daw" dapat ginawa mong literal eh di bale, my karma din yan, di man ngaun, in the near future

 

[Miss Red]

syet! biruin mo nakakuha pa xa ng dahilan, "nasasakal daw" dapat ginawa mong literal eh di bale, my karma din yan, di man ngaun, in the near future

hahaha...
ok lang naman may kaibigan, saka yun minsan alak. kaso may anak eh. kung wala sana carry lang.
saka sana ayun nga, walang babae sana

but that's it! moving on...

I dont want to pray for karma anymore.
napatawad ko na sya even di sya nag-ask ng forgivenss.

I just want to NOT FEEL anything more for him anymore, but yes, its not possible so again, moving on...

thanks for the reply

 

[januaryanne]

I can feel na you are strong woman. Parang wow natagalan mo yung mga ginagawa niya?

Maybe it happened to end up your misery from that guy. You're better off without him. Sabi nga ni emzie easier said than done (I know) pero if you'll think closely lang it has to happened this way para sa ganon magsimula ka na ng life na masasabi mong walang dinadalang baggage sa buhay.

You can do it Miss I also do believe in karma. Good and Bad

I salute you po dahil baka kung sakin nangyari yun? Hala mababaliw na siguro ko ngayon.

Show the world you're tough and can move on with a happy face. Let someone hold your hand as you walk away from that misery. Hold your daugthers hand Miss Red. Hold onto God

 

[jerryxon]

para sa akin ts.. love is a marked..
gaya na lang sa akin, kapag napamahal ako sa isang tao.. never nawawala yung nararamdaman ko sa kanya
even she do worst , yung sinsabi mong hate na hate mo siya pero sandali mawawala agad ang galit mo sa kanya

i myself has successfully move on., at only 0.0000132245455% exactly na lang ang natitirang pagmamahal ko sa ex ko, which it means
there is always love

(100%-0.0000132245455%) which is ibibigay ko sa future princess ko

 

[jow777]

hahaha...
ok lang naman may kaibigan, saka yun minsan alak. kaso may anak eh. kung wala sana carry lang.
saka sana ayun nga, walang babae sana

but that's it! moving on...

I dont want to pray for karma anymore.
napatawad ko na sya even di sya nag-ask ng forgivenss.

I just want to NOT FEEL anything more for him anymore, but yes, its not possible so again, moving on...

thanks for the reply

bilis mo naman napatawad ui love nya paren pano pag nag reconcile?

 

[Miss Red]

JOW777 - mabilis bang napatawad? actually ang tagal nga eh. isang taon din. from december 31 2013 - January 1, 2014.
haha
Basta nun nagpalit ng taon, I've decided to let go of the things that hold me back. yung naghihinder sa pagasenso at pagmove-on ko. para din naman kasi sa akin yun at sa baby ko. para lang di mabigat ang bawat hakbang.
love? yes I do. kaya nga yun title ko how can you unlove a person eh.
ang hirap kasi magmove on talaga kung everytime makikita mo sya, bumabalik yun pain pero mas nahihigitan ng love.

JANUARY, I do believe na may consequence ang mga gnagaw natin sa mundo, good or bad. and if dumating sa kanya yun, I still hope him well.
kung kabaliwan lang, I almost lost my sanity before, I just hold on to my faith and my daughter. sa kanya ko kumuha ng strength.

JERRYXON, may mark na nga eh. hindi nga talaga mawawala yun love. my natitira pa rin porsyente kahit na papaano.

sabi ko nga, I didn't love him less, I just learned to love myself more and God the most.

 

[jow777]

JOW777 - mabilis bang napatawad? actually ang tagal nga eh. isang taon din. from december 31 2013 - January 1, 2014.

haha
Basta nun nagpalit ng taon, I've decided to let go of the things that hold me back. yung naghihinder sa pagasenso at pagmove-on ko. para din naman kasi sa akin yun at sa baby ko. para lang di mabigat ang bawat hakbang.
love? yes I do. kaya nga yun title ko how can you unlove a person eh.
ang hirap kasi magmove on talaga kung everytime makikita mo sya, bumabalik yun pain pero mas nahihigitan ng love.

