alam nyo yung parang nasa perfrct relationship ka na tapos all of the sudden you needed to say goodbye to each other?
I have this relationship for 4years. we met lang sa chaf meaning its a LDR for 6months his from bacolod and im from manila. after 6months he decided to stay here in manila for good para dito n mgwork at para makasama ako. imthe happiest lady nung panaon n yun. and then it was so perfect there's trust, love and loyalty. para rin kming magbestfriend alam nyo ung sobrang comfortable ka pag magkasama kayi. hatid sundo sa school magkausap araw araw, pag my problema sabay namin nilulutas, pag may magandang nangyari sabay kami nag cecelebrate.
vocational lang natapos niya and km currently taki g a bachelors degree, i wanted him to pursue his studies para nman hindi siya maliitin ng family ko. then he decided to go sa abroad. so ako naman go ako support lang ang peg ko mas okay yun kasi makakaipon siya pera para pavuwi niya makapag aral siya yun ag plano namin. but all of the sudden things changed. sa june ang flight niya. the last time we talk is last march pa. i was shocked sa nangyari when i asked him ano plano niya pagbalik niya. then he said., yung maiipon niyang pera ipapagawa niya ng bahay at pagaaralin niya kpatid niya and i was like WTF? sa mga sinabi niya wala ako at hindi niya ako nabanggit sa plano niya. .
then another problem came. guess what. nagbago na siya. he wanted to change religion. were both catholic but he decided to convert (hindi ko n sasabihin anong religion) and pinipilit niya ako na magpaconvert kasama niya. which is ayoko! bakit moko pipilitin palitan ang pniniwala ko. he got mad at me. sabi niya, mas pipiliin daw niya yung babaeng kaya siya pakinggan at iisa sila ng paniniwala and then sabi ko sa isip ko WTF is happening. .? soni broke uo with him kasi hindi na kami nagkakaundo puro n lng debate.
there was a time na his preaching me then sabi ko "mag pari ka na lng kaya" then sabi niya sakin "ayoko sa bible nakalagay iisa lng and dpt na tinatawag na father at yun yung naglikha sa atin. " (syepmpre debate na naman sknce iba na paniniwala niya)
and now im moving on. yeah mahirap i admit.. kasi wala ako mahugutan ng lakas. ang hirap pala mg move on kapag yung taong partner mo eh hindi ka niloko at minahal ka talaga. i guess thats life. lahat talaga may ending. and now im afraid to have a relationship again. . i might end up as matandang dalaga now i know yung feeling.
i need advice tama ba ginawa ko? kumalas ako?
I have this relationship for 4years. we met lang sa chaf meaning its a LDR for 6months his from bacolod and im from manila. after 6months he decided to stay here in manila for good para dito n mgwork at para makasama ako. imthe happiest lady nung panaon n yun. and then it was so perfect there's trust, love and loyalty. para rin kming magbestfriend alam nyo ung sobrang comfortable ka pag magkasama kayi. hatid sundo sa school magkausap araw araw, pag my problema sabay namin nilulutas, pag may magandang nangyari sabay kami nag cecelebrate.
vocational lang natapos niya and km currently taki g a bachelors degree, i wanted him to pursue his studies para nman hindi siya maliitin ng family ko. then he decided to go sa abroad. so ako naman go ako support lang ang peg ko mas okay yun kasi makakaipon siya pera para pavuwi niya makapag aral siya yun ag plano namin. but all of the sudden things changed. sa june ang flight niya. the last time we talk is last march pa. i was shocked sa nangyari when i asked him ano plano niya pagbalik niya. then he said., yung maiipon niyang pera ipapagawa niya ng bahay at pagaaralin niya kpatid niya and i was like WTF? sa mga sinabi niya wala ako at hindi niya ako nabanggit sa plano niya. .
then another problem came. guess what. nagbago na siya. he wanted to change religion. were both catholic but he decided to convert (hindi ko n sasabihin anong religion) and pinipilit niya ako na magpaconvert kasama niya. which is ayoko! bakit moko pipilitin palitan ang pniniwala ko. he got mad at me. sabi niya, mas pipiliin daw niya yung babaeng kaya siya pakinggan at iisa sila ng paniniwala and then sabi ko sa isip ko WTF is happening. .? soni broke uo with him kasi hindi na kami nagkakaundo puro n lng debate.
there was a time na his preaching me then sabi ko "mag pari ka na lng kaya" then sabi niya sakin "ayoko sa bible nakalagay iisa lng and dpt na tinatawag na father at yun yung naglikha sa atin. " (syepmpre debate na naman sknce iba na paniniwala niya)
and now im moving on. yeah mahirap i admit.. kasi wala ako mahugutan ng lakas. ang hirap pala mg move on kapag yung taong partner mo eh hindi ka niloko at minahal ka talaga. i guess thats life. lahat talaga may ending. and now im afraid to have a relationship again. . i might end up as matandang dalaga now i know yung feeling.
i need advice tama ba ginawa ko? kumalas ako?