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So I have a ka-talking stage right now and we have been talking for almost a month already. I think I have fallen for her and I already confessed that I do like her. Her reaction to my confession was not the usual reaction, hindi siya very reactive sa nalaman niya instead she just said with a playful tone "hahaha buang". So I assumed right then na she's also interested with me. But if I remember it correctly, she told me na these past few months nag sosocmed detox siya wherein for a few days or so, di siya nag checheck ng IG, FB, at messenger, but I think I did not asked more on that, parang ang naalala ko lang is gulong gulo daw isip niya and she has to reset every month. I did not asked her specific details baka kasi ma feel niya na nanghihimasok na ako sa buhay niya kahit we've only known each other for a few weeks. But We kept on talking after that - every day chats and telebabad for 2-4 hrs almost everyday. We also have met once, it was just a tambay at one of the highest point sa city and okay lang sa kanya na magka holding hands kami. A few days after that gala, I gave her something since palagi niya itong nababangit kapag nag-uusap kami sa phone. And to my surprise she sent me a message that she wants to give the gift back. She appreciates it naman daw and thankful and happy siya sa binagay ko but her past trauma triggered because of that - nasumbatan na daw siya dati sa mga bagay na binigay sa kanya kaya ngayon ayaw niyang makatanggap ng gifts from anyone. I respected her decision na man and I received the gift back.
Now the problem is, it has been 4 days since that happened. She hasn't replied to my messages yet, didn't answered any of my calls. So I thought baka nag sosocmed detox na siya but no, she viewed my IG story just a little while.
So my question now is, do you really think she's still interested with me? - I only assumed na she's interested with me because her actions says so. Also, do you think this is ghosting already?
Any advices on what can I do next? Gulong gulo na ako, puyat na puyat na ako kaka overthink...
So I have a ka-talking stage right now and we have been talking for almost a month already. I think I have fallen for her and I already confessed that I do like her. Her reaction to my confession was not the usual reaction, hindi siya very reactive sa nalaman niya instead she just said with a playful tone "hahaha buang". So I assumed right then na she's also interested with me. But if I remember it correctly, she told me na these past few months nag sosocmed detox siya wherein for a few days or so, di siya nag checheck ng IG, FB, at messenger, but I think I did not asked more on that, parang ang naalala ko lang is gulong gulo daw isip niya and she has to reset every month. I did not asked her specific details baka kasi ma feel niya na nanghihimasok na ako sa buhay niya kahit we've only known each other for a few weeks. But We kept on talking after that - every day chats and telebabad for 2-4 hrs almost everyday. We also have met once, it was just a tambay at one of the highest point sa city and okay lang sa kanya na magka holding hands kami. A few days after that gala, I gave her something since palagi niya itong nababangit kapag nag-uusap kami sa phone. And to my surprise she sent me a message that she wants to give the gift back. She appreciates it naman daw and thankful and happy siya sa binagay ko but her past trauma triggered because of that - nasumbatan na daw siya dati sa mga bagay na binigay sa kanya kaya ngayon ayaw niyang makatanggap ng gifts from anyone. I respected her decision na man and I received the gift back.
Now the problem is, it has been 4 days since that happened. She hasn't replied to my messages yet, didn't answered any of my calls. So I thought baka nag sosocmed detox na siya but no, she viewed my IG story just a little while.
So my question now is, do you really think she's still interested with me? - I only assumed na she's interested with me because her actions says so. Also, do you think this is ghosting already?
Any advices on what can I do next? Gulong gulo na ako, puyat na puyat na ako kaka overthink...