JANUARY, I do believe na may consequence ang mga gnagaw natin sa mundo, good or bad. and if dumating sa kanya yun, I still hope him well.
kung kabaliwan lang, I almost lost my sanity before, I just hold on to my faith and my daughter. sa kanya ko kumuha ng strength.

JERRYXON, may mark na nga eh. hindi nga talaga mawawala yun love. my natitira pa rin porsyente kahit na papaano.

sabi ko nga, I didn't love him less, I just learned to love myself more and God the most.

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joke ba yan? last mo na yan

last 2 replies mo my haha na, good sign yan

basta tatandaan mo lang ung sabi ni emzie "time heals all wounds" and walang challenges na binibigay si lord na di kayang lampasan

nacombo mo ba xa nung nalaman mong nangbabae?

 

[Miss Red]

joke ba yan? last mo na yan

last 2 replies mo my haha na, good sign yan

basta tatandaan mo lang ung sabi ni emzie "time heals all wounds" and walang challenges na binibigay si lord na di kayang lampasan

nacombo mo ba xa nung nalaman mong nangbabae?

COMBO?
hindi eh. umiyak lang ako ng umiyak. tapos ginawa kong busy sarili ko. dinaan ko sa sayaw lahat
ok di na ko magjojoke

 

[jerryxon]

COMBO?
hindi eh. umiyak lang ako ng umiyak. tapos ginawa kong busy sarili ko. dinaan ko sa sayaw lahat
ok di na ko magjojoke

babaero ba yung mahal mo?

hindi dapat nambababae ang lalaki lalo na kung mahal ka talaga niya

 

[Miss Red]

babaero ba yung mahal mo?

hindi dapat nambababae ang lalaki lalo na kung mahal ka talaga niya

define babaero?
ayoko na balikan yun nakaraan. nakapag-move on na ako dun eh.
and yes maybe hindi nga ako nya mahal.

since we can't unlove the person we love, siguro sa sinabi nya sa aking hindi nya na ko mahal, ibig siguro sabihin nun he really didn't love me.
kaya nga siguro nakagawa sya ng mga bagay na hindi dapat nya nagagawa sa taong "mahal nya".

walang in between eh noh? kapag nakapagbitaw ang tao na hindi nya na mahal ang isang tao, it's either mahal nya pa talaga yun taong yun, or hindi nya talaga minahal.

it's for me to find out siguro kung mahal nya pa ko o hindi nya talaga ako minahal?? or better, wag ko na lang alamin baka umasa lang ako, or worst masaktan ulit.

 

[jerryxon]

define babaero?
ayoko na balikan yun nakaraan. nakapag-move on na ako dun eh.
and yes maybe hindi nga ako nya mahal.

since we can't unlove the person we love, siguro sa sinabi nya sa aking hindi nya na ko mahal, ibig siguro sabihin nun he really didn't love me.
kaya nga siguro nakagawa sya ng mga bagay na hindi dapat nya nagagawa sa taong "mahal nya".

walang in between eh noh? kapag nakapagbitaw ang tao na hindi nya na mahal ang isang tao, it's either mahal nya pa talaga yun taong yun, or hindi nya talaga minahal.

it's for me to find out siguro kung mahal nya pa ko o hindi nya talaga ako minahal?? or better, wag ko na lang alamin baka umasa lang ako, or worst masaktan ulit.

ang iba kasi nambababae sila to proove:
sa pagkalalaki nila
patunayan na hindi bakla
naglalaro
para makuha ang gusto nila(you know what i mean)

pero hindi dapat ganun ginagawa nila

sa akin nga naghiwalay pa rin kami ng gf ko kahit hindi ako babaero
hindi ko alam kung bakit

hayaan mo na lang ts.. don't waste your time spending your love to a fool..