Be The Man of her dreams...
ts paano ko mababalik spark naming dalawa kasi almost 2yrs na kami at hindi ko magagawa yang payo. Long distance relationshp kami dun kasi sya nag aral sa manila ngaun gusto lumakas ulit ang spark niya sakin. Kasi napapansin ko parang humihina spark niya eh. Nagkikita kami kapag vacation at legal kami sa parents niya. Hindi oan ako pwd pumunta sa dorm niya kasi hectic ang sched namin. Ang magagawa ko lang ay thru call,txt and video call ayan lang ang communication naming dalaw. Gusto ko sya mapakilig sa twing pagod sya galing school,kapag busy, kapag stress. Yun tipong kapag narinig niya boses ko mapapangiti sya. Tapos kapag dumating na yun araw na nagkita kami kapag umuwi sya dito un kikiligin sya . Ts ang hirap ng long distance relationshp tapos bilang lang pagkikita niyo sana matulungan mo ako
Pare sensa na kung ngayon lang ako nakasagot sa tanong mo regarding your problem...
There are things you're missing sa situation nyo, but I don't blame you though long distance relationship is a very tough relationship to maintain.
1. Faith
2. Hope
3. Love
these are the three important key in a true relationship. in some translation of the bible it says there charity not Love.
Corinthians 13:13
there are also nurturing factor to remember for her to realize that not having you is a big lost on her side...
This is not about techniques or how you get her attention, but how you give her attention that she will always think of you as her lover, friend, father, brother, her manliligaw, teacher, and the most important character you need to imbed on your personality is "your her personal super hero" again I woud like to reiterate what i said
"YOU NEED TO BE HER PERSONAL SUPER HERO".
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lover - give her special attention that it would sound like shes almost everything for you. pero don't shower her too much attention baka naman magsawa syo agad.
Advice: puntahan mo sya kahit once a month sa manila kailangan pare di nya alam para malakas ang dating, yung masusurpresa sya sa gagawin mo... of course with flowers parang nanliligaw ka -- kung di mo naman kailangan bumyahe ng barko kasi pare relationship is like a business to maintain you need to invest. More investment more money in the future - it means that you need to give more and expect less--- that's Love.
friend - kailangan andiyan ka palagi sa tabi nya kaso pano mangyayari yun kung long distance, simple; always make her feel nasa tabi ka kapag kausap mmo sya sa phone, always think kapag kausap mo sya sa phone parang kausap mo sya na kaharap mo sya. isipin mo na parang nasa harap mo sya, alam mo kasi sa tono parang ng pananalita natin nararamdaman ng kausap natin kung ano feelings natin, but be careful kasi baka mamis interpret ka.
Father - you need to guide her kasi malayo sya somtimes she feel lost without you knowing it. feel her sometimes as if like you need to set aside your feelings instead intindihin mo sya sa mga pagkukulang nya... be careful kasi baka naman maging sandalan ka lang at di na maging boyfriend - so you need to fix things up like mix martial arts - you need to study more than 3 style of fighting and mix it... OK!
brother - you need to sound like a brother A Big brother - sometimes like you need to joke around with no green joke or plain and simple talk sometimes.
Manliligaw - that's why you need to see her even 2 a month for you to know her needs and wants in life...
para may idea ka kung ano minsan ang tulong na magagawa mo. maybe she need to be pampered paminsan minsan. susuyuin mo sya:
Advice: puntahan mo sya sa school nya then alam mo na ang time lang is for the two of you to eat then do it... para mafeel nya na special sya syo ang lakas a pogi points yun... Yun yung paraan para lagi ka nyang maramdaman na nasa tabi ka lang nya kasi you're giving her attention that no one could do it.
teacher - nuture her with teachings of love, HOW? simple every time na magkasama kayo. wag mo laging sasabihing mahal mo sya kasi magsasawa yun don't say it make her feel it... turuan mo kung pano ka nya maalala sa paraang ikaw ang lahat ng sinabi ko... at kahit babae ang tanungin mo pare "two thumbs up pa sila kung buong buo mong gagawin ito...
"action speak louder that voice"
Super hero - never tell her napapagod ka sa mga ginagawa mo para sa kanya - at kung pagod ka itago mo parin ng maka sampung beses... kasi pare kahit anong tago yung di mo pinepeke ang pagtatago ng pagod mo kasi marami karing ginagawa, mararamdaman din nila yun di sila manhid. kailangan kapag kasama mo sya o kahit nasa phone ka lang laging refreshing ang tunog ng boses mo... para mahawa sya sa ganung pakiramdam...
kasi pakiramdam ko kung matamlay sya sa phone, sasabayan mo pa tapos magtatampo karin kasi sasabihin mo wala na syang time - maling mali yun be assertive. Ikaw ang lalaki ikaw ang laging may sulusyon
WHY:
Please read this no matter how they said malakas sila may kahinaan parin sila kasi babae sila:
1 Peter 3:7
"...na pakundangan ang babae, na gaya ng marupok na sisidlan..."
Ang mga babae may kahinaan din yan wala akong sinasabing wala tayong kahinan, pero kaya tayo ginawang lalaki para manindigan at sandalan kaso minsan may mga lalaking di ginagawa ang obligasyon nila bilang lalaki...
I hope I hit the perfect spot for all the guys out there... and for girls siguro naman pumapalakpak na mga tenga nyo...
Oo inaamin ko na kailangan kong sabihin ang lahat ng ito para sa mga lalaking may mga pagkukulang din sa relationship nila...
pero ako ngayon tinatamad na ako sa pagiging MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ehh.. di kaya madaling manligaw! gumagawa ako ng effort pero sa huli, DI PLA TLGA PWDE MAGING KMI ZZZZZ.
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ts!
