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Re: Who want's to learn more about girls Mind.
Ok since naglakas loob kang magsabi ng problema mo... I will give you my personal opinion andalso my advice.
In my personal opinion first thing you need to do is observe your way of treating her, you didn't mention on your post your real intentions toward her and the treatment you're showing her as you explain is not that elaborated.
If I' am not mistaken you're around 16-18 years of age is it not? You might have some affection towards your cousin or infatuations. You need to be careful of your feelings, because it might grow to something sensual type of interest. I understand what you are going through here Ok! Don't get me wrong, but she's your cousin.
Ok now for the advice...
I hope you will not use this as your advantage towards the situation...
She's falling in to you... she's shy because she doesn't know how to tell you or to react on this kind of situation and she's avoiding you maybe her conscience is affecting her desicion making weather to tell you or not.
Or...
The other side of the coin.
She's falling to some else and she feels that if she tell you the real score you might not like like it. It's like protecting you from getting hurt... Naaah!
I prepare my first opinion...
My advice, ask her in person, tell her something like "Alam mo nakakahalata nako syo feeling ko may nagbago na syo siguro may crush o in love na ang favorite cousin ko noh!"
If you hit the right spot... magsasabi yung ng parang ganito "hindi ah!" with a big denial on her face.
From there it's your call, I show you the door its up to you to walk inside.
Remember this!
Your actions will tell you who you are in the future, so be careful to choose the path... regrets is always in the last of your list... so choose carefully
Sir,
i aint really sure if this is the proper thread to post my question so sorry po if mali man...
i just need advice on what to do or how to handle a girl...
bigla nlng kasi di nagtetext, bihira kme magkta kasi tga qc siya, nagkkta lang kme pag may family gatherings, now bigla na siya di nagtetext, bihirang bihira na as in mga tipong once a month..tapos naiilang na sa personal...pero dati eh close kme...
im actually talking about my cousin...wala ako nagawang mali im sure of it... kung alagaan ko un parang kapatid ko na un..she's 14... ano kaya tamang gawin para makuha ko attention nya??
salamat po.
Ok since naglakas loob kang magsabi ng problema mo... I will give you my personal opinion andalso my advice.
In my personal opinion first thing you need to do is observe your way of treating her, you didn't mention on your post your real intentions toward her and the treatment you're showing her as you explain is not that elaborated.
If I' am not mistaken you're around 16-18 years of age is it not? You might have some affection towards your cousin or infatuations. You need to be careful of your feelings, because it might grow to something sensual type of interest. I understand what you are going through here Ok! Don't get me wrong, but she's your cousin.
Ok now for the advice...
I hope you will not use this as your advantage towards the situation...
She's falling in to you... she's shy because she doesn't know how to tell you or to react on this kind of situation and she's avoiding you maybe her conscience is affecting her desicion making weather to tell you or not.
Or...
The other side of the coin.
She's falling to some else and she feels that if she tell you the real score you might not like like it. It's like protecting you from getting hurt... Naaah!
I prepare my first opinion...
My advice, ask her in person, tell her something like "Alam mo nakakahalata nako syo feeling ko may nagbago na syo siguro may crush o in love na ang favorite cousin ko noh!"
If you hit the right spot... magsasabi yung ng parang ganito "hindi ah!" with a big denial on her face.
From there it's your call, I show you the door its up to you to walk inside.
Remember this!
Your actions will tell you who you are in the future, so be careful to choose the path... regrets is always in the last of your list... so choose carefully