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Gandang araw mga ka SB, I would like to share some of my worries to all of the readers hoping that someone could give their bright ideas that i really needed. I am a newlywed husband and a new father to my child. I am an aviation engineer in CAAP. while my wife is just a simple housewife taking care to our newly born baby. Hindi naman ganun ka-laki income ko kasi I'm just a jr. engr. we are only renting a house somewhere in manila but my problem is my wife. I really loved her and i really love being with her. I never cheated her and lied to her kaya i think there will be no reason para magalit siya sa akin ng grabe. I ask her to do the budgeting of our finances, but she refused to accept it. dahil katwiran nya mas magaling daw ako doon. i explained her a lot but in the end sa akin parin bumalik ang assignment. kaya after work before i got home namamalengke pa ako para may dinner and take note ako pa nagluluto at nag sasaing for our dinner. OK lang naiintindihan ko kasi nga may baby syang inaasikaso. wala pa kaming masyadong mga appliances like refrigerator and washing machine para sana pag namalengke ako pwede na akong bumili ng good for a week then stock ko sa ref kaya lang wala pa talaga eh kaya no choice kundi mamalengke everyday. nag papa-laundry din ako ng damit namin kasi hindi raw nya kakayaning labhan mga damit namin at ng baby kasi nga wala pa kaming washing machine. To make the story short i do all the house work stuff and even after dinner i do baby sitting to give my wife short break..
Ang problema ko mga ka SB my wife accusing me na wala daw akong pakialam sa kanila ng baby ko, selfish daw ako at sarili ko lang daw iniintindi ko.
Di ko makita on what point na nasabi nya na ganoon ako. Samantalang i did all my best to be a good husband and a father to our child. Even when I woke up in the morning i fixed my own coffee and prepare my stuff while she was still asleep.? I never asked her to do a favorfor me yet sa kabila ng lahat ako parin ang mali? Now I am asking to my self mahal ba nya talaga ako???? ano gagawin ko? I am afraid na kapag di nagbago ang routine namin baka ma fallout of love ako... kasi I never felt na asawa nya ako. even in bed she's as cold as ice!.... I loved her that much and for our baby but my worries are baka ma fall out of love ako at mag karoon ng attensyon sa iba..... ano po ba dapat na tama kong gawin..........
Looking forward to your sensible advice......
Ang problema ko mga ka SB my wife accusing me na wala daw akong pakialam sa kanila ng baby ko, selfish daw ako at sarili ko lang daw iniintindi ko.
Di ko makita on what point na nasabi nya na ganoon ako. Samantalang i did all my best to be a good husband and a father to our child. Even when I woke up in the morning i fixed my own coffee and prepare my stuff while she was still asleep.? I never asked her to do a favorfor me yet sa kabila ng lahat ako parin ang mali? Now I am asking to my self mahal ba nya talaga ako???? ano gagawin ko? I am afraid na kapag di nagbago ang routine namin baka ma fallout of love ako... kasi I never felt na asawa nya ako. even in bed she's as cold as ice!.... I loved her that much and for our baby but my worries are baka ma fall out of love ako at mag karoon ng attensyon sa iba..... ano po ba dapat na tama kong gawin..........
Looking forward to your sensible advice......