Re: Who want's to learn more about girls Mind.
Bravo!
Naka-relate ako dito paps, kahit late ko na nabasa ito. Malaking bagay yung advice mo in the long run kasi, in my experience, torpe talaga ako dati, nung nag college na ako, tahimik lang, tapos tamang tiyempo para makilala ang isang gorgeous girl tapos onting lakas ng loob. Nanginginig din ako kapag nakikipag-usap sa kanila. Tama ka din, kapag nakilala ko na sila at nakakausap na, ang topic namin palagi yung interest niya pero ang mali ko, habang tumatagal ang usapan parang sa huli ako yung nagiging bida ahahha!
pero hindi sa ganun, parang dun na pumapasok yung sinasabi mong "maangas pero maamo". At tsaka share ko lang, na develop lang yung self-confidence ko nung nag college na ako, takot din sa rejection but later mare-realize mo na hindi mo pa nga sinusubukan, natatakot ka na. Don't fear the future, take time lang mga tol.
May tanong ako, totoo ba yung "MAGINOO PERO MEDYO BASTOS"?
In what way?
Una Ganda ng sundot mo...
Ngulat ako dun tapos bigla kang magtatanong ng pano maging "Maginno pero medyo bastos"?
Makinabukasan ka tol...
Ok before anything else, I would like to remind you guys once you overcome you fear specially with girls, I'm telling you you might become a successful person in the furture, the KEY is CONFIDENCE...
Ok guys...
Preo di natatapos dun yon... Ano kulang..
Technique on how to execute the action, good strategy and you should refine your personality... to become pesonality in the eyes of your prospect...
I hope you understand my opinion here.
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OK! now, for the most awaiting answer to one of the qualities girls like....
The how and why.
First, you need to understand how girls think, also in this forum I read some of the girls comment about personalities they like about
us guys... Don't be surprise I'am right anyway the BadBoy image, also known as Maginoo na medyo bastos. You know why guys?
Please never ever forget this statement ok... I am going to Highlight this one for you all...
GIRLS WANT TO FEEL THAT THEY EARN YOU... period
So you need to put value to yourself, make them feel that you are
the one... and the only Man for them...
Ok here's one qualities that may get their attention pero pano yan
pagsinulat ko dito malalaman nila isa sa mga secret ko...
Well!!! sana dahil mahaba ako sumagot di nila mabasa itong
important part na ito...
Are you with me here guys...
Girls are used to our approach na we give crowd her with too much attention for example if she is so pretty and very attractive,
by that connotation in mind you must also have this thought, that she is getting most of the attention from us guys.
Always think that its like more than a thousand suitor already court her with stupid technique like shower her with lavish gifts,
attention, get her to date you, give her flowers every day...
UUlalala! mayaman ka yata baka magustuhan ka na nito. yun eh kung kayaman ang gutso makukuha mo nga itong girl na ito.
But here is the common mistake...
You always want to impress the girl which is a very very common mistake.
Why?
to impress her is not to impress her at all.
and the be yourself saying is fully of stupidity, believe me I know...
coz if that is the advice you always get... yun nga ang dahilan
bakit ka laging busted sa mga babae kasi you act like yourself.
ang problema being yourself is kalokohan liban na meron kang
alam about girls at kung alam mo sila magisip at alam mong sumagot sa mga test nila... also one thing guys girls are always
testing us kapag bago pa kayo... if you keep on failing makikita mo, kapag nagyaya kang lumabas sasabihin nila, I'am sorry but i'm
too busy with work, or with studies, or worse sorry talaga kasi di
pa ako handa sa ganitong relationship.
hinabaan ko yan para di basahin ng mga girls hehehe!
So pano ka magiging kakaiba at you can stand out from the many. Be different yung magandang ibig sabihin ng be different, baka
naman intindi mo eh yung para kang out of this world manamit
tapos makikipag kilala ka... talagang maba-busted ka nga.
What I mean by be different is simple actually. but of course you
need to present your self like a nobleman..
Eto na... manapit nako, just just a reminder no skipping baka
malaki ang mawala sa inyo...
when you talk to a woman that you think shes intellegent and so
gorgeous. you need to get her attention...
Guys pakiusap wag nyong sabihin sa girl napaka ganda mo pwede ba kitang makilala. lumang luma na yun... But here's the catch say
that with a badboy image pare patok yun with a very intriguing voece that it sound like it came from the well na sobrang baba.
then say afterward smile a little and say something like effective ba approach ko... nakakatawa pero rock...
then tease her like tell he something like you know, what you look like my sister, kaso kapag may hindi ako nagustuhan sa kanya
pinapalo ko sya sa puwit, kaya wag kangtatawa baka may di ako magustuhan... then pause, pause, pause, then say mahirap na
kamukha mo panaman talaga. baka ma... lang kita..
She will anticipate kasi kung bibitinin mo sya sa sasabihin mong baka ma... lang kita, sya na kasi ang magdudugtong nun but don't
smile big, laging maliit lang ang smile mo, kung di ka marunong pagaralan mo lahat naman kayang pagaralan lalo't gusto mong matututo.
that's it you already invaded her space with a very interesting approach pero of course iba iba ang sitwasyon isa lang yan sa
technique...
Now the dare part... I dare you to try it guys.. its effective.
Here another way...
walk like a badboy in approaching her to make more interesting eyes are straight " I love this one" then say something.
Ikaw: Hi!
She: hi!
Ikaw: I like your dress, parang ganyan din kasi yung favorite ng
nanay ko you remind me of her. (then smile a little)
she: anong akala mo sakin manang, for your information this is
something cheap ladies cannot affort. (medyo iirap un)
Ikaw: Hahaha! para ka palang spoiled brat but I love it, ang totoo
sinadya ko yun to get your attention, pano kasi para kang uptight.
eh nalaman ko kapareho ka lang din ng mga friend ko babae.
She: Hahaha! nagpapatawa.
Ikaw: oo naman kaya ka nga natawa. But I like your style. Ok bye
then sabihin mo alis kana tapos talikod ka lakad ka ng isa, dalawang hakbang tapos humarap ka sa kanya, biglain mo with a
deep voice na bago ko makalimutan pwede ko bang malaman phone no mo.
ung ganitong simple usapan may kabastusan pero kung magpapatawa ka makakalimutan ng girl yung badboy approach
mo at mapapalitan yun ng tanong sa sarili ng kakaiba ang dating nito, maiintriga sya syo at dun maguumpisa ang magandang
usapan nyo. Again do not crowd here too much kaya mag-alibi ka aakis nako, para maisip nya anong nangyari bakit ako biglang
iniwan nun, eh tapos bigla kang bumalik to get her phone no# and name eh nasa state of shock pa sya, out of no nowhere
maibibigay nya syo un kasi di pa nya alam kung bakit parang kakaiba ang dating mo.
Get the point here. GUYS!