If someone leaves you for someone else — or you discover that someone already was getting their ducks in a row to make or force an exit, while keeping you 100% in the dark — that person will certainly do it again. There are just some people who, when things turn temporarily bad, start looking for someone — anyone — who will take them so they can make their exit, leaving their partners behind.
Ordinary decent people understand, and they work problems out with their partners; if there is an unsurmountable problem, they will seek to end the relationship first, before finding comfort in the arms of another person.
The cheater, on the other hand, distances themselves from their partner while making themselves available to others — that is, either signaling to or pursuing other potential partners — until someone bites. This someone is usually an unscrupulous and desperate type, who couldn't get anyone else, not even from the bottom of the barrel.
What distinguishes good people from low-quality people isn't how they act when they are happy and fulfilled. It's how they respond when temptation appears. Low-quality people lie, cheat and betray. Good people do the right thing.
Unless you have a severe mental disorder, it really isn't all that out of the ordinary to do the right thing.
I was in a five year relationship with a cheater. His reason was he fell out of love and na-fall siya sa girl since same interests nila. But, inamin niya na hindi lang si girl yung chinat niya, yung girl lang talaga na yon yung pumatol sa kanya kaya 'he dropped me like a hot potato.'
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